QUESTION:
What part of the heat period does a dog become fertile to get pregnant?
I would like to know when is a dogs feritle time to become pregnant. The bleeding starts, I know and then she gets puffy and then it seems for days and days he humps her and smells her and she dances around and lets him smell and she moves her tail. Then it all stops. Day before it stops she is bred. Or 2 days before. Chance of her being pregnant? Later going to neuter my male. He is bigger than her and dont want puppies How can I tell

• ANSWER:
  i dont quite understand. you had them together but you don’t want them to breed? since i don’t quite understand i’ll answer it two ways. if you want them to breed you should keep them together all three weeks. the first part is for them to get used to each other but she won’t let the male mount her. the last part is where she allows the male to mount her and they connect which is when conception occurs. to answer the other part. if you didn’t want them to breed you should have separated them. and if you think she might be pregnant you can always go to the vet and get an emergency spay. they will spay her and abort the pregnancy. hope i answered your question.

QUESTION:
How long does it take sperm to become fertile after masturbation?
Things are starting to get serious between my Girlfreind and I, however she still has a couple years of studying at university left. I wouldn’t like to make her pregnant and the problem is that she is under perscription medication which renders “the pill” useless as one of it’s side effects………I have heard that if I masturbate before making love to her then the sperm will be infertile. Please help as she still has her whole life ahead of her and I wouldn’t like to cut her education short.

• ANSWER:
  You really do need some education about these things.

  Masturbation does not render anyone infertile, so you are kidding yourself and putting her at risk of pregnancy if you believe such nonsense.

  You sperm is always fertile unless you have suffered an accident, illness or surgical interruption to the seminal supply. Masturbation does not affect it at all.

QUESTION:
How long to become fertile after stopping talking pill?
My partner and I have deccided to try for a baby. I stopped taking my pill (Mycrogynon 30) about a month ago and I know it could take anything from a month to a year to come out of your system, I just want to ask someone who knows from experience how long it took them…?

• ANSWER:
  I was on the same pill about 3 years ago and decided to come off it to try with my partner at the time and I got pregnant straight away it was the month after my real period( 1st one after stopping pill)

  Hope this helps

  Baby dust for you x

QUESTION:
How long did it take you to become fertile after getting off depo?
How long did it take for you to get pregnant after quitting Depo provera??

I’m just curious. I’m on depo, but I am not ready for children, I just don’t want the depo to affect me when I do want to start having children. Would it be adviced to stop using depo and use the pill instead?

• ANSWER:
  It took me about six months, but everyone different..

QUESTION:
how long after meth use will a man become fertile again?
my fiance used meth for 3 years, we are having trouble conceiving, was wondering how long it could take for him to become fertile again?

• ANSWER:
  Your husband is probably fertile to some point but i wouldn’t try for a baby until he’s been completely sober for at least a year or two. Your baby could come out addicted to meth and have some serious health problems.

QUESTION:
How many weeks do i need use zinc and folic acid to become fertile?
I’m 34 years old and i think i have Infertility problems,anyway about a month ago i started to use supplements im useing lecithin,zinc,and folic acid to help my sperm count,my question is how many weeks do i need to use these supplements before i can get any results,my girlfriend wants to have a baby as soon as possible.

• ANSWER:
  You are probably fertile now. But I have heard that it takes about 3 months of taking any kind of supplement for it to be in full effect. Good luck

QUESTION:
How do i become fertile after getting off the Depo Provera shot?
I got off the depo shot last august in 2008… my fiance and i want a baby but i’m not ovulating. its been 14 months… what can i do to speed up the process of the drugs to leave my body for good? Someone please help me

• ANSWER:
  I had that same problem, so I went on the pill for two months to get regular. It’s cheaper than Clomid! I got pregnant the second month after I got off the pill.

QUESTION:
How can I get my ostrich (Boris) to become fertile?
I have been running a small ostrich farm for the past few years and I have acquired a new male ostrich who does not seem to be attracted to the female ostriches. He is currently my only male and I am looking to increase the size of my farm. Should I deprive him of food until he begins to mate? Also how do you feel about artificial insemination on ostriches?

• ANSWER:
  How old is he?
  He is 3 to 4 years old correct? otherwise he probably hasn’t become mature yet
  I know you know all this stuff but where are you?
  It might not be breeding season. You want the days to become longer not shorter.
  Not giving him food will not get him to mate either. It will in fact make him weak and he will be even less likely to breed.

  As for artificial insemination that is big research for the large ostrich farms.
  Right now they have to split 3 females to one male. This separation means a lot of pens and farm hands.

  To create large numbers the ranchers wish to find a way to have basically no males on their farms and only have hens who they inseminate.

  http://www.roostercogburn.com/about.html

  is a big driver in that field.

QUESTION:
What age does a male rabbit become fertile? 10 points?
so last night i got my new bunny out he is now 3 month old and he started to hump my female rabbit who is 8 month old.
1. Is he fertile will she become pregnant.
2. If she is pregnant how long will it take for her to give birth.
3. How do i clean the cage out if she has a litter
4. When can i touch the babies?

please answer in order

• ANSWER:
  1) Males are fertile as young as 10 weeks of age, so he is definitely old enough.
  2) Females are pregnant for about 28-32 days on average, sometimes they can go 35 days.
  3) You should give her a nest box 1 week before she is due, she will have them in there. You may have to remove soiled bedding from the nest box every once in a while, but this does make cleaning the rest of the cage easier.
  4) Babies can be touched/handled from day one with no ill effects. Just pet the mother down first to reduce foreign smells. Also, don’t stress her out. Keep messing with her and the babies at a minimum. Moms don’t eat their babies because you touch them, they do this if they feel in danger.

  I used to breed 20 breeds of show rabbits, so I know a lot about them. If you have any more questions feel free to ask. Also, try not to let your rabbits breed again. Rabbits are the 3rd most homeless animal in the US. Only pedigreed, purebred high quality rabbits should be bred. Good luck with your future babies!

QUESTION:
How soon after a woman gives birth does she become fertile again??
Also how much higher are the chances of becoming pregnant right after giving birth opposed to becoming pregnant normally????

• ANSWER:
  That is when she is most fertile (after giving birth). Same as after having a miscarriage (that;s when I conceived my son).

QUESTION:
How do I become fertile again after DEPO???
I took my first and last shot on April 01, 2008 and decided not to take it again because we were planning on getting pregnant. I have been bleeding since June now and just want my normal cycle back! Is there anything I can do or take to help accomplish being normal? I know this is really common, but I’m really frustrated and don’t know what to do about it!

• ANSWER:
  I had 3 depo shots, and my last one was about 5 years ago. My husband and I have been TTC for 3+ years and we haven’t had any luck. I honestly think the reason we can’t conceive is because of the shot. I really hope things work out better for you, than they have worked out for me and my husband.

QUESTION:
Help how can I become fertile n ovulate n become pregnant?
How can I be fertile n ovulate n become pregnant what can I do I need help I been trying to get pregnant but I wanna know what can I do to become pregnant n to be fertile n to ovulate but I haven’t had my period for five months

• ANSWER:
  If you haven’t had a period in 5 months, you need to see your doctor to find out why.

  If you are not having a period, then you are not ovulating (a period is the result of ovulation and failed pregnancy) and you cannot get pregnant if you are not ovulating.

QUESTION:
at what age does a male cat become fertile?
i have a pedigree female curly selkrik rex who is 10 and ahalf months old, and i also have a male selkrik rex who is 19 weeks i would likee to breed them, neither is showing any interest in each other

how do i know when she comes into heat? she rarely miows she just ignores the male or tries to scracth him
the male just seems to want to play.
what are my chances of success?

• ANSWER:
  Cat are an adult once they hit 6 months old. But why do you want to breed them? Please understand, I do not want to be mean.. but here goes…

  Are you an experience cat owner, that can care for them?
  Do you know how many cat are put to sleep even pedigree cat, for people who could not care for them?

  A cat that are fixed also live a longer lives, a lower temperament character.

  Good luck!

QUESTION:
how long can it take to become fertile after the depo provera injection?
i was on the depo provera for 1 year after the birth of my little princess and been off it for 15 months and trying ever since with no luck, has anybody else had this prob, its really getting me down and worried and can the doctor prescribe anything. im desperate for another to keep the age gap between the kids minimal an my daughter is already 2, please help. thanks
ps i ahve been havin reg periods

• ANSWER:
  I came off Depo last Dec and have had regular periods for last 10 months. I’m on day 7 of Cycle 3 of “trying”.

  It is really disheartening. My sister in law started trying at same time and shes 2 months pregnant.

  I also have a step son who is 3 very soon and i dont want a huge age gap between them either. It will be strange enough for him to have a new baby brother or sister.

  I keep my spirits up by focusing on other things, though i dont stop doing the opks and sex at right times.

  My “other thing” is my wedding. We’re getting married in april, low budget, so lots of shopping around and hunting for the best quotes. Enough to keep my mind occupied most of the time.

  I have noticed i’m a drier down there since having depo. No idea why, but if i dont hit jackpot this cycle going to try preseed. Apparently it is the only sperm friendly lubricant that does as good a job as fertile cervical mucas. Have read a lot of good things on here about it. Google it and there are many places you can order it from both in UK and US dependng on where you’re from.

  I have also been using OPKs to check when and if i’m ovulating. There ok from the value for money side but i dont think they are fantastic.

  They do say when you have depo it can take upto 18 months for it to come out of your system and full fertility to return. This could be why. You might just be at the later end of that.

  I was thinking that about myself.

  But also bear in mind that even having sex on the days leading upto and including ovulation, we still only have a 1 in 4 chance of getting pregnant.

  Do you chart your temperature to check when you are ovulating? or use opks? You dont mention if you do. It could be something really simple like just making sure you have sex on the right days to boost your chances.

  If you still feel anxious go to your doctor and he can discuss all your options with you properly.

  Good luck and loads of baby dust to you
  xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

QUESTION:
male dogs fertility how old are they before they can become fertile?
i have a 6 month old dog keeps humping his mum i need to know when they start to become fertile as his mother is on heat i have just seen him near enough stuck together

• ANSWER:
  For petes sake..
  KEEP THEM SEPARATED.

  Yes he can get her pregnant at this age… I have heard of quite a few accidental matings from puppies to their mothers.

  He is 6 months anyway, perfect age to get neutered, make an appointment today.

QUESTION:
how long does it take for you to become fertile after having the implanon implant removed?

• ANSWER:
  how long is a piece of string? every women is different hun, for you it may be a month for others 6 months. just do your thing and let nature do the rest. good luck xxxx

QUESTION:
when you stop taking the pill how long does it take to become fertile?

• ANSWER:
  Most women will ovulate again within 2-3 weeks of the last pill.
  A few women need a few months (rarely as much as a year) to return to their normal hormonal patterns and start ovulating again.

  If you are TTC, it can be sensible to use condoms until you have your first normal period [not the bleed at the end of the pack, but the next one], just so you can better time things.

  And if you’re NOT TTC, you need to start using another method immediately.

QUESTION:
woman with high testosterone are infertile, can you take birth control to regulate it and become fertile? ?
i have high levels of testosterone and my gyno put me on birth control to regulate that and my period because i was getting it every 5 to 6 months. she said it would take about a year or so for it to be regulated and i would be able to have kids. i just wanted a second opinion and if anyone else has the same issue and was told something different on how to handle it.

• ANSWER:
  Do you have PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome)? This is usually characterized by unusually high androgen levels (i.e. testosterone levels). What makes you infertile, for the time being, is the inhibition of ovulation — your estrogen/testosterone levels are not balanced.

  Birth control will sort of regulate your androgen levels — that is, they will put synthetic estrogen into your bloodstream, making a difference in the estrogen/testosterone ratio. This can reduce some of the side effects that come along with too much testosterone — if you’re experiencing a lot of acne or facial hair, for example, the estrogen in the pill will help with this. BC pills will definitely not make you fertile, though. Fertility relies on a hormonal cycle — naturally, you ovulate in response to peak estrogen levels dropping. Birth control pills prevent this “peak” and subsequent decline in estrogen, inhibiting ovulation and preventing you from getting pregnant. On birth control pills you will get a “fake period,” or a “withdrawal bleed” — that is, your body hasn’t ovulated so it isn’t actually releasing an egg, it’s just sloughing off the uterine lining in response to the withdrawal of estrogen during the placebo (pill-free) week.

  Like the poster above said, you will probably be given a fertility drug like Clomid if you want to conceive. Clomid is a selective estrogen receptor modulator (SERM), which makes the body believe that estrogen levels are lower than they actually are. In this case, thanks to another hormone, your ovary releases an egg. (Remember what I said about ovulating once peak estrogen levels dropped? There you go…)

QUESTION:
how to become fertile after depo.?
i’ve just come off the depo shot. i only got one shot. and i wanted to know if anyone had any advice on how to become fertile faster than 6-12 months.

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QUESTION:
I’ve just had Implanon removed how long til i get my period and become fertile again? stories please?
i had the implanon out last friday a week ago, i would like to know how long i have to wait til i’m fertile again and when my period will come back, ive had unprotected sex since having the implant out, is it too soon to fall preg thanx

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QUESTION:
How do I know the days when I am fertile/ovulation?
I am trying to get pregnant and want to know the days when I am fertile. I have heard we are fertile/ovulating some 3-4 days in a month. I dont wanna try with an ovulation test cause that only tells you some 24 hrs before the exact ovulation date. I need to know since the FIRST day I become fertile. What can I do to find out the soonest possible? If there a visible change in the mocus or not?

• ANSWER:
  If your period is regular, you can try an online ovulation calculator (for example http://www.ovulation-calculator.org/ ) to pinpoint your fertile period.

  If your period is irregular, you’ll want to watch out for your ovulation symptoms. The most common ovulation symptoms include mild abdominal cramps and changes in cervical mucus. You can also measure your basal body temperature (basal body temperature will raise when you ovulate) or use an ovulation predictor kit, which is based on your hormone level.

QUESTION:
Wife just stopped pill, how soon until she realistically becomes fertile again?
My wife has been on the mini pill for the past 8 months. She has been off of it now for approximately 4 full days. I know they say that even a day after stopping the pill the wife is fertile again, but is that really true? When can we expect her fertility to truly be ‘back to normal’, to the point where we unless we use protection she can very easily become pregnant?

Thanks.

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QUESTION:
What age does a male dog stop becoming fertile?
I am soon buying a male dog which is 3 years old and i am hoping to breed him with my other female dog ( they are both cavaliers).
Is 3 too old to buy a dog to breed?? How old do males stay fertile.

• ANSWER:
  If you have to ask a breeding question on this site, you should not be breeding at all. There are plenty of reputable, responsible show breeders that breed quality, proven stock, that are also genetically health tested, so that they can produce the best of the best of their chosen breed. You are purchasing a 3 year old male for the sole reason of making money. That is one of the definitions of a BYB. Do you really want that label stamped on yourself? Maybe you don’t care, just because BYBer’s REALLY don’t care.

QUESTION:
i never experienced getting pregnant ?can u pls help me how to become fertile?

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QUESTION:
How can my friend become more fertile and have a healthy baby?
My friend just got married. She decided that she wanted to have a baby, but she was having some difficutly getting pregnant. Do anyone know any ways that she can become more fertile?

• ANSWER:
  First off, the man needs to do some stuff too. It’s just as likely to be his fault than hers. Okay, they both should start taking vitamins. She should be sure to choose a multi-vitamin with 0.4mg. of folic acid, as this will signifigantly reduce the risk of having a baby with spina bifida. If they smoke, they should BOTH stop immediately. It can take smokers up to 7 months longer to conceive. She should limit her caffeine. He can have a little caffeine, but not to much. A little caffeine helps with sperm movement. I know it’s hard, because you can’t tell a man anything, but they need to BOTH eat healthy. Don’t use lubricants or even saliva, because these are known to damage sperm. I actually read that egg-whites is the best thing to use for lubrication, and it would actually help you get pregnant. I don’t know how true it is, but it’s worth a try. I wish your friend the best of luck!

QUESTION:
How can i become more fertile?
I don’t have any signs during the month of ovulation i don’t know when im able to get pregnant or even if my man’s sperm count is up or down im trying to figure out a few remedies to become more fertile for us both!

• ANSWER:
  If your period is regular, you can use an online ovulation calculator such as http://www.ovulation-calculator.org/ to see when ovulation is supposed to occur. Then make sure you have sex during your fertile period, especially on your ovulation day.

QUESTION:
When would my sperm stop becoming fertile when I’m on HRT?
I’m considering going on HRT, but I what to know after how many months will my sperm cease to be able to impregnate a woman. I also want to know how much my penis will decrease in size and in how much per month. Also after how many months will I not be able maintain an erection? I have penis six inches long when it’s fully erect. Any help on this is tremendous for me and my gf.

• ANSWER:
  When it comes to anything transition related:

  YMMV (Your Mileage May Vary)

  If you are on diagnostic levels of estrogen you may be rendered at least temporarily sterile in as little as 6 months. However, sexual function will be impacted much sooner. You could start feeling the effects of estrogen on your function in a matter of days. If you desire to bank genetic material, it is HIGHLY suggested you do so BEFORE starting hormones.

  In addition I should warn you that a small minority of people experience a shift in sexual orientation during transition. You may be attracted to women now, but that could change. As I said it only happens to a small number of us, but it’s important that you are aware of the possibility.

  To sum up: There WILL be changes, but how big or how quickly those changes happen are highly variable.
  .

QUESTION:
how much more are my chances of getting pregnant on non-fertile days?
my boyfriend and i are trying to get pregnant, but we had sex two days before i become fertile. does this mean my chances of being pregnant are really slim? and how much do fertile days matter? please don’t answer if you can’t help. thanks!!!

• ANSWER:
  If you are not fertile, you’re not fertile. You cannot become pregnant when you are not fertile.

  Of course, it is perfectly possible to be fertile on a different day each cycle- they can fluctuate from month to month.

  You don’t know absolutely for sure that you were fertile two days after you had sex.

  However, the two to three days leading up to ovulation are the best days to get pregnant. It’s because sperm survive for a few days and the egg for up to 48 hours.

QUESTION:
Wife just stopped pill, how soon until she becomes fertile again?
My wife has been on the mini pill for the past 8 months. She has been off of it now for approximately 3 full days. I know they say that even a day after stopping the pill the wife is fertile again, but is that really true? When can we expect her fertility to be ‘back to normal’? Thanks.

• ANSWER:
  Technically she could become pregnant any day now, but realistically it probably take a few week to kick back in. It took me and my husband 3 moths before we got pregnant after stopping the pill. I think this is the average waiting time once you’ve stopped the pill though, cos i know lots of women who got pregnant 3 months later.

  It all depends really!

  Good Luck

QUESTION:
are asian women more fertile than other groups of women?
is it true that asian women are more fertile than other groups of women? who is considered the first on the list, then the last? about how long after you stop using birth control pills do you become fertile enough to get pregnant?

• ANSWER:
  Dark Skinned African women actually the most fertile of any women because the melanin in their skin holds in Vitamin D and allows pregnancy to happen a lot easier.

  Women with wide hips are naturally more fertile too, which is why guys are naturally attracted to shapely women.. This is proven and Africa is in a very big population boom right now, and despite the fact that all the media shows are the dying people in Africa, Africans are projected to be the LARGEST group of people by the end of the century, even beating out Asians….

QUESTION:
Am male, single and never been married.I need help to become extra fertile to impregnate a woman.?
What do i need to become extra fertile.
I want an increased sperm count and stronger sperm cells.
How do i go about it and what drugs,food and supplement do i need?

• ANSWER:
  Eat foods rich in Zinc, fibre, vitamins and minerals.

  Wear losse knikers or boxers: this ensures thst excess hest do not kill ur sperm cells.

  Avoid excess sex or masturbation as this will lower ur sperm count

QUESTION:
How can I become more fertile?
Me and my fiance have been trying to concieve for about a year and a half and nothing yet! is there any type of positions or anything that could help us?

• ANSWER:
  Try using Fertility Blend for Women and do the missionary style (man on top)

QUESTION:
How can i become more fertile to become prgnant easier.?
Me and my fiance are ready to have another baby and i would like to know when the best time for us to try is good, I am supposed to get my period on the 22 of this month, my period only lasts for 4 days only and last month my period ended on the 24 of that month, and we would really like to try if you could help that would be great. Thank you.

• ANSWER:
  There are ovulation predictors on the market now. They work like pregnancy tests, you pee on them, and they tell you when you’re most fertile. Available pretty much everywhere. Cheap at Walmart.

  Your period signals NO pregnancy. You want to have sex a 1-2 weeks before you expect your period. So, basically, NOW! LOL!

  BUT!!

  Sometimes having sex triggers ovulation. So, go ahead, have all the fun you want.

QUESTION:
how can I become more fertile?
I am still ttc and I bought an ovulation kit, but i thought you were only supposed to ovulate a few days each month. My question is I ovulate a lot according to the test, therefore how do I know if the test is right and how can I up my chances to get pregnant faster? Is there a way to make yourself more fertile before intercourse?

• ANSWER:
  You only ovulate once per month.

  Generally Ovulation Predictor kits test for your LH surge – that is a peak in your Lutenizing Hormone, which is what triggers ovulation. If the test is saying that you are ovulating every day then either (1) your test is malfunctioning because this is not possible or (2) you naturally have high levels of LH.

  To find out of the test is working or not you should try one of two things. You can contact the manufacturer and have them send you a new kit or (and this may sound odd) have your husband try it. If it is reading that he is ovulating then the test is not working properly.

  If the test is not malfunctioning then you need to see your doctor. High levels of LH can indicate PCOS (Poly Cyctic Ovary Syndrome). PCOS keeps women from ovulating, or ovulating regularly. If your LH is naturally high then it interferes with you FSH (Folicle Stimulating Hormone) which means you are not maturing any eggs to be realeased for fertilization (ovulation). If this is the case then you will probably need to see a speacilist to help you get pregnant.

QUESTION:
How to Become more Fertile?
I am a 30 year old female,
trying to have a baby, how can I become more fertile?
My husband and I have been try for sometime now.

• ANSWER:
  Well, taking a prenatal vitamin will give the baby the best start possible, as well as a healthy diet and keeping in shape. One thing that really helps is to pin point exactly when you ovulate

  Hope that helps a little bit. Lots of sticky baby dust to you!!!

QUESTION:
when do u know your fertile?
ok im not sure how to explain this. But i’m trying not to have a baby this time in my life. I’m 23 but im just not ready to have a baby yet.I want to get a career going first and stuff.what are ways to know when your egg is there or whatever. when do you become fertile? yet again sorry if I dident explain it good enough sorry about that.

• ANSWER:
  Are you saying you want to know when you’re fertile to avoid having sex then? Charting, basically. Look up the fertility awareness method or nfp (not the rhythm method). My favourite book about this is Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler. This method can also be used when you do want to conceive.

QUESTION:
How long before a male puppy can actually produce puppies?
I have a 12 week old puppy that is the runt of the litter and still very small for his age. I want to get him fixed but want to wait till he gets a little bigger. I don’t have a female and don’t want to breed him just want to know at what age do male dogs become fertile?

• ANSWER:
  They usually say 6 months, but ask your vet what his/her guidlines are on the subject.

QUESTION:
How many days after delivery one must use contraceptives to avoid pregnancy?
I mean, when a female become fertile after child birth, so that contraceptives be used for ensuring spacing between two children?

• ANSWER:
  A woman can get pregnant again when her newborn is only a few days old. Contraceptives should always be use to ensure spacing between children. Some women and men think they will not get pregnant again since they just had a baby only to find themselves pregnant again and having two babies under the age of 1. Some women and men think if the woman is breastfeeding she will not get pregnant that is also wrong.

QUESTION:
What kind of birth control are you taking while breast feeding?
I want to breastfeed but I also want to wait several years before becoming pregnant again. I won’t take the shot because I know it can take up to ten months to become fertile again. I also don’t want an IUD. Or Implanon. I don’t want anything semi permanent in case I change my mind. So basically, what kinds of pills do you take and how do you like it?
Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  no,,during breast feeding u shud not take those pills,,,,,tc

QUESTION:
becoming fertile & TTC?
Any tips on how to become fertile and getting ready to TTC?
My son was not planned, and it was quite a shock when I found out I was pregnant.. because for 2 1/2 years I wasn’t on birth control and I never got pregnant. Then I went back on birth control and after 4+ months of being on BC I ran out for a week and got pregnant during that week! Therefore, I don’t believe I am the most fertile woman.
Now my son is 2 and my husband and I decided we want to try for another one soon. I currently have a mirena in, but after many problems with cysts I am going to get it removed. Are there any things that can help me become more fertile and help us be successful in TTC?
I am in great shape and have been taking prenatal pills lately. Anything else I could/should be doing?

• ANSWER:
  Try charting your cycles online so you know when you are ovulating. Most people have an egg white consistancy discharge when they ovulate. Use Fertilityfriend.com or mymonthlycycles.com

  Prenatal vitamins do not help you get pregnant. They just help your body get nutrition incase you get pregnant and don’t know for a couple weeks.

QUESTION:
How can I reverse the effects of the depo shot?
I am trying to get pregnant but the shot has my body gone haywire. How can I reverse the effects and become fertile again?

• ANSWER:
  You just have to wait on it to get out of your system I don’t think it can be reversed.

QUESTION:
How long after taking the pill does it take for periods to go back to normal?
After i stopped taking it i came on every 2 weeks for 2 n 1/2 days now it has been 5 weeks since the last time so i dont know what is going on. I am also unsure how long it takes so become fertile again?

• ANSWER:
  I think it varies,as we’re all different. But I would say watch it,as you could be fertile anytime. Basically,if you’re not on the pill,if you menstruate,it means that you ovulate. If you ovulate,you could get pregnant.

QUESTION:
What is the safe time to have sex after delivery of a baby?
a woman gives birth to a child when can she have safe sex and how long? When will she become fertile again?

• ANSWER:
  usually after six weeks so she can give her body time to heal.

QUESTION:
How soon can i get pregnant after i remove the nuva ring?
Ok me and husband recently decided to start trying for another baby and i am currently on the nuva ring so i was wondering how long after i remove the ring i am able to get pregnant? how long after you remove the ring do u become fertile? any experianced advice would be greatly appriciated. thank you.

• ANSWER:
  Depends on the female and your body type! Ask your doctor!

QUESTION:
how can a teenage guy become less fertile?
i am 18 years old and i dont want to get my girl pregnant …. she already got pregnant and lost it when a girl fought her and i dont want to get her pregnant again is there any pills foods or anything i can do to decrees the chance of it happening again…. she is on birth control and i use a condom

• ANSWER:
  Wear a condom and use it appropriately. If she’s on the pill (and takes it correctly) and you’re using a condom correctly, then the chances are very slim that she’d actually conceive. Other than that, there is no pill or food you can eat that makes you less fertile. If even using contraceptives you’re still worried about a pregnancy, then maybe its time to simply not have sex.

QUESTION:
How long could it be before I can get pregnant again?
I’ve been on Depo for four years now. I’ve had horrible side effects and no periods. I decided to stop taking the shot a few weeks ago. Has anyone else been on this horrible shot for along period of time? What were your side effects and how long did it take to get back to normal? I want another child and I hope Depo doesn’t keep it from happening. I have been informed from a nurse it could take years to become fertile again. Any experiences would be helpful. Thank You.

• ANSWER:
  I’ve never been on Depo, but I’ve heard that it could take months or years to get pregnant after wards. It just depends on your body. As long as you’re not wanting to get pregnant in the next several months, you should be okay. It’s gonna take some time for your body to recover.

  The nurse was right…it could take years. But that doesn’t mean it will. And what’s really wrong is that they don’t tell you all of this when you get the shot.

  Good luck.

QUESTION:
how long does it take to return to fertility after lupron and Depot Provera shots?
I was on depo for 3 mo starting in April and then instead of getting my second shot I was given Lupron because I was diagnosed with Endometriosis in June. My Hubby and I are really hoping to conceive baby 3 when he returns from deployment in September but I have not shown any signs of fertility so far, does anyone have a similar situation or know about how long it will take for me to become fertile again?

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QUESTION:
How do you stimulate budgies into breeding?
I have 2 budgies in a large cage and I was thinking about breeding them. If I added a nest box and the other major needs for budgie breeding, how do I get my birds to be stimulated and become fertile so that they can lay eggs with little baby budgies inside. I have heard i should increase the sun light. Is this true, and if so what other things will help?

Thanks for any help you bring!!

• ANSWER:
  Budgies (Budgerigar) are native to Australia and are one of the most commonly kept and popular pet birds in every country of the world. In the United States they are often referred to as parakeets (or keets), although due to the large number of various parakeets available, the rest of the world just calls these amazing little birds budgies.

  In the wild, budgies are colony nesters, meaning that groups of birds will nest very close together, each having their own private place. They do not build a nest by bringing material to it, instead choosing to hollow out a small area & lay eggs directly onto a hard surface. This nest could be in a hole in a tree – or in a crevice of a rock (or under the rock) or even in a hole in the ground.

  Due to the fact that budgies are colony breeders, the results of breeding them may be better if you have more than one pair, so they can all see each other. This can be done with cages being near each other, or by putting the nest boxes up into the flight where they are normally kept. I used to keep my birds in a large flight and just take out 3 pairs at a time to put into a smaller flight, with 4 nest boxes hung. They would have plenty of room to fly and each pair would have a choice of nest box, so I found that this method worked best for me.

  I would often put a handful of wood shavings into each box and watch the pair of birds busily remove each one. The act of making their own nesting spot this way would sometimes stimulate the pair into breeding.

  A nest box for a budgie must have a sight rounded indent (concave) to prevent the eggs from rolling in the nest box. The hen will lay the eggs in this spot and usually starts to sit on them after the 2nd or 3rd egg has been laid. The eggs are laid every second day and will begin hatching 18 days after she begins sitting on them.

  Normally, the hen sits on the eggs by herself & the male will bring her food, and sometimes the male will sit beside her in the box. Once the babies hatch, both the birds will feed the babies.

  Have a plentiful supply and variety of food & lots of water available at all times while the babies are being fed. You will be amazed at how much a clutch of babies will eat.

  The babies will begin venturing out of the nest box at approximately 4 weeks of age (fledge), with their parents still feeding them and will be ready to go to their new homes at 6-7 weeks of age.

  If your birds are eating a good & varied, healthy diet, you shouldn’t have any problem breeding them if that is what you want to do. Please try to have homes lined up and available for the babies before you start

QUESTION:
Is there an aphrodisiac for cats? How can I get my cat knocked up!?!?
My brother and I each have a female siamese kitten. My mom owns a male siamese lynx point. The girls are about 6 months old now and the boy is about 7 1/2 months old. We would like to breed them since we absolutley adore siamese cats… but from what I read siamese cats become fertile at 4 months and all we see them do is play! How can I make sure my kitty gets preggers???
To BalletGirl: Cats have kittens enough with out human help to nurture, who’s to say I need a degree to house some breeding kitties? We’ve got a vet. I’m not some over the top fanatic cat person, but I’m also not an uneducated shmuck trying to profit off my cat, thank you very much

• ANSWER:
  patience. It will happen. And stop watching them!!!!!

QUESTION:
how long until fertility returns after removing a nuvaring?
Ive been on the nuva ring since october and I stopped using it in January because of the side effects. My husband and I had unprotected sex (stupid me) and im worried I may be pregnant. Should I be worried or does it take longer longer for me to become fertile again?

• ANSWER:
  well i’m sure every woman is different but i got off of it and didn’t get pregnant for 5 months. i was starting to wonder if the ring made me sterile. just remember it only takes one time and just because i was this way doesn’t mean you will be.

QUESTION:
what is the statistics of woman with PCOS conceiving?
Ive had no period, then a long period, and like no ovulation…I want to have another baby so badly, and it is making me feel like a failure…I want to know like a percentage of woman getting pregnant in like a year with poly-cystic ovarian syndrome

• ANSWER:
  It depends whether you mean with fertility treatment or naturally. It depends on each woman, but the chances of conceiving with treatment (metformin and/or clomid) are really good.

  I have PCOS and conceived twice naturally. The first time was after 2 years of trying and the second time only took 2 months. I was amazed both times. I thought I’d used up all my good luck with our first baby and was so sure I wouldn’t conceive again. I wanted my second baby almost more than I wanted our first so I know how you’re feeling.

  If you’re happy to have fertility treatment then see your doctor and get started, your chances are really good for conceiving again.

QUESTION:
PCOS Conceiving and Natural Remedies
I have PCOS, and I am wondering if there are any natural remedies out there to help boost fertility and ovulation. We would like to start trying to have children but hope to avoid having to use fertility drugs. Any advice for conceiving with PCOS would be helpful

• ANSWER:
  Fertility drugs didn’t work for me the only thing that helped me get pregnant was losing weight. I was diagnosed 10 years ago and insulin resistance is what causes PCOS. If you watch your carb intake such as breads, pasta, cereal, rice, sweets, pop and starchy veggies you will find you will lose weight and shoul regain more control of your cycles without fertility drugs. Make sure to take your prenatal vitamins too, that helps build your body up and should be started as soon as you decided to TTC. Make sure to get in atleast 30 minutes of some form of exercise a day to keep your body going. PCOS can just run you down fast and ruin your cycles and I know my egg follicles just wouldn’t mature and drop at all even with medication. I am now pregnant with my third son

QUESTION:
conceiving w/o meds, but w/ pcos?
I have read a lot of women w/ PCOS conceiving when they STOPPED taking clomid, I wonder why? If anyone fits this statement, I would love to hear ur story and or advice.
I have pcos, and have been taking clomid for 3 month w/ NO bfp…
Thanks in advance

• ANSWER:
  I conceived 5 months after my last round of clomid. However I was still taking metformin for my insulin resistance. 3 months isnt a long time for clomid if you have PCOS and are in fact ovulating on it. Hope this helps.

QUESTION:
Help with PCOS, Conceiving, Fertility Drugs and Opinions Please?
Well i have been married for just under a year and my husband and I are really looking forward to having a family. We have been trying to conceive for three years almost and nothing has happened. When i was 16 i was sent for an ultrasound and diagnosed with PCOS. i wasn’t told much about it just that it meant there was cysts on my ovaries, it caused my fluctuating weight and irregular periods. I have read alot of articles and studied this on the internet extensively and tried almost all natural remedies to conceive that i could possibly find, it is driving us insane. I recently went to my local doctor to talk about the possibility of fertility drugs as an answer, but as i am only just 20 years old, he just looked at me like i was crazy. i understand people are skeptical but we really want this and we have been planning from along time before we were married. I am just thrown aback that the doctor can do that, when ultimately this is our choice.

i was just wondering if anyone has had any success stories from fertility drugs or other methods, i am going to see another doctor this week and am hoping it works out better than the last time. He was mentioning a drug called Metformin and i will bring this up with the new doctor.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read this and if anyone has any suggestions that would be lovely.

Sarah xoxo

• ANSWER:
  Hey I myself have PCOS Im 25 and ive had it since i was 15, My and my hubby was TTC for 2 years I got pregnant on clomid But sadly i m/c @ 7wks. Now My RE has me on Femara. It tends to work better for women with PCOS. Its Kinda the same as clomid but not as many side effects, Clomid has bad side effects, And some women get lots of them and some get none. I got most. I got put on b/c pills and metformin sometime back I took them for 3 months and stopped the b/c pills and kept takin metformin, Then after a years of TTC my dr put me on prenatal vitamins an extra 400mcg of folic acid, metformin and 50mg of clomid. It works wonders But it just made my linen thin so I had a m/c. Femara dont thin ur linen and dont have hardly n o side effects. Ima give u a web site to check out, It has everything U need to know or want to know about PCOS and just everything to go along with it. Check it out i know it will help U out with anything U wanna know about PCOS. I hope u get a better dr and diffently get ur new dr to put u on metformin alot of women get pregnant with metformin alone.
  I wish U the very best of luck and tons of baby dust
  U need anymore help just let me know

QUESTION:
chances of conceiving with pcos and possibly endomitriosis?
along with irregular periods? im 22 and i know that in a few years i wil be married and want to have a baby of my own. but im worried i could be infertile bc of these three things working against me. does anyone kno the percent chance a woman with pcos has of getting pregnant? also, since i plan to have a baby in a few years, is there anything i should do now to get ready for when i want to conceive, so that i will b able to? thanks all!

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QUESTION:
Can a 17 year old with PCOS conceive naturally?
With the help of medications, etc etc?

Have you ever had PCOS and conceived naturally (at any age) was in extremely difficult? Was your baby healthy?
Did I ask you to lecture me about when I should have a child? NO!!! I asked if it was possible to concieve naturally.

• ANSWER:
  Yes, it is possible. For many with PCOS, especially if overweight, it can take longer to achieve pregnancy. I was diagnosed with PCOS at 15 and that was one thing that really worried me. I got pregnant, unexpectedly at 22 and we lost the baby. It took almost two years of trying and fertility drugs after that, but didn’t get pregnant until we quit all medication and focused on adoption. We’ve been trying for number two (really number 3) for over a year now. So, yes, to make a long story short, you can get pregnant naturally and depending on your body it may or may not take a while.

  Not specifically pregnancy related, but regarding PCOS, have you discussed with the doctor as to whether or not you’re insulin resistant? Metformin, also a diabetic drug, can help those with PCOS process sugar better and have fewer effects from PCOS. This is said to help with pregnancy as well. There is conflicting advice as to stay on it or not after acheiving pregnancy.

QUESTION:
Any success stories of conceiving with PCOS?
Hi ladies, I have PCOS! and have been trying to conceive for 2 yrs with my partner. Just wondering if you have any success stories to cheer me up and keep my hopes up as I beginning to get very disheartened. Currently attending an Infertility clinic but have not started meds yet.

5***** to the best comment that makes me x

• ANSWER:
  I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2007 after i did not get my period for 11months after a miscarriage, i was given the contraceptive patch evra to control my symptoms and bring back my periods which it did then after me and my husband got married in 2008 we decided that it was now time to try for a baby, so we went to the Dr and started fertility treatment.
  I went for scans, tests which got muddled up for some strange reason and i ended up having a laparoscopy before trying any other medications (i had the operation in October 2008) They say that 80% of women who have a laparoscopy fall pregnant within six months and then after Xmas i felt funny and for some strange reason i thought I’d do a hpt as i had one lying around and was so shocked that it came back positive!
  i literally ran off the toilet and told my husband who’s exact words where ‘omg! I’ll go and get some more tests’ (this is because when i had the miscarriage it took 11 tests to show) when i had taken another 3 test and they all came out positive he replied ‘you must be!’ i think he was a shocked as me as we thought that it would take months even years to get pregnant.
  I had to wait a week before going to the Dr to get it confirmed as we found out on the day before new years eve so we got a great new years present
  I have had a few problems in the early stages but our baby is growing healthy and strong im 33 weeks today and we feel so lucky that this has happened as i was told that we might have to have IVF which was depressing as there was no way we could afford it
  We are having a little boy which my husband is so happy about and we are 7 weeks away from meeting our little miracle which we thought we would never have after 3 miscarriages

  Don’t give up hope it will happen it will just take a little longer than someone with out PCOS hope my story helps
  good luck xx

QUESTION:
please tell me your previous experience of conceiving with pcos?
I there I have recently been diagnosed with PCOS and have my first gyny app on the 23rd Nov.

If you have pcos, how long did it take you to get pregnant and what did you???

Also; I believe the BCP I was on has caused this, what are your thoughts on this??

Thanks in advance

• ANSWER:
  I have PCOS and I am 7 weeks pregnant! I was diagnosed at 21 and I wasn’t ready to get pregnant at that point so I went on BCP. Most doctors will do this if you aren’t trying to get pregnant because it regulates your cycles. I was on the pill for 3 1/2 years and after stopping it I got my period regularly for 8 months but didn’t get pregnant. Then after that it started coming every 3 months. I started charting my BBT and that is how I figured out I wasn’t ovulating. I definitely recommend charting your temps. After about a year and a half of trying I finally saw a doctor and was put on Metformin. I started getting my period and ovulating regularly right away. After 4 months I still wasn’t pregnant so we added Clomid. I took 50mg for 3 months and 100mg for 2 months. I then started seeing an RE, did all the testing and was told not to take the last month of Clomid I had left. That is the month I got pregnant! It took us a total of 2 1/2 years, but about 10 months of that with treatment. My advice to women with PCOS is go ahead and see your doctor once you’re ready to TTC, don’t wait a year. Also, make sure your husband gets a semen analysis to make sure there are no problems on his end. OPK’s and BBT really helped figure out exactly when I was ovulating too. Good luck!

QUESTION:
Some one give me some advise on conceiving with pcos?
I have pcos, this is my last month on clomid (6th month), I am also on metformin 2000mg a day, I wanted to no is there any thing I can do to boost ovulation, I’m 5” and weight 127lbs, I walk for a hour a day, cut out caffinee and also, I’m trying to cut out pasta, bread etc.

Also many others say try a south beach diet but what does it consist of?
thanks alot

• ANSWER:
  Have you considered Femara…used the same way Clomid is used. Also Soy Isoflavens are used the same way clomid is for 5 days in the cycle ….you can buy these at your local pharmacy. Are you being monitored during these Clomid cycles? Have you discussed trigger shots with your Doc??

QUESTION:
what are the chances of conceiving with pcos with weight loss alone?
i have polysistic ovary syndrome and from what i have read think that weight loss would help my chances of conceving but does anyone know any percentages of women who tried this and gone on to have a baby ?

• ANSWER:
  I has PCOS and have had many cyst removals. I had my left ovary removed as it was loaded with cysts and i was taking diaformin.A diabetic drug. My POCS has given me diabetes any way so it was helping in two ways. 3 months after the removal of my left ovary and some borderline tumors I fell naturally with Declan he is now 31/4.
  But I had to inject insulin during the pregnancy as diaformin or metformin was not “safe”.
  since the ovary removals and my pregnancy’s I have been as regular as clock work. And they tell me that lasering part of the ovary sometimes works to stimulate it in to ovulating regularly.So i put the op down to helping kick the remaining ovary into gear.

  After trying since declan was 6 months we had all but given up. And after the removal of some tumors and 3/4 of the remaining cyst filled ovary!
  I fell pregnant 5 months after the op, with 1/4 of an ovary left, with Auryn (welsh for longed for or wanted child) he is now 19 weeks. In falling with Auryn the only help I had was a wonderful Naturopath. Some of the herbal stuff was gross. But I lost 10 kg lowered my sugar levels and increased my fertility. Don’t listen to all the negative hype about POCS. Stay Positive and I can assure you that Miracles can happen.

QUESTION:
Has anyone with PCOS had success conceiving using Metformin?
I take 1500 mg a day and my doctor thinks this may help, it’s been about 5 months….

• ANSWER:
  You should ask to have your dosage brought up to 2000mg if you’re not seeing any results. If you don’t see results with 2000mg you should ask if they can add Actos or something similar with the metformin. Metformin works to reduce insulin in the bloodstream and Actos works to reduce insulin levels in the muscle tissue, so for those who metformin alone doesn’t work, the combo of met and Actos usually does. Have you tried http://www.soulcysters.com/ ? It’s a message board for women with PCOS, most of whom are ttc. Good luck and baby dust***

QUESTION:
help with pcos and conceiving?
i have been trying for a baby for 2 years with no luck. i was refered for a scan and shown i have pcos. today i got my results and shown i have a corpus luteal cyst and no masses or collections seen. I am being refered to a specialist and hopefully get put on clomid. will this kind of cyst make me infertile for good?

• ANSWER:
  PCOS is the most common fertility condition for women. It can be easily addressed but need some help. Almost all women with PCOS can get pregnant. It doesn’t mean infertile – it just means not ovulating as freqently as normal women (so harder to get pregnant).

  First thing to get put on is actually a med called metformin. It is a med to manage insulin resistance which is the underlying cause of PCOS. It is not a fertility med. However, just by managing insulin levels, your hormone may be better regulated and you may in fact ovulate more frequent and have less irregular cycles.

  If metformin doesn’t work, then can add fertility meds to help ovulation (e.g. clomid).

  Corpeus luteal cyst is normal to have post ovulation. It goes away by itself with period, and stays if pregnant for the first trimester. Of course, if u don’t have a period, it may still longer and may be seen in ultrasound. Not a big deal.

  Specialist is the right next step. Get on metformin though.

  Good luck.

QUESTION:
what are my chances of conceiving with PCOS?
i have PCOS and i am over weight not super over weight but over weight none the same.anyway,what are my chances of conceiving i dont have periods regulary about 1 every 2-3 months,im on no medication for my PCOS my doc just doesnt treat it because im a lesbian,seriously my doctor said when he told me you have PCOS and you,ll probably be infertile but that doesnt matter to you because your gay.so what wowuld be my chances of conceiving naturally?
thank you in advance

• ANSWER:
  CHANGE DOCTORS!!! I don’t care if you like monkey’s PCOS NEEDS TO BE TREATED!!! Where did that cracker head get is licenses from? Now with that out of my system! The chances of getting pregnant vary from woman to woman, while I can tell you it is more difficult to conceive with PCOS many woman have been able to take clomid and get pregnant, some like myself have a little more severe case of PCOS which it cause major difficulties.

  Find yourself another doctor (endocrinologist) to see about treating the pcos once ya got a grip on the pcos then try getting pregnant.

  And while your at give your doctor a kick in the ass for me!

QUESTION:
conceiving & pcos?
I have pcos and i cannot seem to get pregnant. i have tried vitex any other suggestions

• ANSWER:
  I too have PCOS. I learned of my condition after having a miscarriage in Dec 2006. My hubby and I had tried ever since to get pregnant again. My doc put me on Metformin and told me to lose some weight. He kept tittering my doses up a little at a time. In all, I lost 20lbs. Here I am a little more than a year later and 6-7 weeks along
  Its VERY frustrating waiting and praying for a miracle, I know. I wish you the best of luck!

QUESTION:
what can i do to improve my chances of conceiving despite my PCOS?
I have PCOS and haven’t had a period in three months, even though i have been taking my metformin. my husband and i have been trying for a year, but no luck, i have no health insurance so i can’t see a doctor about medicine or anything, so what are my other options?
before i went a month without my metformin, i was having a regular monthly period to have one ovulation has to occur unless on the pill which i obviously wasn’t

• ANSWER:
  I have pcos also and have had 3 children all naturally, just to give you some encouragement! I know there are different herbs that can help. I visit this site called soulcysters.com regularly. It’s for women with pcos. There is a message board on there with different topics, one of them being “trying to conceive” You will find a lot of information, including the different herbs that have worked for some of the ladies on there. Hope this helps and best of luck to you!

QUESTION:
Conceiving with PCOS naturally?
Just wondering if anyone here with PCOS has conceived naturally without the use of any Clomid, Metformin, etc. We just started TTC and I have PCOS so I wanted to give it at least 6 months before trying medication. Thought maybe others had some inspirational stories to share.

Thanks!!

• ANSWER:
  Perhaps, if you follow a diabetic (low sugar) diet and exercise, and track ovulation to ensure it occurs and that you time it right, you can conceive naturally.

  Personally I tried for 2 years to get pregnant naturally, then started metformin after being diagnosed with PCOS. In four months I lost twenty pounds. I was not ovulating, so I tried Clomid and got pregnant on the first round.

QUESTION:
Anyone with PCOS conceive on Clomid alone?
20 years old on clomid to concieve and have PCOS, any success conceiving with clomid and have PCOS, and which cycle did you conceive on and how long did it toke you to conceive?

• ANSWER:
  i have pcos and concieved naturally the first month of trying with my first, now i have been trying 22 months and on clomid 2 months, first month 50mg did nothing, second month 100mg produced 1 mature egg, i really hope i am pregnant now, i have all the symptoms, but can’t test until tomorrow!
  sorry that really doesn’t answer your question. i would make sure your going to a specialist though because a lot of drs will prescribe clomid, but not do the neccessary follow ups to make sure its working. babydust to you and everyone else with pcos!

QUESTION:
conceiving? pcos? vitex?
how long should vitex take to work i took it before and didnt see any changes but about 2 months later i got my period so i started taking it agian. i need stories on if it worked for you or not please

• ANSWER:
  Vitex is meant to help regulate your period/ovulation… increase your luteal phase (for those who have shorter/abnormal ones) and make your entire reproductive system healthier and stronger… giving you a higher chance of conception. I was about 5 days late and I thought that I was pregnant (which would have been the greatest news ever)… but unfortunately the doctor confirmed that I was NOT pregnant and said my period was late due to stress. After the doc told me the disappointing news… I bought vitex tincture (the liquid form basically)… so my periods/ovulating would be more accurate also I wanted my reproductive system healthier (especially after the abuse it took from surgery). I had been reading up on it for weeks and heard that the liquid form gives faster results than the pill. I started to take it the moment that I bought it… and sure enough my period showed up the same day. From what I understand vitex pills take anywhere between 3-6 months to start showing results. Vitex tincture usually takes an average of 4 weeks if not less. Every woman is different… so everyone is going to get different results… some faster… some slower. I know how difficult it is to TTC… trust me… I want a baby too and I am sitting in that boat right next to you… but first allow the herb release its effects into your system. It can only disappoint you and stress you out even more if you “jump the gun” so to speak. If you want to get the liquid form of vitex… I suggest to go to Vitamin World (GNC does NOT carry vitex tincture… just the pill). If you don’t have a Vitamin World store where you live… then I would look around at your local vitamin or herb stores. I would call and ask if they carry it first (with gas prices you could drain your tank looking). Anyway… I hope that this helped you. BABY DUST to all!!

QUESTION:
pcos and conceiving ?
i have got pcos and i was just wondering have many women out there had difficulty conceiving

• ANSWER:
  I have PCOS (and an auto-immune disorder) and have been TTC for seven years. I personally don’t ovulate on my own. So, it has been very difficult, but with the right meds I am able to ovulate. Now that we have discovered the key to getting me pregnant, we are working on the key to keeping me pregnant (i.e. controlling the auto-immune issues).

  Here is what I’ve found while dealing with PCOS and TTC, some of it may apply to you, some may not, just my observations/findings:

  1) Chart. You need to know if you’re ovulating. With PCOS you can get the LH surge (ie test positive on an ovulation predictor strip), but not ovulate. The best way to determine if you ovulated is your basal body temperature. If it goes up and stays up you O’d (not the fun kind, but the important kind).

  2) Insulin is the devil. Especially for you, because PCOS and Insulin Resistance are twin sisters and they hate you. If your insulin resistance is fair to normal, you can control it with diet. Lower carb, no sugar/flour, lots of fruits and veggies. Good book to check out is Fertility Foods by Jeremy Groll. Designed for PCOS.

  3) If your insulin resistance is pretty bad and diet isn’t doing the trick, you may need some drugs to help out Metformin/Glucophage is a big helper. If that doesn’t do the trick Actos can be brought to the party.

  4) Did I mention charting? You really need to know if you’re ovulating or not. Because if not, you may need some ovarian stimulation ala Clomid/Femara. It’s dirt cheap as these things go and is pretty effective with the PCOS set. I personally have gotten pregnant with Clomid and am on Femara now.

  5) Take your vitamins. Start your prenatals now. They help. And they do wonders for your hair and nails.

  6) Exercise. I know it sucks, but it really helps with the insulin resistance. You need 150 minutes of exercise a week, preferably 100 minutes of cardio and 50 of strength training. Muscles are good for fighting insulin resistance. This is the area where I really suck at meeting my goals.

  7) If you’re overweight, lose some weight. A loss of just 5% can have a tremendous impact on your insulin resistance.
  Use full fat dairy if you use dairy at all. The lower fat dairy has a disproportionately high level of androgen hormones which can exacerbate PCOS.

QUESTION:
How can a woman with PCOS conceive???
I was just diagnosed some what , and my fiance and i are trying to get pregnant. what can i do????

• ANSWER:
  I have PCOS. I also have 2 children, ages 15 and 9. My advice is to JUST RELAX and not worry about it. It’s not necessarily a problem, just a potential obstacle.

QUESTION:
PCOS question/conceiving !?
i was wondering if people with pcos that are NOT over weight ,is there a better chance of conceiving on “fertility drug’s” ? and i can’t ask my doctor yet because my appt isn’t until may 2011 ! ,and also is there a good chance i will conceive on fertility meds ?
thanks girls , it’s just hard when you have pcos and never no if you’ll conceive or not , i wish you luck

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QUESTION:
Any advice to conceiving with PCOS?
I am 19 and married for 1 yr. We want to start trying to have a baby. but i have PCOS. any advice any one can give me? my Dr says i shouldnt have a hard time but i was just wondering if yall had any advice.

• ANSWER:
  PCOS is such a broad statement. Your doctor should get lab work – blood draws from particular stages in your cycle – to gather more information on what, exactly, is wrong.

  Metformin is NOT a drug for PCOS. It should not be prescribed to all PCOS patients. I, for one, am a PCOS patient who has an extremely high risk of diabetes. My blood-sugar is great, though, as is my insulin production. Metformin would not help my particular form of PCOS and would harm rather than help in my situation.

QUESTION:
Pcos and conceiving a baby?
Ok well if i take glucophage and folic acid will these two suplliments help increase my chaces of conceiving i have pcos poly cystic ovarion syndrom diseas and well i was wondering if folic acid would help with conceiving
i am also taking ginseng complex will any of that help at all i have never tried to conceive but in abt 3 weeks i am and im preparing my body for it i dont know if i have regular pcos or uncommon so i dont know if im infertile or if its easy for me to conceive

• ANSWER:
  Metformin (glucophage) can help regulate ovulation in people with PCOS so can increase your chance of conceiving. Folic acid won’t but it’s a good idea to take it while TTC and continue until you’re 3 months pregnant.
  I was diagnosed with PCOS 4 years ago, I’ve heard many stories of Women who have used Metformin alone and conceived. I’ve tried many cycles of Clomid which never worked. I began using metformin about 4 weeks before my first round of fertility treatment (on the advice of my fertility Dr). Our first IUI + Metformin + injectibles worked on the first go.
  Metformin isn’t perscribed to Women with PCOS for no reason, it has been proven to help regulate ovulation.

QUESTION:
PCOS and conceiving?
I am wondering, I am on 2000 mgs of metformin a day for my PCOS and am wondering if even if it doesn’t give you periods if you can still get pregnant? I have been off my birth control and have had one successful period from it, but no more. I am not currently having sex so I know Im not already pregnant, and I have been off of them for about 8 months and on the full dose of metformin for about 3 or 4 months, is it possible to concieve while not having a period? I know every month around the same time I feel a twinge and some cramping in one side or the other where my ovaries are, but I dont’ have periods, so just curious if I could be ovulating just not shedding my lining.

• ANSWER:
  I believe you have higher chances if you have a period, however that does not mean that you could not get pregnant if you don’t have your periods. You should get an opinion from an RE (fertility specialist) specially regarding the amt of metformin you’re taking. You can ask one one online for free and get their opinion, check www.FertilityTies.com
  best of luck!

QUESTION:
Will it ever be possible for a woman with pcos to conceive?
I have pcos, and have been trying to conceive for many years, still no luck. Has anyone else found a way to still conceive? How will it be possible?
Pcos is poly cystic ovarian syndrome, basically I have several cysts on my ovaries.

• ANSWER:
  Yes there is hope. It might be a little hard but not impossible. Have you gone to see a Dr. The Drs. recommendations might be loosing weight (if over weight), regulate period with birth control, then might put you on Clomid (medication that will help you ovulate). He might do other test to make sure that everything else is ok. If you don’t get your period regularly try to loose weight and do a low carb diet. PCOS is insulin related so eating less carbs will help. Hope this helps and good luck!!! It worked for me!!

QUESTION:
pcos – twins – conceiving again?
i was diagnosed with pcos a yr and half ago and told i would not conceive a child naturally but a year ago i fell pregnant with twins and i now have 2 beautiful little girls but i was thinking am i likely to get pregnant again or because of my pcos and do you think i am likely to have twins again? is there anyone who has been through this?
sorry i worded that wrong was ment to be because of te pcos am i likely to not have anymore or could i have twins again
i was refused help to conceive as i was 18 i have never taken any fertility treatment

• ANSWER:
  i was diagnosed in 2000 with pcos, had to have metformin and then clomid for 18months to conceive my daughter in 2002.

  then in 2007 i concieved acidentally and naturally (which i m/c) then again 3months later, again no medical assistance, and had a healthy baby.

  the only reason u are likely to have twins is either it is hereditary in you or yr partners family, or you was on very high fertility treatment.

  clomid has a slight increase of twins, but only on the higher doses.

  ask yr consultant to talk in depth about this to you, but im sure if its not in yr family tree and yr not on a very high medicaton, then its highly unlikely!

  good luck x

QUESTION:
PCOS and conceiving naturally?
I really wanted to conceive my firstborn naturally. However with my diagnosis of PCOS it’s looking slim to none right now. My question is does anybody have any reccomendations to increase my fertility naturally? I really disliked the two months I was on clomid and I’d really like to just try natural remedies for a while. Please don’t include answers like ‘just stop trying’ or ‘relax if you don’t think about it it’ll happen’. It’s been three years now so I need answers with a little more volume to them.
Also I’ve tried acupuncture and herbs…neither have worked so far. I also did metformin for a year with no results.

• ANSWER:
  Try NaPro.. I also have PCOS and have been TTC 2 years.. NaPro is natural family planning.. You wont take any meds or anything.. you will learn about your body and ovulation.. Im also on clomid! I just keep praying it will work! good luck to you and lots of baby dust!

QUESTION:
PCOS and conceiving….what are the chances???
i have a friend who has PCOS and have heard that with the help of Clomid or other fertility drugs that she should be able to have a baby one day! the thing is though that she has been trying for a while now (6yrs) and still nothing!!!! she cant afford IVF, so shes just hoping that eventually she will get preggerz!!!!
my question is: for those of you who have PCOS can you fill me in on all the info….also is it true that some women may never fall pregnant due to PCOS?? what can i do to help with her situation? and what can she do to assist with falling pregnant??
all answers are appreciated!!
thanks

• ANSWER:
  I have 2 kids and having a third in a few weeks. I lost weight and started ovulation again on my own and got my cycles back. Clomid and provera and shots didn’t help me at all. Insulin resistance causes the PCOS so you have to remember to watch the carbs and eat more like a diabetic which means watch the breads, pastas, cereal, sweets, rice and pop and other sugary drinks. I just gave up all of them for 3 months, lost 50 lbs and got my cycles back. Now if I eat the carbs my cycles get weird again but if I watch it then my cycles are fine. She should also make sure to take her prenatals to build her system up. Cinnamon is great too, it helps with insulin control as does another OTC product for glucose and metabolism control.

QUESTION:
Anyone conceive with clomid who has PCOS?
I am trying to concieve and have PCOS, My doctor perscribe Clomid 100mg for me to take this month cycle on day 2, anyone with PCOS conceived a child with clomid, how long did it take and what day did you take it on?

• ANSWER:
  I would think you’d be taking it longer than one day. Do you mean you *start* taking it on day 2? Usually it’s day 5 when you start, and you take it for 5 days.

  It took me 18 months to get pg on Clomid and I was up to 250 mg. I took it days 5-10. I still have really long cycles of 38 days (didn’t have any before it). So my ovulation day was typically around day 17.

  I miscarried the first baby, took a cycle off (was 7 weeks), then took “one more round” (then I was going to quit it). I got pg again, took progesterone suppositories until week 13, and carried to term (but with many issues).

  At the time, I wasn’t officially dx’d with PCOS. I knew I probably had it, but Clomid would treat it anyway. Well, what I didn’t know was that I also had insulin resistance, and also as I grew older, that I would get worse. I finally went to an endocrinologist after the birth of my second (naturally conceived). I was then done having kids, so I went on Avandia, monophasic bc pills, and Spironolactone. Now I rarely have any PCOS issues.

  Are you doing basal body temp charting? That is *very* important while on Clomid – or you’re not going to know you’re ovulating and when; you won’t know what doseage is correct.

  Are you seeing a “regular” or reproductive endocrinologist? I would highly recommend it. Also, when you do get pg, get a referral to a perinatologist. Your PCOS puts you at high risk for pregnancy and delivery complications.

  The reason I was going to stop Clomid was because it turned me into a crazy, psychotic woman…who was acting menopausal!!! We were SO glad with our second we didn’t have to take it. The pg of my first sort of fixed me up for awhile, thus the conception. I delivered that baby at 22 weeks, 4 days, though – not great!

QUESTION:
Has anyone with PCOS conceived naturally?
Hi i am 25 and diagnosed with PCOS when i was 22…Just wondering has anyone conceived with PCOS naturally ? If so how long did it take you ? And did you continue to randomly bleed while pregnant? Thank you for your answers!

TTC For 6 months now

• ANSWER:
  I was also diagnosed with PCOS, we had been TTC for almost a year when I was diagnosed. I didn’t want to go the usual medicine route, so I asked my employer–who is a chiropractor. He started adjusting my L4 and L5, they correlate directly to the ovaries. Within the week that he started adjusting those, I got pregnant. I have not bled since I got pregnant. I didn’t believe in chiropractic care until I read my positive pregnancy test. It is worth a try! Best of luck!

QUESTION:
what are my chances of conceiving if i have PCOS and my husband has low sperm count & 99% abnormal morphology?
what are my chances of conceiving naturally if i have PCOS and my husband has low sperm count & 99% abnormal morphology?

I feel so sad every time I find out a friend or family is expecting when everyday I wish and hope if it its my turn. I’m try not to resort to medical assistance because my husband is against it (he thinks it goes against nature). Any comforting advices out there?

• ANSWER:
  Try Chinese fertility program, this is the most popular fertility program in North America and it is very effective. This fertility program worked wonders on my wife when she was diagnosed infertile by our family doctor. Hope this helps!
  Regards

QUESTION:
If you have PCOS and you conceive a girl?
If you have pcos and conceive a girl, are you worried about passing it to your daughter? I know that the genetic link is only a possibility in the many reasonings behind pcos, but I was just curious. Thank you for your answers!

• ANSWER:
  i don’t worry about that. i figure if i could get pregnant and have it, then my daughter would have a great chance at concieving too. i have 2 sisters who have pcos. .

  think about all the technology we have for it now, now in 25 years, they may even find better treatment plans.

QUESTION:
any women with pcos conceive?
i have pcos and i am wondering if anyone out there with pcos have had children without doing iui’s or ivf?
i can not take metformin. it makes me very ill. we have been trying hard to conceive for about 5 years. i feel like giving up. but want kids so badly.

• ANSWER:
  well ive had PCOS for 10 years & started taking metformin and is at first make me ill and my tummy hurt all the time but my body got use to it after about a month or so. The Metformin made me ovulate but i didnt get pregnant. So My OBGYN put me on Clomid 50mg for 3 cycles and i got my BFP on the 3rd cycle. I never did iui or ivf. Thank God I didnt have to but I would have if it came down to it. Oh and U could try Vitex my friend did shes got PCOS as well and she got her BFP on her 4th month taking Vitex. U can get it @ ur local herbal store and its cheap.
  Keep Ur Head Up and stay positive
  The Very Best Of Luck And Tons & Tons Of Sticky Baby Dust

QUESTION:
success stories using metformin and Duphston and folic tablets for conceiving?
have people having PCOS conceived using above pills?? Am TTC…

• ANSWER:
  medicines do help especially duphaston and folic tablets…. docs prescribe duphaston even after concieving(for 4months) as it helps the baby grow better

QUESTION:
Could I have Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS)?
I’m 25 years old, overweight and my partner and I have been trying to conceive for 5 months now but we are unsuccessful thus far.

Like I said I’m overweight, am having trouble conceiving, my cycle is very irregular and embarrassing… But I’ve got chin hair in recent years which is DISGUSTING!

I’m pretty sure I need to go see a doctor but was wondering if anyone with PCOS could relate or tell me anything?

Also, has anyone with PCOS conceived naturally or had to have IVF?

• ANSWER:
  It definitely sounds like you have PCOS to me. I have it myself, and although I can’t yet relate to the trying for children part, the rest definitely rings a bell. I would go to your doctor asap about it, as it can be treated and worked around when trying to conceive. Best of luck!

QUESTION:
chances of conceiving with pcos?
okay, well…
i thought i may be pregnant.
but i called my doctor to set up a blood test.. he said that’s he’ll take me, but he isn’t sure, because i have pcos. i read up on it, and i don’t even have any of the symptoms beside being slightly overweight.
i really want a baby– i’ve been ttc for seven months, and if it is that i do have pcos, what are my chances of conceiving? i heard that it’s going to be really hard, but me and my fiance are really young. and please don’t tell me that i’m “too young” to know what i want in life. i get that everytime i post a question. please & thanks.

• ANSWER:
  My sister-in-law got pregnant with PCOS and had a healthy baby girl who is 4 now. No extra drugs or anything, just happened naturally. Also, she didn’t have a period for almost 10 years, which is one of the main symptoms of PCOS. Your doctor can do a simple blood test to find out if you have it for sure.

QUESTION:
How well does metformin treat infertility due to pcos?
I have been trying to conceive for 2 years, with one miscarriage we turned to our doctor and got put on metformin. I start taking it in 2 weeks after my birth control shot runs out. Does anybody know how success full metformin is with conceiving with pcos?

• ANSWER:
  My docot told me to take metflorim for my insulin resistance and told me to take it when i want to try to conceive. But i chose not to take it after expereincing the side effects of it. Go look up the side effects of it up. But another reason i dont use it is because i was told by a different doctor that metformin can be adicting for the body for me anyway. luckily i tested neg for PCOS, but if you are just using it to get pregant it should not be an issue. Goodluck….!!!

QUESTION:
pcos stories of conceiving ?
this week i found out that i have pcos. im 29 years old and have a 2 year old son. i was just wondering if any pcos ladies have any tips or happy stories of conceiving a baby.
i know im very lucky to have a son already but i would love to give him a little brother or sister.

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
Anyone with PCOS conceive with Met And Clomid pls help?
My dr put me on met 500mg and provera to start my period, I told me to start taking clomid 100mg on day 3 of my cycle for 5 days, and one conceive pls help

• ANSWER:
  I’ve been on Metformin 500mg twice a day, for 2 months now – haven’t gotten a cycle yet – I just started provera yesterday to get a period, and when I do get my period I am going to get an HSG done, where they inject dye into your fallopian tube to see if there’s any blockage [I also have Endometriosis] – my left tube is destroyed due to the Endometriosis, so my right tube and right ovary are doing all the work. However that procedure goes, determines my next step, but assuming my tube isn’t blocked, I’ll be put on a higher dosage of Metformin, and possibly start Clomid. A friend of mine also has PCOS and took Metformin 1500mg for 3 months and started getting her cycles regular, she is not ttc so I wouldn’t know if she is able to get pregnant. Everyone is different, it may take a few months to get your body in sync with itself to ovulate and get your cycle regularly. I wish you luck! keep us updated.

QUESTION:
Has anyone with PCOS conceived?
I was diagnosed with PCOS and currently being treated to have a child. Has anyone else been treated and had a child? Let me know what you went through and how long it took? As much detail as you can give and any advice?

• ANSWER:
  I have! I started trying in Sept. 2002. My periods had always been regular prior to birth control pills, so that is what I expected to happen again. Instead, my periods kept getting farther and farther apart. I saw my OB/Gyn, who put me on Clomid, unmonitored, for 12 months. Now I know that I should have been monitored all along. I saw several drs. who never even considered PCOS because I am thin and have no symptoms besides infertility. I was finally refered to a Reproductive Endicrinologist (RE) by a friend. This was 2 1/2 years after we started trying. I learned more in 2 hours than in the whole 2 1/2 years. I left the office with prescriptions and a plan.

  We tried femara and IUI, but it didn’t take. My RE wanted to speed up the process because we had been trying for so long, so I ended up on Follistim, which is an injectible fertility drug. The first cycle I tried it, I had too many eggs (30+) to do IUI. It would have been perfect for IVF, but we couldn’t afford it. We tried a second cycle, I had fewer eggs and we tried at home instead of IUI, and I became pregnant with my son. It was almost exactly 3 years after we started trying, but remember how long it took me to find out I had PCOS. He just turned 1!

  This is a wonderful website and discussion board : www.soulcyster.com You can “talk” to many women who have been through this and read their success stories. PCOS does NOT mean you will never have a child.

  Good luck!

QUESTION:
Anyone here with PCOS? Or anyone change lifestyle before conceiving?
Did anyone get pregnant naturally with PCOS? I mean with a healthy diet/losing weight kind of thing?
Or if you don;t have PCOS, did you conceive after starting to eat healthily and/or lost a bit of weight etc?
Thanks in advance!

• ANSWER:
  I have PCOS. I was very overweight and had insulin resistance so losing weight was extremely hard for me. I went to a nutritionist and alos a diatician and was given a prescription for phentermine diet pills. After about 9 months I had lost 60 pounds on them. When I lost the weight my periods came back like clockwork exactly 28 day cycles. I conceived on “accident” when we werent really trying but it was the first time we hadnt used protection when I was ovulating and I conceived and am now 18 weeks pregnant. It made such a difference in everything to lose the weight. I was more confident, I was happy that my body was back to normal, and I was so glad I was able to conceive on my own. I know how hard it can be hun, but trust me, try to get your body as healthy as possible before you try to conceive. You will be glad you did, it may take some time tho, but you can do it. Good luck sweetie

QUESTION:
conceiving with PCOS, is it possible?
I’ve just been diagnosed with PCOS, after years of being told it’s stress or nerves (then PCOS, then endometriosis). Now i’m worried cos me and my partner are wanting another child (we have a 2y/o) and i know how little of a chance there is. We’ve been trying for over a year and i’ve had multiple miscarriages.

• ANSWER:
  Through hard work and diligence I think it is possible.

  I have 7 yr old and got pregnant while young and thin

  I am now older and heavier…. and I have PCOS, Look into the reason’s PCOS causes infertility and you will see it is more than one thing.

  For me, I have the Cysts, (obviously) My FH & hGH levels are backwards (these are “pregnancy Hormones”) also I have the Insulin resistance which stores itself as fat and leads to the “unexplained” weight gain on a “healthy, balanced” diet. All this excess weight leads to Higher than normal estrogen (When your estrogen doesn’t lower when you DO conceive this results in a miscarriage). I have had 7 Miscarriages in the past 2 years non past 12 weeks…. I have stopped focusing on trying to get pregnant and have started to focus on reducing the effects of PCOS.

  What My GYNO is doing: 1) started me on a Progesterone Pill to start my period, Took 10 days, 2) started me on a Estrogen pill (which is less then my body produces) so that my body will stop producing it and I can get my hormones in check AND hopefully reduce the cyst buildup. 3) going back in Feb for sugar blood work and Maybe Metformin. 4) if I am not still ovulating I am open to Chlomydia in the future.

  What I am doing for Myself: 1)Bought a small portable sugar tester so I can see how my current diet is affecting my Blood sugar and make adjustments. 2) I have been attending a Diabetes Awareness Class (insulin resistance is essentially the same) and have learned that my 30 min of cardio is NOT enough to burn the extra fat my body is storing from the excess Glucose buildup. 3) Started Juicing veggies 3 times a day to get more vitamins 4) Starting a new Workout Plan of a Total of 2 Hours (recommended) I break it up into a 20 min Morning walk, 30 Min afternoon walk and a 60 Min INTENSE cardio class. 5) I hope that by reducing my Insulin Resistance through Diet and Exercise I can avoid taking Metformin. 6) All of this leading to a Healthier weight that my body isnt overproducing Hormones and I start Ovulating consistently again, AND that my body is healthy enough to sustain a pregnancy again.

  I hope this has helped, feel free to contact me if you want some support!

  Pre-pregnancy 120lbs
  Now 220lbs
  Current Goal 150lbs
  Long Term 130lbs

  Hope to be healthy And Pregnant this time next year!

  Good Luck!

QUESTION:
Has anyone with pcos conceived on clomid only? Please share your stories.?
If you have pcos and found a successful way to conceive please share as well. I am interested in hearing about both overweight and thin women with pcos.

• ANSWER:
  My doctor thinks that i have PCOS due to my history of irregular cycles. I just met with him yesterday and he advised Medformin. He said that this should regulate my cycles within two to three months. I asked him if there is a benefit of taking this rather than clomid and he stated that clomid would not protect against miscarriages. (Due to hormone levels) I also asked him what I could do if the medformin did not help with my husband and I conceiving and he said that he would then add clomid in addition to the medformin.

  I’m thin and not overweight…
  I won’t know if this method helps until the next few months. I hope my information was useful to you!!

QUESTION:
Anyone with PCOS conceive with clomid/metformin?
I wanted to ask generally how many women with PCOS have conceived with clomid/met and what was the dosage and length of time it took to get your BFP?

• ANSWER:
  Yes!

  I was on metformin, on and off, for about 6-8 months before we conceived. My initial dosage was 500 which was raised to 750.

  Of course, the bizarre part of my story is that I had actually been taking a 1 1/2 month break from the metformin (didn’t like the side affects) when we conceived. However, I do think the metformin combined with fertility reflexology helped my cycles regulate, which helped me be aware of when I was ovulating, which helped us pick the right days to try and conceive, which led to me being 30 weeks pregnant currently!

QUESTION:
anyone with PCOS…..?
I have PCOS and tried invitro 4 times with no luck and I have now lost 50 lbs. and went on pill to regular myself better and take a break from trying I am ready to try again and haven’t gone to have blood test done yet, however I was wondering I have read many stories of women with PCOS conceiving and cycles getting normal after weight lost. Anyone have any stories like this to help keep me positive. I will not be refilling my pill this month and want to try again without some meds for a few months first. Any stories of women who can relate would be great thank you!

• ANSWER:
  how wonderful… congrats on losing 50lbs.

  i have pcos and am in the early stages of ttc. i haven’t tried advanced methods b/c my husband is less open to assisted reproductive methods. i have tried most things that i can: acupuncture, herbs, fertility blend, supplements, vitamins etc.

  i went to a very famous specialist that deals with PCOS and he suggested that i try metformin(which i am currently taking and trying to adjust to). He would like me to take the metformin with clomid and dexamethasone. Dexamethasone helps to suppress androgen production. Metformin helps lower insulin resistance which balances hormones. & of course, we know what clomid does. he said the key was not just to induce ovulation, but to try to balance hormones. Anyway, maybe try these drugs before IVF again.
  Best of luck to you!

QUESTION:
Have PCOS Any advice on conceiving?
I have been diagnosed with PCOS and have been losing weight to try and correct it without drugs, My OB is working closely with me on it but I still haven’t had any luck. Any advice from other women that have PCOS and that have conceived?

• ANSWER:
  I have PCOS also, and am overweight, and am doing everything I can to do it without medication. Cut out carbs, I know it is hard but it helps with loosing weight and PCOS women can be insulin resistant. Have healthy whole wheat carbs if you must but this has helped me. Pump up your protein. Get your exercise in, about 30 min a day. I have been doing this for the last month, and while I don’t have a BFP yet I just have a feeling it is my month cramping a week before my period, sleeplessness, fatigue, hungry….best of luck! There are many women out there that do it naturally, you just have to find out if this will help make you one of them. If it does not work in three to six months, try metaphomin but it is the same thing, it regulates your insulin resistance.

QUESTION:
All about conceiving with PCOS?
Hi friends I was diagonised with PCOS before one year. My gyneacologist gave me contraceptive pills for 3 months and told me i may conceived in the 4th month. but iam not. now iam taking 2 melmet 500mg a day and 1 folic acid tablet a day. what is my possibility of conceiving and how long will it take? anybody with same problems or medications please help…..

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QUESTION:
conceiving with PCOS?
My Gyn did some testing and he said my ovaries were doing everything there suppose to except releasing the mature egg followed by me being insulin resistant and a hypo thyroid problem. Im currently taking Nortrel 1/35 (28) BC, 2000mg metformin, Levothyroxin 50mg. My husband and i would like to conceive naturally but what are the odds with PCOS? I would appreciate any success stories or any advice on conceiving, ANYTHING THAT CAN HELP WITH PCOS!!!!! Thank You

• ANSWER:
  I do have PCOS … I know how you feel !
  Has your man done a spermogram yet ? If so, is it normal/correct/below normal ?

  I stopped BC in august 2008. I had my periods in oct 2008 and then feb 2009 and then nothing !!! I was diagnosed with PCOS in september 2009. My man’s spermogram was normal. I started metformin 850mg twice a day beginning of october, had my first periods in over 8 months. I started taking my temperature everyday, checking my cervical fluids and cervix position. I did an ovulation test that was positive on nov 14, so I was ovulation the following day. I got pregnant that month.

  I agree I was lucky to get pregnant as fast ! It took us by surprise.
  I understand you have a thyroid issue, but well controled, there is no reason why this would affect your conceiving.

  I am confident you will get pregnant ! I have 2 friends with PCOS, 1 with man’s sperm problem. Both got pregnant within the first year. They all used meds.

  There is a website that helped me a lot. There is a whole lot a women with PCOS, succes stories and all. I used to enter my daily temperature in there and track my fertility signs. Anyway, might help…

  Best of luck to you :O)

QUESTION:
I have PCOS but I just started a low dose BC, and Im also taking Flagyl what are my chances of getting prego?
my boyfriend and I are trying to conceive so my doctor placed me on a low dose birth control, so that I could begin taking clomid when i got my period, but I also ended up starting Flagyl for BV just wondering what are my chances of getting pregnant or are there any? Does anyone have any tips on conceiving with PCOS?

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
question about pcos, menstruation and conceiving?
ok so I found out that I have pcos and I was put on the pill to manage it but I would like to start trying for a baby sometime this year, I have been getting very light irregular periods before I went on the pill, and I was wondering if being on the pill will help my periods become more normal when I come off it and what is the best way to conceive with pcos?

• ANSWER:
  The pill regulated me (i have pcos) but once I came off it, I was all over the place again. sometimes 50 days between a period, sometimes 30. So the thing I realized is, if I was in fact ovulating, I would not be able to guess when. I started taking my temperature every morning and was able to figure out that I was ovulating and became pregnant after a little while. I would really suggest taking your temperature. It’s so frustrating not knowing if you are ovulating or not. this way you can know for sure. good luck!

QUESTION:
Who knows how to increase chances of conceiving a girl?
Ok. So, my husband and I have two BOYS together. We are thinking about having ONE more. I would REALLY like to have a girl this time. Do you know of any tips or techniques on conceiving a girl? PLEASE HELP!

• ANSWER:
  start tracking your ovulation and once you know when you ovulate have sex about 3-5 days before ovulation. I heard the X carrying sperm is slower, yet stronger… so the further away you have sex the Y carrying sperms (which are faster yet weaker) will die off and the X carrying sperms will be waiting there for the egg when you ovulate.

QUESTION:
Is there any techniques to up your chances of conceiving a girl?
My husband and I are TTC and would love to have a little girl! Of course, all that really matters is that we have a healthy baby. I was just wondering if there were any specific things we could do to better our chances of conceiving a girl.

• ANSWER:
  yes, but it’s very tricky. Female sperm can swim faster and live longer inside a woman. The best way to help enhance your chances of a girl are careful and strict ovulation monitoring. Buy the home ovulation predictor kits, they will tell u exactly when u should be ovulating. what u want to do is have sex 48 hours before you ovulate! this way, when u do drop an egg, more likely only female sperm are said to be alive (when wanting a boy u should have sex the day u ovulate, as close to your ripe day as possible) Anyway, I have read for endless hours on this subject, and have two girls now ( not intentional, just what god gave me) I have read that this method does help to conceive a girl, the only down fall is it may take longer to conceive sine u are not having sex on your most fertile day but I guess it’s worth a shot if u desperately want a girl

  Good luck to you

QUESTION:
Are there any tricks to conceiving a girl?
We want to try to have a baby girl next. Does anyone know of any tricks to conceiving one gender over the other?

• ANSWER:
  First of all, Chinese Birth chart did not work for me. I am 8 months preggo with my first baby, a boy, and the birth chart said it was a girl. Also, My friend is having a girl it said she was having a boy so… just my experience. Anyway, I read an article in Parents magazine just today that had some “wives tales” of upping your chances. One said to have sex when the moon is full for a girl, because of the electromagnetic pull. Another said that you should change your diet to be high in calcium and magnesium (milk, cheese, cereals, and beans) because it will change the ph level of your body so that you are more acidic and less alkaline. (Cut back on red meats, vegetables, and salt.)Which mens you lower the chance of male sperm surviving long enough to fertilize. Also based on your ph, you do not HAVE to orgasm because when you orgasm you become more alkaline. One other that I read, and one of my friends strongly believes in, try the missionary for a girl and rear- entry for a boy. Shallow penetrationmakes it harder for the weaker male sperm to reach the egg. My friend did the rear-entry the last time and finally got a boy after her two girls! GOOD LUCK!!

QUESTION:
Dr Shettles method for conceiving girl or boy?
I’ve done ALOT of research on trying to conceive a girl because I have 3 boys, Dr Shettles method does make sense scientifically, when I look back, seems like we did everything right for making boys, but I was curious to see if anyone out here has had any luck? Please only serious answers. Thanks.

• ANSWER:
  my husband and i are currently trying for a girl. I couldnt find the the book on the Shettles method but I have read info on it and other ways on conceiving a girl. So far we’ve tried the vinegar douche eating more acidic foods having sex 2-3 days before ovulation and also im taking Lydia Pinkham. So I hope this works. I wish your luck also

QUESTION:
Can clomid increase your chances of conceiving a girl?
I have two boys and would like to try a non-invasive method for conceiving a girl. I have heard that Clomid can increase odds of girls by increasing the hostile cervical mucus. Anyone with any experience in this area?
Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  I dont think so, i took it and I have a 3 month old boy now.

QUESTION:
Will having sex everyday increase my chances of conceiving a girl?
I have a son who is 1, and want a daughter. Im 15lbs overweight, but was 20lbs over weight when i conceived my son. Will it affect me becoming pregnant? And will sex everyday incease my chances of conceiving a girl?

• ANSWER:
  Yes, since the X sperm lives more & Y sperm dies quick but it is faster.

  If you want a girl, better to have sex 3, 4 days before your ovulation date so the Y sperm would die when you are ovulating & X spem will be the only one to win

QUESTION:
Why are people telling me that alot of people that conceived on Clomid they ended up conceiving a Girl!?
…What is it with conceiving Girl babies on Clomid . . . .

• ANSWER:
  Total coincidence. It is the male who determines the sex of the child. All Clomid does in increase the chance of multiple eggs being released in a single ovulation cycle. I got fraternal twin boys, although we aren’t sure that Clomid was involved since I had stopped taking it two months prior to conceiving.

QUESTION:
Has anyone tried this method for increasing their chances of conceiving a boy or girl?
I’ve read on several websites that “boy” sperm swim quicker but die off faster, and “girl” sperm swim slower but live longer. They say that if you have sex a couple days BEFORE you ovulate, your chances of conceiving a girl are better because by the time you drop an egg, the boy sperm are dead, and you become pregnant by the girl sperm that are still alive inside you. If you have sex right when you are ovulating, your chances of conceiving a boy are better, because the boy sperm are faster. I’m just wondering if anyone has ever tried this and conceived the sex of child that they were hoping for. Hubby and I are TTC baby #2. We actually have no preference. We already have a girl, love her, and wouldnt mind another. But a boy would be different and new, so we wouldnt mind that either. I’m just curious if anyone has had success with this method that I read about. Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  Oh it works….it’s called the shettles method. When we ttc our 2nd we wanted a boy so we aimed for as close to ovulation as we could and we got a boy…….with our girls we always managed to stop 3-4 days before I ovulated and it ended up with a girl. Other factors to think about when using this method is your husband. Some men produce more female sperm or male sperm than the other and if that’s the case it could throw off the method, but for us, yeah it’s worked…..I’m so sure that it works that I feel like I already know I’m having a girl because of how many days before ovulation we were when we quit having sex(we were trying to NOT concieve this time)

QUESTION:
Any tips on conceiving a girl?
I will take any “old wives tales” We have a boy, I would like to know if anyone has any tips for conceiving a girl.

• ANSWER:
  Found this on the web. Hope it helps…

  Recently, there’s been a lot of press about what a woman eats and the gender or sex of the baby she ultimately conceives. A recent study indicated that women who eat breakfast and consume more daily calories (about 2200) are more likely to conceive baby boys, while women who skipped breakfast and consumed less calories throughout the day were more likely to have a girl baby.

  Although these studies were important in showing that there is a definite correlation that the foods you eat effect your baby’s gender, this is really only the tip of the iceberg. There are many variables in choosing the foods that help you have a baby girl. This article will discuss which foods to eat and which foods to avoid – and why this method works in the first place.

  Why Foods Affect Your Conceiving A Girl: You may already know this, but when you want to conceive a daughter, the foods you eat can greatly affect your vaginal acidity and PH. Why is this important? Because the sperm which produces a baby boy is much weaker and shorter lived than the sperm that produces a girl. This is why you should conceive well before ovulation, so that you are giving the boy sperm a long time to wait, and you are ensuring that they have died off by the time you are most fertile and can easily get pregnant.

  But, another effective way to complete this process is by making your vaginal PH a very high number. Boy sperm are going to be greatly compromised in an acidic environment. So, just skipping breakfast is not enough to really do the trick. You’ll also need to eat a diet high in acidic foods and very low (or devoid of) alkaline foods.

  Consuming Calcium And Magnesium And Avoiding Potassium Foods When Trying To Have A Girl: Old wives tales will tell you that, to get a daughter, you should load up your diet with foods that are high in calcium (milk, cheese, yogurt) and magnesium (beans, legumes, leafy green foods) while you avoid foods that are high in potassium ( bananas, etc.) It is also said that you should avoid alcohol and caffeine (coffee AND chocolate). There is somewhat of a scientific base to this advice, but again, this is only one piece of the puzzle, which leads me to my next point.

  Examples Of Acidic Foods. (The Foods That Will Help You Conceive A Girl): If you really want a female baby, you’ll need to go on a high PH diet and avoid the foods that can make your system more alkaline. Examples of highly acidic foods (which you will need to eat a lot of) are many fruits (plums, prunes, cranberries) as well as meats, corn, fish and whole grains. When you are on an acidic diet, it will feel very restrictive. It can be a bit difficult, but just keep thinking about your daughter and know that it will be worth it.

  Examples Of Alkaline Foods (You Must Avoid And Steer Clear Of These): Consuming high acid foods is not going to do you any good if you counteract all of your hard work by eating alkaline foods. You must avoid these. Examples are almost all vegetables (except corn, as noted above), orange juice (remember to take folic acid supplements to replace this), potatoes, spinach, and watermelon.

  Another Important Step: Changing your diet can be an effective way to get the right body chemistry to have a girl, but there is a faster way. You can combine douching with your diet changes. I know douching can seem old fashioned, but you’ll only be doing it for a short period of time and it makes the process happen much more quickly.

  If you don’t believe me, go out and get some PH testing strips. Test your vaginal PH and test again after one day on an acidic diet. Note the changes and the move upward. Now, douche with a solution based on how acidic you naturally are. Retest again. I’d be willing to bet that your reading increased more after the douching than after the foods, right?

  If you absolutely don’t want to douche, you can change your body through foods, but you’ll have to do a really good job with self control and you should monitor your results to make sure you’ve gone high enough to chase all of the boy sperm away when you try to conceive.

  Conceive A Girl is a website I put together to offer step by step instructions, hints, tips, and resources for couples wishing to conceive a baby girl. You’ll find resources for douche recipes and food lists, as well as ovulation predictors and PH test strips. Take a look if you like at http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com/

QUESTION:
Possibility of conceiving a girl if you orgasm?
I am aware of the shettles method that says if you want to conceive a girl then the female should avoid an orgasm until after the male has his. I was wondering if any of you ladies have had an orgasm before your partner and still conceived a girl. Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  Your conception chances can go up if you orgasm after the sperm is already at the cervix, because orgasm will make the cervix dip into the pool of sperm and pick some of it up. So it can make you pregnant, but I’m afraid the gender selection aspect of this method is hocus pocus. However, it is absolutely true that ‘girl’ sperm live longer than ‘boy’ sperm (which in turn swim quicker) but this seems to work more in theory than in practice.

QUESTION:
Anyone believe in the Shettles method of conceiving a boy or girl?
We have two beautiful boys and I am pretty much the luckiest mom in the world to have them! I have always wanted to try again for a little girl. We desided to try again and I read the Shettles book, “How to conceive the gender of your choice”. It says to do it 24 to 48 hours before you ovulate, well, we did it but, I ovulated earily and only made it about 12 to 18 hours earilier. I’m pregnant!! Has anyone ever known that they were ovulating on the very day that they did it and conceived a GIRL??? Hopeful thinking and thanks for the comments.

• ANSWER:
  The sperm that makes a girl lives longer so having sex before you ovulate does increase your chances for a girl. We had sex before I ovulated, on the day of ovulation, and after. We are having a girl! Our plan was just to get pregnant though, but we are happy we are having a girl!

QUESTION:
have you ever tryed the shettles method for conceiving a girl?
I already have a little boy, so for my next i want to try for a girl. I will be happy with whatever i get but its worth a shot

1. have you tried it before?
2. this method depends alot on when you ovulate but my periods are irregular so how can i find out when i ovulate?
3. Do you know any other methods that help when trying to conceive a girl?

• ANSWER:
  i am living proof this work i have 2 boys and for my third i wanted a girl more than anything my periods too are irregular so i googled alot of stuff and learned more that way then the shettles method book here is what i did: practiced for a month or 2 is number one first month i tracked my period from month to month i went to www.webmd.com which from period to period will tell you your cycle length then from there i went to www.babyhopes.com they have a gender ovulation calender use your period dates and length you got fro, webmd.com then to double check its all correct i bought ovulation test sticks then i learned how to check my cervix for signs of ovulation and bingo i did everything to a T there is no room for mistakes and my baby girl will be 2 in August most important is to practice first if you just jump into like a friend of mine did you’ll end up with another boy.

QUESTION:
Will this work for conceiving a baby girl?
I have a3 yr old son will be 4 in august. When I was tryin to get prego I took ovulation test everyday nd when it said I was fertile I made love. So if I take ovulation test everyday nd make love when I’m not ovulating will I conceive a baby girl? Please let me know some ways of conceiving a baby girl, I really want a baby girl. Plz no rude comments.

• ANSWER:
  No method is 100% accurate in ensuring that you will have a baby of a specific sex, but there are many theories. Maybe you could try a few of them out…you never know, they might work!

  http://pregnancy.about.com/od/boyorgirl/a/chooseagirl.htm

  ^ That lists lots of different methods specifically for conceiving a baby GIRL.

  Good luck! Hope I helped xx

QUESTION:
Is there anyway to increase your chances of conceiving a Girl!?
I know that every child is special but i already have a 2year old boy (he is everything to me, the air that i breathe) but #2 we would really love to conceive a girl, it would be nice to have one of each & for our little boy to be protective of her when they both grow up!! i know that to increase your chances you are to not have sex right on ovulation, but dont really want to do that i just would like to know what foods & stuff like that.. like fruits!

Thanks so much everyone

• ANSWER:
  Although nothing is guaranteed, we followed some simple steps, and it worked for us.

  Eating certain foods may help sway you to have a baby girl…
  eat plenty of leafy green vegetable, asparagus, cucumber, tomatoes, beetroot and try to limit potatoes.
  Fruits to avoid are bananas, oranges apricots and plums..
  Basically a diet rich in magnesium but low in sodium – and the good news is, it is ok and recommended to eat chocolate! YAY!

  The best time to conceive a little girl is 3 days prior to ovulation, with the best position being you on top. We were also told that a woman should not orgasm…..lol – these are probably all wives tales but it worked for us. I also remember doing a handstand after we were done and almost dislocating a shoulder in the process! hahaha
  After just one month of trying, we conceived our daughter.

  Have fun with trying and good luck!!

QUESTION:
How to increase the chances of conceiving a girl naturally?
My fiance and i have 4 boys total, 2 from my previous marriage and 2 from hers. We are getting married in the next month, and are planning to have a child together, but would like to TRY to have a girl, since we already have 4 boys.

Does anyone know of any other Natural conception methods, such as the Shettles method, or have any luck with it??

• ANSWER:
  Hope this Helps

  I have heard that I can help determine the gender of my baby. How can I do this?

  You are probably thinking of the Shettles Method which is based on the premise that sperm carrying the X and Y chromosomes have different characteristics and that you can influence the reproductive environment to favor one or the other. While there is some controversy surrounding both the credibility and the morality of the method, here’s how the theory goes:

  It is the sperm that fertilizes the egg that will determine the sex of your baby. Some sperm carry the X-chromosome and some sperm carry the Y-chromosome. If an X-chromosome-carrying sperm fertilizes the egg, the baby will be a girl. If a Y-chromosome-carrying sperm fertilizes the egg, the baby will be a boy.

  The idea behind the Shettles Method of sex selection is based on the premise that the X and Y chromosome carrying sperm have different characteristics and that under different circumstances either X- or Y-chromosome-carrying sperm will be more likely to fertilize the egg.

  The Y-chromosome-carrying sperm are said to:

  be faster and smaller than the X-chromosome carrying sperm.
  die faster than the X-chromosome-carrying sperm.
  The X-chromosome-carrying sperm are said to:

  be slower than the Y-chromosome carrying sperm.
  be better able to withstand the acidic cervical environment before fertile cervical fluid is produced.
  Based on these premises, according to Shettles, you can time intercourse, choose a sexual position that favors conception of your preferred sex and influence the reproductive environment to increase the likelihood of conceiving your preferred sex. These are the suggestions from Dr. Shettles:

  To Get A Boy (According to Shettles):

  Time intercourse as close to ovulation as possible: The idea is that since the Y-chromosome sperm are faster than the X-chromosome sperm, there will be more Y-chromosome sperm who reach the egg, making it more likely that a Y-chromosome carrying sperm will fertilize the egg.
  Abstain from intercourse for four to five days prior to ovulation. Have intercourse only just at the time of ovulation and just before.
  Have intercourse that allows for deep penetration. Shettles recommends rear-entry (aka, “doggy-style”). The idea is that the sperm will be deposited closer to the cervix where cervical fluid is most friendly to the Y-chromosome sperm and where the “boy sperm” are more likely to survive since there is less distance to travel.
  Men avoid tight clothes: heat kills off both types of sperm, but will kill off the less protected, smaller Y-chromosome sperm faster, according to Shettles.
  Women have an orgasm: According to Shettles, female orgasm increases the alkaline secretions in the vagina that are favorable to the Y-chromosome carrying sperm. Shettles recommends having an orgasm before or at the same time as the male partner.
  To Get a Girl (According to Shettles):

  Have intercourse 2-3 days before ovulation and avoid intercourse just before ovulation until 2 days after ovulation and when you have peak cervical fluid: The idea is that when you have sex a few days before ovulation, only the X-chromosome “girl sperm” will be left in the female reproductive tract waiting to fertilize the egg when it is released.
  Have intercourse with shallow penetration: Shettles recommends “missionary position”or any position that will deposit the sperm slightly away from the cervix, giving advantage to the longer living, but slower X-chromosome-carrying sperm.
  Women avoid orgasm: Shettles suggests women avoid orgasm because it makes the vaginal environment more alkaline, and less acidic and is disadvantageous to the X-chromosome “girl sperm”.
  If you are taking longer than expected to conceive, it is generally not recommended to attempt any kind of sex selection as it can increase the time it takes to conceive.

  See also: Review of scientific articles about intercourse timing and gender selection.

QUESTION:
How can me & my partner increase our chances on conceiving a Girl?
Is it true that iff the woman eats goes on an ”Acidic food diet” that will increase the chances of having a Girl? Because the ”Y” sperms ‘prefer’ an ”Alkaline” environment? Also having sex 3-5 days BEFORE ovulation increases the chance? Also having sex in a ”Missionary posision” increases the chances does it? Is their anything else i should know to increase the chances i know about the ”Shettles Method” & everything like that just wondering because my boyfriend has a low sperm count? & we already have a 2yr old son.

• ANSWER:
  acording to resurch dont have hi cal diet as u tend to get boys

  A study from Exeter University reveals how we can help to determine the sex of our offspring by what we eat. “If you want a boy, eat a healthy diet with a high calorie intake, including breakfast,” says Fiona Mathews, the lead researcher of the study.

  Yet as a nation we are becoming heavier by the day – 56 per cent of British women are classed as overweight or obese. So is it sensible to give all women of childbearing age who want a baby boy carte blanche to pack away the calories?

  Gaining those extra pounds may be fine for women whose weight is normal, but not for those who are already too heavy. Doing so could increase their risk of raised blood pressure and pregnancy-related diabetes if they conceive.

  Although the researchers say that it would be ethically wrong for women who want a baby girl to go on a low-calorie plan, that is precisely what those women would be tempted to do. This could reduce their fertility – a rather obvious own goal – and affect nutrient intake at a time when a diet containing adequate vitamins and minerals, essential fats, protein and energy is crucial for development of the foetus, whatever its sex, as well as the mother’s health.

  This research should be viewed with caution. After all, Victoria Beckham has three bonny boys and she, for one, seems clearly to contradict the study’s findings.

  Have your say

  These statistical results seem very misleading. They make assumptions that are not scientifically based. The claim from this study was with regards breakfast cereal, but that does not conclude anything about calories and does not even mention milk maybe having an effect. These claims are spurious.

  Clare, Cambridge, UK

  It seems like it would be fairly straightforward to test this theory by comparing the rise in obesity to male/female birthrates over the last 30 years.

  Shawn, Louisville,

  just because victoria beckham isn’t fat doesn’t mean that she didn’t have a high calorie intake during her pregnancy. other factors include a high metabolism and exercise.

QUESTION:
How do I enhance my chances of conceiving a girl?
I need some sure ways to help my chances of have a girl, we have boy, and are desperate to have a girl this time!!

• ANSWER:

  http://www.babycenter.com/choosing-your-babys-sex

  try reading the articles on here
  hope i helped

QUESTION:
Is it true that drinking a lot of milk increases your chance of conceiving a girl?
And eating more meat increases your chance of conceiving a boy? Or is that just a myth?
I mean eating more dairy products increases your chance of having a girl.

• ANSWER:
  Foods high in calcium and magnesium increase the chances of conceiving a girl.

QUESTION:
Is it posible 4 a girl to take a pregnancy test betwn a week & six months after conceiving & get corect rspnse
If a girl conceives, can she take a pregnancy test between a week and six months after conception and get a true answer? Is there a time after conception where a preg test will not give a correct response?

• ANSWER:
  If you don’t know you’re pregnant after 6 months, I don’t know what to tell you.

QUESTION:
Has anyone any tip to give me about conceiving a baby girl?
Last night I got my period,I tried on january to TTC,but as i said I got it on 10th of February.
Do you have any tip to conceive a baby girl,which days should I tried,what should I do,any tips please?
P.s I have a son and I love him so much,but now i would like to have a baby girl.

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
Old wives tips for conceiving a girl?
Any tips, silly or otherwise, to conceive a girl?

• ANSWER:
  have sex 3 to 4 days before you ovulate

QUESTION:
why is woman on top position good for conceiving a girl?
I have 3 girls and my wife was on top twice and I was on top once. A lot of people have told me woman on top increases the chances for a girl. I would like to know why.

• ANSWER:
  Its an old wives tale.

QUESTION:
Is their ANYONE that did something to increase their chances on conceiving a Girl & it worked?
Did you do anything at all like: special methods – went on a diet – had a read of whats on the inernet & tried it – ANYTHING & you got a Girl? Iff it worked for you … please tell me EXACTLY what you tried & what you done & what you thought worked.

Thanks.

• ANSWER:
  even if anyone is convinced that their method worked, there’s no proof that that’s why…honestly i don’t think you can change those things. it’s not something you can wish hard and get, or something you can get by doing something.

  i do remember seeing an episode of like 20/20 or something years ago though, saying that one day people will be able to choose.

QUESTION:
I heard if you want to increase your chances of conceiving a Girl you are to have sex BEFORE ovulation?
Is this true? we have a 3yr old child & are ttc#2 but are so hoping that we get a Girl next, but my boyfriend has a little bit of a low sperm count, can someone please explain to me how often we would need to have sex & when to stop PRIOR to ovulation? since he has a low sperm count & want to conceive a Girl, …well then how often would we need to have sex? & to also conceive that Girl! …

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
anyone have any tips on conceiving a girl (serious answers only people )?
I was just wondering if anyone knew a way of conceiving a girl I’ve heard about the doctor shettles method but I didn’t really understand it. I don’t mind what I have but its just interesting to see how it goes.

• ANSWER:
  There is no real method. It is all 50/50.

QUESTION:
I have heard there are tricks to conceiving a boy or girl,I hope to have a girl next. Is this true?Any advise?
I am hoping to have a little girl next. I have heard that there are tricks to conceiving one or the other. I dont have a lot of faith in this but any advise or tips would be appreciated. I’m just really curious!

• ANSWER:
  The Shettles Method
  This method of gender selection has been around since the 1960s. Dr. Landrum Shettles, MD, author of How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby, recommends methods of gender selection most upheld by scientific evidence and without costly or controversial medical procedures.

  The basic premise is that men produce two types of sperm, the X (female) and Y (male). According to Dr. Shettles’ studies, the male (Y) sperm are smaller and weaker but faster than the female (X) sperm, which are bigger, stronger, and slower. Understanding this information helps in manipulating the sex of your child.
  The Right Time
  The most important factor in gender selection is the timing of intercourse during the monthly cycle, so the woman must be familiar with her menstrual cycle. She can learn more about this by following natural family planning methods (including charting her basal body temperature and tracking her cervical fluid), and using ovulation predictor kits, available at most pharmacies.

  The Shettles method believes that the closer to ovulation you have sex the more likely it is that you will have a boy. However, if you have sex two or three days prior to the egg being released, you have a better chance of having a girl. Basically, if you have intercourse right at or near ovulation then the Y sperm will make it to the egg quickly and you will have a boy, whereas if the sperm is released two or three days before the egg, the Y sperm will die off and there will be more X sperm left waiting for the egg to appear and fertilization will most likely result in a girl.

QUESTION:
what are my chances of conceiving a girl?
i am ttc and i want a girl anybody have any suggestions? either on conceiving(fertile window?), and having it be a girl

• ANSWER:
  Studies have shown that boy swimmers are faster and weaker, and girl swimmers are slower and stronger, so for better chances of a girl it is best to have sex a couple of days before ouvlation so they have time to get to the egg, as if you want a boy have sex as close to ovulation as possible so they can get there fast. Good Luck and Lots of Baby Dust your way…

QUESTION:
Does anyone have any tips on conceiving a girl?
I really want to have a girl this time around so if anyone has any tips please post! Thank you

• ANSWER:
  There are some methods that are thought to work although they are disputed by some scientists:

  The woman shouldn’t orgasm during sex as acidity levels after orgasm favor male sperm.
  Have intercourse around 3-4 days before ovulation so that the weaker possible male sperm will die off before ovulation.
  Eat foods high in magnesium and calcium.
  Use a shallow penetration position so the male sperm are placed as far from the egg as possible.

  There’s a downloadable guide available on this site -

QUESTION:
is this true? about conceiving a girl and conceiving a boy?
ok…….. so i heard that at the beginning of ovulation your egg will only let in female sperm, and in the middle and end of ovulation your egg will only let in male sperm.
so you have more chance of conceiving a boy than a girl….

is this true?

• ANSWER:
  Nope, I have not heard that one! I don’t think its true. Maybe the person that told you that got mixed up, because male sperm swim fast but die quickly and female sperm swim slowly but live longer so technically the at the beginning of ovulation the male sperm would get to the egg first and toward the end of ovulation the female sperm would get to the egg!

QUESTION:
Anyone have any tips on conceiving a GIRL?
I would really love to have a girl when I get pregnant this time. I already have 2 boys and wouldn’t mind having but another boy but I really want a girl.
If anyone had any ideas, please let me know.
Thanks

• ANSWER:
  I think that would be the most wanted answer of all time when it comes to pregnancy..I don’t know if you want to try any of these.

  http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/how-to-conceive-a-girl.html

  http://www.fertility-docs.com/fertility_gender.phtml

  http://howtoconceiveagirl.org/

QUESTION:
How can i make my chances better of getting pregnant conceiving a baby girl?
Me and my husband have a little boy already…Now we want to have a baby girl…What can we do to make the odds better?

• ANSWER:
  lol theres really nothing you can do..it would be awesome to be able to chose the sex of the baby but you really cant..there are old wives tales about what positions and what times to do it.but they arent true

QUESTION:
Are there tips on increasing the chances of conceiving a baby girl?
Got 2 healthy bouncing boys already, would love to have a baby girl next time around if possible. Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  Hey these are a few tips in trying for a girl, Hope this helps you!

  Determining when you ovulate is vital when you are learning how to conceive a girl. have sex 2 1/2 to 3 days BEFORE ovulation in order to increase your chances of conceiving a girl. Having sex closer to ovulation will dramatically decrease your chances of conceiving a girl. The timing of intercourse in relation to ovulation is a vital factor in increasing your chances of having a girl.

  in order to increase the chances of having a girl, you should have sex everyday from the end of your period up to 2 1/2 to 3 days before ovulation. After this point, do not have unprotected sex until several days past ovulation.

  Intercourse further away from ovulation favors the larger slower moving X (girl) sperm. The weaker Y (boy) sperm will die more quickly in the more acidic preovulatory vaginal / cervical secretions and by the time of ovulation there will be a much larger concentration of X (girl) sperm available to fertilize the egg.

  if you are trying to conceive a girl, shallow penetration from your partner, preferably with the missionary position, will deposit the sperm closer to the entrance to the vagina. This area is more acidic than closer to the cervix and acidity will work against the weaker “boy” sperm leaving more “girl” sperm available to fertilize your egg.

  don’t orgasm during sex as the body produces substances after orgasm that makes the vaginal environment more alkaline, which favors the “boy” sperm.

  The contractions which accompany an orgasm help move the sperm up and into the cervix, giving the “boy” sperm an extra chance at being available when your egg is available for fertilization.

  http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/how-to-conceive-a-girl.html – This is a good website and i know alot of people what are doing this method, Hope this helps you and best of luck for trying for a baby girl !!! xx

QUESTION:
How can I increase my chances of conceiving boy/girl twins?
That’s what I want soooooo bad.

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
Any technique’s or tips for improving my chances of conceiving a girl?
Hi,
my partner and i have decided to start trying for baby #2,
we already have a boy and would really like a girl as we only plan on having 2 kids. i would like to know if there are any ways of doing so.

• ANSWER:
  my husband and i have decided to TTC a little girl to. hes has a son that is 10 and we have 2 togther. a friend of mine was in the same boat as me and she went to webmd.com and typed in ovulation calender in the search menu. it tells you how to BD and when to concieve a girl. it worked for her. so we are giving it a shot! i have wanted a girl so badly and ended up having 2 boys so i feel this is my only chance. it said for us to BD on the 5th and 6th. i ovulated on the 9th so hopefully i will get her this time. it says that he should take a hot bath before (i guess to reduce the make sperm), do it in missionary position, and the woman must not orgasm before the man. also to lay still for like 10-15 min. afterward. give it a shot and see what it tells you. hope this helps! lots of baby dust to you XXXXXXXXXXxxxxxxXXXXX!!

QUESTION:
I want a baby girl.what are the chances of conceiving a girl?
what are the diets and position should I follow to conceive a girl?

• ANSWER:
  get on top and try to have orgasm first
  think pink
  and swerve your hips a lot

QUESTION:
Does anyone have any tips for conceiving a baby girl?
Me and my husband have three boys and desperately want a baby girl. I don’t have regular periods at all, if that helps. I saw some stuff about Acidity and Alkanity. Is that true?

• ANSWER:
  It’s supposed to be. To increase your odds of conceiving a girl have sex several days before you start ovulating. Buy ovulation kits so that you know when that will be. Stop having sex the day before you ovulate and don’t have sex for several days after. Have sex in the missionary position. Don’t orgasm. Have your hubby take a warm bath before. Avoid caffeine. Make your vaginal area as acidic as possible, douche with vinegar first.

QUESTION:
What are some tricks/tips or ‘wives tales’ about conceiving a boy/girl?
I’ve heard quite a few stories about if you do this you have a better chance of a boy, or this and a better chance of a girl. What are some you’ve heard? Do you know of any that have actually “worked”?

• ANSWER:
  The only thing ive really heard is if you want a girl have sex 3 days before your ovulation day to up ur chances and ive known a couple people it has worked for and then for a boy have sex the day before and day of ovulation=) and that has worked for me i have 2 boys=) but thats really all ive heard of!!

QUESTION:
what fruits and vegetable increase the chance of conceiving a baby girl?
i have 2 wonderful sons but would love a darling little girl. what fruit and vege should i eat/not eat to increase the chances?

• ANSWER:
  Read on items 3… No promises but increase the chances.

  Please keep in mind that this answer is for information purposes only, and is not intended to diagnose, treat or replace sound medical advice from your physician or health care provider.

  This is only personal opinion and was written to cater to general audiences. Not responsible for any side effect of this advice, i.e. getting pregnant. This advice assumed that you have undergo medical check up and do not have any clinical problem, i.e. PCOS, block uterus, impotent, etc.

  In order to ensure you get a good chance to get pregnant is to understand how it happen and then try to help the process to happen. Pregnancy happen when sperm join the egg, as such both must be present at the same time. Therefore it is good to ensure you ensure you and your husband have sex at the highest probability this happen.

  1. Sperm is being generated continuously in male reproductive system. However, sperm and _cum is not the same thing, i.e. if you have sex daily, the sperm count in _cum might be lower. As such, you might want to hold off sex 2 – 3 days before trying. (No masturbating also.)

  2. You need to do in 1 – 2 days before your ovulation. During most times of the month, the sperm are killed pretty fast. They do get some protection from the surrounding seminal fluid, but they are too weak to swim through thick, acidic vaginal mucus. Only once a month does the woman’s body help the sperm out by making clear, stretchy mucus that is good for the swimmers! That is around ovulation, when the body wants the sperm to succeed.

  3. Selecting baby sex: It was noted that sperm for male died slightly easier, compared to sperm for female. As such, some folks remedial may include stressing the sperm to determine the sex of the baby, i.e. washing vaginal with acidic material (i.e. vinegar, lemon) for female or douse with baking soda (or specifically devised alkaline solutions) before intimate relation to give boost to male sperm which swim faster. Increase the acidity slightly kills the weaker male sperm – so the theory goes (not too much or you end up killing all of it).

  3.a. When trying to conceive a boy, it is suggested that orgasms during sex are a good thing as the body produces substances after orgasm that makes the vaginal environment more alkaline, which favors the “boy” sperm. The contractions which accompany an orgasm help move the sperm up and into the cervix, giving the “boy” sperm an extra chance at being available when your egg is available for fertilization.

  3.b. Also suggested that if you are trying to conceive a boy, deep penetration from your partner, preferably with the “doggy style” position, will deposit the sperm closer to the cervix giving the more aggressive and quicker moving “boy” sperm a head start to fertilizating the egg first.
  3.c. I have also read that wearing tight pants, going to spa can also caused testes temperature to be higher (female baby), loose pants/boxer is cooler. This happen because the sperm is being stored in testes. More info from http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview?id=431612

  4. Illness can temporarily reduce sperm count, so if the father is sick you may want to delay your attempt until the following cycle.

  5. Smoking, drug and alcohol use, and exposure to toxic chemicals, can all reduce sperm count.

  6. Emotional stress is associated with lower sperm counts. You may want to check into relaxation techniques.

  7. Regular exercise and maintaining a healthy weight are lifestyle changes that can improve sperm count.

  8. Lack of certain vitamins and minerals can lower sperm count. You may want to try a nutritional supplement for enhancing male fertility

  9. If you’re worried that you may have a low sperm count, you can use an at-home semen analysis kit to check your sperm concentration.

  10. Any form of stress, not just heat, can affect sperm production and lower sperm count.

  11. Diet: The father may have some caffeine just before intercourse.
  The father can have a couple of cups of coffee (or other caffeinated drink) fifteen minutes to half an hour before intercourse.
  Caffeine gives both types of sperm a boost, but the Y-sperm would get a little more of a boost.

  12. In order to ensure that the eggs supply is available, you need to ensure that you are not stress.

  13. You need to ensure that you are in ovulating phase. Ovulation occurs when a mature egg is released from the ovary, pushed down the fallopian tube, and is available to be fertilized. An egg lives 12-24 hours after leaving the ovary. Normally only one egg is released each time of ovulation. Ovulation can be affected by stress, illness or disruption of normal routines

  14. Sperm can live 5-7 days after sex and it is possible to have sex before you ovulate and not during and still get pregnant.

  15. To understand more refer to the following site: http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/index.htm

  The best of luck to you.

QUESTION:
How can you encourage your chances of conceiving a girl baby?
Any tips or special steps to take that would encourage the conception of a female fetus…

• ANSWER:
  thats one thing that we can’t control. men sperm have the final say so as to what you are gonna have..so unless he has kids already and he has a whole bunch of girls..then your chances are good

QUESTION:
Any tips for conceiving a girl?
I’m trying to get pregnant again and would like to “try” for another girl. Do you have any tips, suggestions, old wives’ tales, etc. for things we could do at home? No, I don’t plan on doing any laboratory “sex selection”, this is just a fun thing to see what happens!

• ANSWER:
  There is real science behind this method.

  Timing -Pay attention to your body and try to pinpoint when I you’re ovulating by taking your temperature every morning. There is a theory that boy-producing sperm swim faster but don’t live as long, whereas girl-producing sperm swim slower but live longer. Because of this, if you want a girl, it’s better to have sex two to four days before ovulation then stop, as the girl-producing sperm are more likely to still be present when you ovulate.

  Diet – Drink mineral water with a high calcium and magnesium content.
  The main theory is to eat lots of calcium-rich foods for a girl while cutting down on salt. For a boy, increase salty foods and red meat and cut down on dairy products. However, increasing salt and reducing calcium can lead to health problems during pregnancy, so consult your doctor before starting a pre-conception diet.

  Positions – To conceive a girl, missionary position and shallow penetration. To conceive a boy, try rear entry with deep penetration.

  As for orgasm – If you’re trying for a girl, hold off completely. If you’re trying for a boy, try to orgasm before your partner. This increases the flow of alkaline secretions in the vagina, which is best for boy-producing sperm.

QUESTION:
Does having sex 3 days before ovulation help in conceiving a girl?
What are all your experiences in relation to gender and time of conception?

• ANSWER:
  Try to use this ovulation calendar tool http://www.eovulation.com/ovulation-calendar/ to find perfect time to conceive a boy or a girl.

QUESTION:
will there be any problem in conceiving if the girl is having B+ and boy with B- blood group?
hi, i’m a 26 yr old girl, my blood group is B positive and my fiance’s blood group is B negative, will there be any problem in conceiving after marriage? and will my baby be healthy and normal??

• ANSWER:
  There shouldn’t be a problem with your blood type. Since you are the positive and he’s the negative, it will be fine. If you were the negative and he was the positive, they would have to give you a shot when you got pregnant because your body would attack the baby.

QUESTION:
any ways to improve chances conceiving a girl?
hey everyone me and my fiance and marrying in december and want to try for another baby after the wedding. we have a boy and would like a girl to complete our family.
ive heard of a few methods and also that having sex 2/3 days before you ovulate can help but it worries me that we may miss the egg completely this way. any tips?
obviously if we get another boy we will be just as thrilled
thanks

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
Would you have any tips on successfully conceiving a baby girl?
Me and my husband already have a baby girl and we have been using the patch and the pill, but I have been off the patch for a couple of months now and we are trying to get pregnant but we would love to have a baby girl this time.

• ANSWER:
  I read a book that studied when you have $ex in comparison to your ovulation. when you have $ex about 2 days before you ovulate, and not do it until after you ovulate, then you have a good chance of a girl. the closer to ovulation intercourse happens there is a better chance for a boy.
  the book said that the reason for this is that the female and male chromosome sperm in the male swim at different rates. the male sperm swim faster, and are not as hearty as the female sperm. the female sperm are more hearty but not as fast. this brings us to the time to have $ex. since the females last longer in the female and are stronger they have less of a chance to get killed in the 2 days before ovulation from the acids in the woman. When $ex is done closer to ovulation, the males will reach the egg faster and get to the egg without as much killing of from the woman’s acids.

  I have two boys and have been trying for a girl, so I got this book. I also confirmed some of this in biology class.
  good luck!

  blessed be

QUESTION:
Has anyone tried the Dr shettles method, for conceiving a baby girl or boy?
I wanted to have a girl first & it worked. Now I want a boy. Don’t get me wrong, another girl would be fantastic but i only wanted to have 2 kids. Have you ever tried it, worked or not?

• ANSWER:
  There is no scientific evidence that it works, actually there is even some scientific evidence that says not only does it not work, but that it can actually prevent you from getting pregnant. Theres of course some people that have tried it and got what they wanted but who knows if its because they used Shettles. In all reality what you get is what you get.

QUESTION:
Is there any way to find out your chances of conceiving a girl thro family genes?
without any kind of testing or what not. Just wanna know if i can do that through my famly history of who’s had boys & girls. Help me if you can! please & thank you!

• ANSWER:
  Theres no fail safe, but sometimes you see a trend for girls or boys. You’d have to be examining the fathers family history (how many boys/girls his father, brothers & biologically related uncles produced…. ) not your own. It is the fathers sperm that determines what the gender of the child will be, not the egg from the mother.
  My ex was one of two boys, his father was one of four boys and his grandfather was one of 6 boys. When I got pregnant with my ex, I was sure I’d have a boy and I did. When my ex’s brother had his first child it was also a boy. My ex’s brothers second child surprised ever one by being a girl… the first one in four generations of only boys. The third child was another boy.
  My current husbands family has a pretty even distribution of boys and girls. He was one of two boys and a girl. His dad had two brothers and 1 sister, he had a girl with his ex and we are expecting another girl in May. His brother has a 1 girl and 1 boy. So theres no way to look to his genes and make an educated guess about what we might have together if we were to have another child.
  In the end, you can never really know for sure. Its always a game of chance, no matter what the family history says.

QUESTION:
Are there ways to increase your chances of conceiving a girl?

• ANSWER:
  I don’t know how true it is or it was just coincedence for me, but after 3 boys we decided it would be nice if there was a girl around the house. We did use the chinese calender but I was told that the female sperm last longer than the male sperm, so like me we had sex about 7 – 5 days before I ovulated, like I said it might be just coincedence but we had a girl and our only girl we had another boy a few years after that. We also didn’t have sex a few days before that to let the spern build. Good luck and have fun which I am sure you will.

QUESTION:
when are the best days for conceiving a girl?
heres the thing, my husband has 2 boys, one with me and the oldest one with another baby momma. We planning to have another child, but we want a girl, and i dont know if theres like an specific day i should have sex if i want to conceive a girl or if it only happen if you have that luck..,

• ANSWER:

  http://www.babyhopes.com/ovulation-calendar.html

  layla is right. here is a website that helps me<3

QUESTION:
What can my wife and I do to increase the chances of conceiving a girl?

• ANSWER:
  I don’t know if there is really anything that you can do. My husband said that he thought girl the whole time. You need to realize that there is no proof in positions or ways to do it that makes the sex of a child.

QUESTION:
Any one have any remedies for conceiving a girl, even if you think that is how you conceived your princess?
My husband and I have 2 boys 11 and 5 and now are wanting to add some PINK to our household…Any ideas on conceiving a Princess????

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QUESTION:
IS it possible to conceive days before your period,but still have a period?
If yes then does the fertilised egg implant or would it come away with your period?

• ANSWER:
  my mother in law had sex in the early hours of christmas morning…she came on her period on boxing day, although she was pregnant! so yes its possible…unlikely to have a egg waiting at that time but yes very possible x

QUESTION:
When is the best days to conceive?
Just want to know When are the best days to conceive?
When would be the best days?
Advice will be much appreciated, Thanks.

• ANSWER:
  The woman has just 12-24 hours within one month to get pregnancy for certain.Thus it is extremely crucial that you select the best time for your intercourse appropriately.More information here:

  http://www.squidoo.com/best-time-to-conceive-a-baby

QUESTION:
the main point to rember to conceive is intercourse on fertile days then what about other days?
it is enough only intercourse on fertile days to conceive quickly .

• ANSWER:
  you fertile days are the only ones that count!

  The most important days are your fertile days when TTC.

  This is the time when you have a higher chance to get pregnant, so

  All the other days (if you decide to have sex) are just for pleasure!
  

QUESTION:
What is the best 2 days to conceive pregnancy?
I’ve been trying to get pregnant for a while now…what is the best 2 days to concieve pregnancy

• ANSWER:
  It’s day 14 and 15 of your cycle. Day one is the first day of your period. I read that the days you’re ovulating are around those days and that’s when you should be in the mood more than on other days.

QUESTION:
My Girlfriend is 6 weeks and 5 days pregnant when did she conceive?
My girlfriends last period was on the 27th September she was told she is 6 weeks and 5 days pregnant but we didn’t have sex on that day as she was on her period…maybe four days after…she had a scan and was told she was 6 weeks 4days? Is it that accurate because it would have been around 30th September or a bit later we had sex…is there a way i can pin point the day we want to know where we were on the day she conceived?

• ANSWER:
  its prolly not yours

QUESTION:
When are my best days to conceive this month?
I started my period today. I am usually on 28 day cycles give or take a few days. Is there any things I could try to help me conceive faster. Thanks alot

• ANSWER:
  Not everyone ovulates on the same day. Typically with a 28 day cycle you ovulate on day 14. I think it is better to go off of cervical mucus (see link below). Have intercourse every other day around when you should be ovulating, especially before and especially if you have egg white cervical mucus. Good luck!

QUESTION:
Can you have sex on certain days to conceive a boy or girl? Has anyone tried this technique?
I want to say no, and that it is an ‘old wives tale’ – but I downloaded the iovulate calendar from apple and it has this option – and then I questioned why they had this on there – and now I would like to question whether anyone has tried to have sex on certain days in order to conceive either a boy or a girl.

• ANSWER:
  i havent tried! but i believe the chinese calendar..is right on target!

QUESTION:
Do i have to have sex around ovalution days to conceive a boy?
I am just asking because i plan to get pregnant this month.

• ANSWER:
  Sorry, hun – the gender of your baby will be determined by whether the sperm that fertilizes your egg carries either an X or Y chromosome. You have 50/50 chances no matter what.

QUESTION:
I wanted to know how do u know what days are good to conceive a baby I want to stay away from those days.?
Baby conceiving and good days to conceive.

• ANSWER:
  Don’t sue if you do get pregnant, but the times you are less likely to conceive are the week before your period, during your period and the week after your period. That is because you usually ovulate around 14 days after your period. But you cannot just not have sex on the 14th day because of other factors. One, the sperm can live in the woman’s reproductive system for up to 5 days. Two, your body does not always follow that exact pattern, especially if you are a teen or a woman close to menopause. Third, sometimes the body will spontaneously release an egg whenever it chooses. It is as if this sex thing was designed to get us pregnant, he he. The only way to be 100% sure is to just not have sex.

QUESTION:
When is the best day to conceive if my period only lasts two days?
I have been ttc for a few months now but have been unsuccessful. I am not sure if I am calculating right with my two day period. Please help

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QUESTION:
sex on ovulation day to conceive a baby boy, sex days before ovulation to concieve baby girl?
im trying to conceive. if i have sex everyother day until day suppose to have period will i def get pregnant? also had an ovarian cyst 8 months ago, will i still be bale to get prego? is it true to conceive a baby girl i need to have sex days before ovulation and not on ovulation day? if u have sex on ovulation test will you conceive a baby boy? please let me know.

• ANSWER:
  Having intercourse everyday is the only way to improve your chances for getting pregnant.. Also if ones has intercourse everyday it does affect the sperm count as it keeps reducing which increases the chances for baby girl.. If you would have noticed mostly male partners who work abroad, guys in army, or military who don’t ejaculate for a long time and have intercourse once they are back have chances for high percentage of boys as per study…

  I think its again the fate of the baby whether it will become a boy or a girl and no one can decides or predict the perfect ovulation time. Also fyi. the egg decides which one of the healthy sperm it wants, because without the permission of the egg it cannot gain entry… Its only nature that decides…Hope it helps…

QUESTION:
What days in a normal fertility cycle are the best days to conceive?

• ANSWER:
  -4, -2, 0, +2 +4

  expect difficulties conceiving if you’ve been abusing your sexuality with “the pill”

  pills claiming to be “contraception” are anything but. In fact they are abortifacients: preventing the conceived child from attaching to the uterine wall either at all or not for long then ejecting him or her from your body.

QUESTION:
Is it still Okay if you have sex every 2 days instead of every other day when trying to conceive?
may not be able to have sex every other day, so just wondering if it is still good enough to have sex every 2 days to conceive??

• ANSWER:
  Generally, eggs survive for 12-24 hours once they’re released.
  Sperm can survive in the female body for up to 72 hours.
  The concentration of sperm in the ejaculate is increased when men rest for about a day in-between attempts.

  Put this all together and you get optimal baby making timing if you have sex every other day.
  Does having less sex reduce the chances? Of course.
  Does this mean it’s not worth trying at least every third day? Of course not.

  For you, getting ovulation tests and/or tracking your temp in order to find your fertile times is probably the best idea to increase your chances since you can’t bet on timing alone.

  Good luck!

QUESTION:
Can u Conceive days after your cycle?
I was taking birth control pills and lost the pack after using the first pill to start period (Monday) period ended (Thursday). Had sex on Sunday condom broke. When I woke up Wednesday I went to use the bathroom and as i wiped there was blood. No more blood that day, this happened again Thursday morning. I should have started my period Monday its now thursday and nothing…. Ive had all my premen-symptoms… (bloating cramping fatigue) all lightly except fatigue…. wasnt worried so much at first because i didnt think you could get pregnant directly after your period… but ive been wrong before in my life.

• ANSWER:
  Normally women ovulate 14 days before their next expected period. HOWEVER women can ovulate at any time for any unexplained reasons. If your period is three days late take a home pregnancy test. If its negative wait a week and find take another if you still don’t get your period, If you are really impatient you can see a doctor and get a blood test and they will tell you for sure. Good luck.

QUESTION:
is it possible to conceive days before you get your period.?
is it possible to conceive days before you get your period. i ask because the last time me and my fiancee did the baby dance it was a day before i started my period. this weekend my stomach felt hard and i thought i felt something. i urinated like crazy and i was not drinking no more than usual. my appetite increased. what is it?

period: august 6th -11th
baby dance: july 19th and 20th; august 4th and 5th

• ANSWER:
  You never know, people get pregnant at any time during their cycle. If may have been ovulation because i feel like that when i ovulate!! I have endometrioses so Ovulation is NO fun for me!! I would wait 2 weeks ans take a test to see, but anything can be possible! I wish you all the luck I have!

QUESTION:
When are my fertile days to conceive?
My first period was on August 10th…It lasted for 3 days
My second period was on August 26th…I lasted 4 days.

So when are my fertile days?

• ANSWER:
  Your cycle is irregular girl… you see, you menstruated twice in a month… and its very difficult to determine which days are your fertile ones… if your opting for calendar method as a family planning method, i’m discouraging you to do so… you could use condoms instead…

  For you to be more certain, consult your Obstetrician or Gynecologist so that she may give you more appropriate advice regarding your problem…

QUESTION:
Ovulation and the best days to conceive?
Me and my husband bd on days 11,12,13 and not yesterday day 14. Now this morning I can feel I am ovulating for sure!! Would it be to late if we bd this afternoon or tonight?? Could you get pregnant from bd 2 or 3 days before ovulation?
Wish we could be bd right now, but hubby is at work till later! lol

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QUESTION:
Could I become pregnant if trying to conceive two days prior to being fertile?
My husband and I are trying to conceive and according to my fertility calendar, I will be fertile tomorrow, tuesday through next sunday or monday, ovulating around this Saturday the 25th. I am aware that sperm can live for about two days so if we ttc yesterday, the 19th, what are the chances that i could become pregnant? Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  YEA U ARE VERY FERTILE TRUST ME I WOULD KNOW 2 DAYS BEFORE AND 1 DAY AFTER YOU ARE FERTILE SO START TRYING RIGHT AWAY!!!

QUESTION:
Give or take u have 5 days to conceive if u have sex after ovulation day does the conceived date change ?
Had sex in September not sure what day but conceived date September 2nd time of ovulation august 29- September 4 if I had sex after my actual day of ovulation does my conceive date change.

• ANSWER:
  l dont know why you say your ovulation days were from the 29th to the 4th you only ovulate for about 24 hrs but sperm can live for 3-5 days so if you were told you conceived on the 2nd, from my experience l would say you had sex on the 29th or 30th. The date will not change if you had sex after you ovulated.

QUESTION:
Is it possible to conceive 13 days before my period is due?
I had unprotected sex with my fiancé and we would love a baby! However, I’m concerned we left it too late his month. What are the chances of conceiving 13 days prior to my period due date and 16 days after the start of my last period? Is it even in the realm of possibility? I usually have a 29 day cycle.

• ANSWER:
  Yes most def!… it’s a great chance actually go to http://www.parenting.com/fertility-calculator/ type in your last period and your cycle days it will tell you your peak fertility.

  good luck and hope it worked.

QUESTION:
What are the chances to conceive 4 days before ovulation ?
Has anyone conceived 4 days prior to ovulation ?
Lots of babydust to all ttc

• ANSWER:
  your chance for getting a girl are more likely, its VERY possible to get prego, also try 2 days before as well for a girl. for a boy try the day of or after. Also, depends on cervical fluid, if it was creamy or clear and stretchy you have a realy really good chance you conceived. Hope for the best! Good Luck!

QUESTION:
Has anyone conceive in the so called infertile days, before or after day 14?
For instance conceive in day 6-10 or conceive in day 17-21 which are refered to as safe infertile days. how long is your cycle? thank you ladies.

• ANSWER:
  Yep.I have a super regular 26 day cycle and baby #2 and baby #3 were both concieved around cycle day 19 or 20 as I ovulate late in my cycle.

QUESTION:
Will I still have a period if I conceive 2 days before its supposed to arrive?
I had sex 2 days before my period was supposed to arrive. And I didn’t start 2 days later. Ive taken 2 tests and both have come out negative. Is it too early considering that I could only be a few days pregnant? And should I have missed that period already?

• ANSWER:
  no you are not pregnant. You are not fertile 2 days before your period. And you are not fertile 4 days before your period. In fact you are fertile 18-14 days before your fertile, being the closer to day 14. This is when you ovulate.

QUESTION:
how to get pregnant n bet way n days to conceive?
we got married a year ago. Soon after marriage my wife got pregnant but she has a DNC (miss carriage).
Now since then its almost one year she is getting conception we have tried drs but they have different opinions like the eggs are not strong.

please give me the answer that for pregnancy is it necessary that girl discharges first then the boy.

Please suggest me what to do.

• ANSWER:
  Firstly, I think you’d be better off telling people that your wife had a miscarriage, not that she had a D&C as a D&C is the process of removing the fetus from the womb. Kind of like an abortion. I assume you know that. Your wife may get upset if you speak of it like this, just saying.
  For some people it takes longer than this to conceive, it doesn’t necessarily mean there’s any problem with either of you. Just keep trying. And as the doctors cannot tell you for sure what is wrong, I’d leave it another year or so then maybe go back if nothing happens.
  Apparently it’s easier for the sperm to swim upwards if your wife is producing a lot of ”discharge”, yes but I’m pretty sure it’s just the man that has to ”discharge”.

QUESTION:
Is it possible to have implantation 17 days after you conceive?
Can you have implantation bleeding 17 days after you conceive? I thought it was only 6-12 days after you conceive
wouldn’t you conceived 6-12 days before implantation bleeding isn’t that how its suppose to go?

• ANSWER:
  The range of time is so broad because it all depends on how quickly the egg moves down the fallopian tube and attaches to the uterus. Implantation bleeding usually occurs 6-12 days after ovulation. So depending on the time it took for you (if you are pregnant), it may be possible! Remember, that more than 50% of women don’t experience implant. bleeding. I never did with both my pregnancies.

QUESTION:
We’re planning to have a baby. We actually prefer to have a baby boy. When is the right date/days to conceive?
I had my menses last 19 March followed by 22 April. Is there any cycle that I should follow to have better chances of conceiving for a baby boy?

• ANSWER:
  Other than invitro, the best thing to do would be to track your cycles. During your time of ovulation, due to the uterine environment changes, X sperm have a better chance of fertilization during the begining part of ovulation-for a girl, while Y sperm have the better chances during the later part of ovulation- for a boy.

QUESTION:
Can you feel anything within the first few days after you conceive?
Would it be normal to have VERY faint cramps within the first few days after you conceive? I used an ovulation kit on Friday and it was time to start trying to conceive. My husband and I have had intercourse everyday since. Now this morning I feel like I am having VERY fiant menstral cramps. I know it is WAY to early to test. I was just wondering if that might be a sign that I did conceive?

• ANSWER:
  As you, I to was trying to concieve and a few weeks back (couple days after sex) I felt strong cramping and was worried. I had a doc check me out and found nothing. Then just yesterday found out I was pregnant. I work for doctors and they say everyone’s body reacts differently to pregnancy and you can have early cramping and flu like symptoms right after concieving. Good luck to you.

QUESTION:
did i make love on right days to conceive?
My last period started 24th sept,we made love 6th,8th,9th October,are my chances good,i think i was ovulating around that time as i has clear discharge?

• ANSWER:
  those were def the right days! good luck!

QUESTION:
is it possible to conceive two days before my period and still have a regular period?
is it possible that i could be pregnant my friend came in twice me two days ago but i still having my period. could it be possible for me to still be pregnant and miss my next period.

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QUESTION:
If you conceive 7 days before your expected period,will the egg have time to implant?
Will you still have your period since luteal phase was short?

• ANSWER:
  It generally takes 6-10 days for the egg to implant, from ovulation, so I don’t think that it’s likely. Perhaps you should consult with your doctor about a possible luteal phase defect.

QUESTION:
Is it more likely to conceive 2 days after your menstrual cycle. What are the chances of conceiving.?

• ANSWER:
  You need to ovulate in order to conceive. Some women got pregnant immediately after a period because ovulation occur early for that mth. Even though AF is regular, ovulation may not occur on the same day every mth.

QUESTION:
Can you have symptoms of pregnancy 5 days after you conceive?
My husband and I want a baby and we only tried one time. Just to see what happens. Well 5 days later I’m feeling little cramps and just last night my boobs started getting sore. Just the under part of the boobs. I’m thinking it’s all in my head because I want one but can you really start to feel symptoms 5 days later?

• ANSWER:
  was it around ovulation time? of course it could be possible. I had a brief bout of dizziness about 3 days after we conceived & then no other symptoms for about a month or so. good luck!

QUESTION:
I’m trying to conceive, 5 days late to my period, but the pregnancy tests come out negative. Whats happening?
I have taken 3 tests different brands, and have always have my regular period.

• ANSWER:
  Nothing. You aren’t trying hard enough.

QUESTION:
can i conceive 2 days before ovulation day?
I’m ovulating on June 4 according to my charts. I was wondering if I decided to have sex on the 2 would I be able to conceive.

Just curious I’m ttc. Thanks in advance, Christie.

• ANSWER:
  Yes ma’am. Sperm can live inside a female for up to a week I would try a few days before June 2 and a few days after June 4. Good luck:) !

QUESTION:
Im 19 weeks pregnant and i want to find out the day conceive my baby?
My last menstrual was march 29 the day before, march 28 i had sex and the next day which was march 29 i got my period, in the months of march i was intimate the 8 and the ninth. Then in the month of april i was intimate the 12 for the whole moth of april i was intimate once. Then i didn’t get my period
and I’m pregnant. Is it possible that i was pregnant since march and then i got my period? but after march 29 i haven’t had a period. Is there a calculator that tells you the day your baby is conceive?

• ANSWER:
  More than likely, you conceived in April. I conceived on March 7th (I know because that’s the only time we had sex in a 2 week span) and am 24.5 weeks along. In other words, if you’re 19 weeks, you’re a month behind me.

QUESTION:
What would be the best days to conceive….?
Started Period 30th May, almost finished now, what would be the best time to conceive?

• ANSWER:
  That depends on the length of your cycles, but assuming it is approx. 28 days… 14 days from the 1st day of your period.

QUESTION:
What are the good days to conceive? Please answer?
I have a 28 to 30 day cycle.
What are the good days based on a 28 day cycle?
Is it day 11 to 17 ,or 12 to 16, or 13 to 16?

I am TTC#1 with DH and I have symptoms, but I really want to make sure that we BD on the good days!!!!

Thanks a bunch ladies!!!

• ANSWER:
  Honestly I would start on CD 10 – 20 .. I would also continue BD no matter what day I was on when I was getting the ewcm or the stretchy cm.

QUESTION:
Are you able to conceive six days from cycle?
The first day of my last period was 8/1/2008. My bf and I had sex and the condom broke 8/6/2008. My cycle/bleeding usually last 5-7 days. I am feeling funny, but I just think that it is mental, but is it possible for me to be pregnant if the condom broke 8/8/2008, when the last day of my cycle was 8/1/2008?
The first day of my last period was 8/1/2008, and the condom broke 8/6/08. I read that some woman ovulate as early as the end of their period.

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QUESTION:
Hi we are planning for a baby. I am preety ignorant about the days when to conceive?
My periods vary from 24 to 28 days.What are the eating habits and medications should i include in diet for conceiving a healthy fair baby?What are the precautions to be kept in mind while having sex?

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
Is it possible to conceive 10 days after period with a 28 day cycle period?

• ANSWER:
  On average, a woman’s cycle lasts 28-32 days and ovulation USUALLY occurs somewhere between day 11 and day 21 from the start of her last period. Its difficult to be more precise since every woman is different.

  Additionally, there is a “fertile period” that starts before ovulation (about 4 days) and goes beyond the moment of ovulation by about 24-48 hours. This is because the sperm can live inside the woman’s body for several days and the egg itself is viable for approximately 1 to 2 days. Woman are most fertile the day before ovulation and the day of.

  So, that said… yes, it is possible depending on your personal ovulation cycle. While 10 days is short, it is not unheard of. I am a 28 day cycle and i usually ovulate around day 11 or day 12… although when i was in my late teens to mid-20s, i often ovulated earlier than that. That combined with sperm’s longevity… day 10 is certainly a possibility.

  There are some physical signs of ovulation. The following links may be helpful in determining what your body does during ovulation.

QUESTION:
if my period was 3 days early, to conceive do i go by my normal cycle?
My period is regular and i was a bit surprised that it came early. Its due on the 1st of every month. Me and my husband are trying for #3 and im trying to work it out this time. Ha,ha.

Do i go by my normal cycle length to conceive this month or not?

• ANSWER:
  You should go by the day you actually started. I use MyMonthlyCycles.com so it tracks everything for me. Have sex all the days you think you may ovulate, according to what both dates give you, just to be sure!

QUESTION:
Is it at all possible to have sex, then conceive days, weeks or possibly months later?!?

• ANSWER:
  Sperm retains its fertilizing capability for up to 72 hours (3 days). You’ll hear estimates anywhere from 48 hours to 5 days, but my wife is a labor & delivery nurse and 72 hours was her response without having to think a second (some things you don’t forget from medical school).

  Remember that the 72 hour figure is “up to 72 hours.” As you approach 72 hours, most of the sperm have already “died.”

QUESTION:
Is it really true that a woman is less likely to conceive 8 days before or after her period?

• ANSWER:
  check out this site

QUESTION:
Trying to conceive, 3 days past ovulation with some Cramping and lower back pain. Could this be implantation?
My husband and I had sex 4 days, 2 days and 1 day prior to my ovulating.

• ANSWER:
  i read on one site that you can get cramps when the sperm fertilizes the egg even before implatation. I hope thats the case with u. I have my fingers crossed for u. Goodluck xoxo…

QUESTION:
If i ended on the 9th when are my most fertile days to conceive?

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QUESTION:
Is it very likely to conceive 4 days before ovulation?
im 19 my partner 20. and yes he did *** inside me. i have been feeling icky today i know it has been less than a week but i feel very nauseated and sleep during the day more when i usually dont. and i was producing egg white mucus. what do you think?

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QUESTION:
Have a normal 28 day cycle and my first day of my last period was Sept. 16. What are by best days to conceive?

• ANSWER:
  Hi!

  A couple of suggestions:
  - Using your cycle; your best days to conceive would be approximately starting today, through September 30th.
  - Buy a pack of Ovulation sticks. These will guide on what your most fertile days would be.

  I would just enjoy the baby making part of it and just do it. Some people say not to “baby dance” everyday because the sperm count can get low, but trust me all you need is just one of little guys to climb up and implant in your uterus.

  I wish you the best of luck!

QUESTION:
Is there any way you can conceive 4 days before your expected period.?
I know that this is highly unlikely but I only had intercourse this month with my boyfriend 4 days prior to my expected period. I am now a few days late and am feeling like I did when I was pregnant before. Does anyone have any experience or knowledge on this. Thank you.

• ANSWER:
  IT all depends on when you ovulate. Since we all ovulate at diff times each cycle its possible you ovulated later and so can expect your period later. OR you ovulated later so were fertile right before your period. However, it takes about 6-12 days for the fertilized egg to travel up the fallopian tube and implant. Then another few days for your body to produce enough hCG to be detected on a test. Thats why we call it the 2 week wait.

  It is unlikely yes, but possible to get pregnant anytime with unprotected sex.

  HOwever, if you ovulated later or you are stressed about the possibility of being pregnant, you can delay your period. Try to relax (yeah right) but try. IF you still have no period, its time to test.
  Best of luck and blessings

QUESTION:
Is it true if you have sex on certain ovulation days you can conceive a girl?
I will be trying to have a baby soon. I really would like to have a girl first. If i have a boy that is okay. But, if I can enhance my chances for a girl I would love to do so. This will be our first baby.

• ANSWER:
  i used the shettles method. it worked for me. i wanted my boy first which i got. then i wanted a little girl and i had her next =) the xx sperm which are girls are slower but live longer then xy sperm which are boys are fast but dont live as long. so if you have sex everyday through ovulation your more than likely to have a boy because they are the fastest. have sex two days before ovulation or around then and your more than likely to get a girl because they live longer and are more likely to survive than boy sperm. so good luck btw i am 7 weeks pregnant with my third and tried for another boy so wish me luck!

QUESTION:
How many days after you conceive does pregnancy symptoms begin to show?

I had my last period on the 6th and it ended on the 9th.

I already have breast soreness and i am soooo hungry. i cant stop eating.

It’s still only been about a week in 1/2 so im not sure. im so confused.

• ANSWER:
  Not only is every pregnancy different but so is every womens times that they begin having symptoms. The most common symptom of pregnancy is increased urination, tiredness, and breast soreness. These happen with in the first 2 to 5 weeks.

  Congradulations if you already know your pregnant…

QUESTION:
Women who had gave birth to boys? Did you follow the gender selection tips in conceiving?
I want a boy really bad. I am currently pregnant. I remember when I conceived. It was the last day when I have cervical mucus. Do I have a chance of conceiving a boy.

• ANSWER:
  well its a 50/50 chance you are having a boy

QUESTION:
what are the chances of conceiving if your man has a ruptured testicle though he fathered 2 boys?
HE was told that he had ruptured his testicle from having to much sex, but he did fathered 2 boys? he told me he has 70/30 of having another child. Can i still conceive?

• ANSWER:
  I’ve never heard of anyone rupturing a testicle from too much sex. But then again, there’s ton of things I still haven’t heard yet – doesn’t mean they can’t happen.

  If he only ruptured one testicle, then he’s okay to conceive another child with the other unruptured testicle. That’s why we have two – in case one fails.

  Take care.

QUESTION:
is pistachio good to conceiving boys?
is pistachio good for mail when I am trying to eat food that gives me more potential of conceiving a boy

• ANSWER:
  It doesn’t matter what you eat or do, it’s the sperm that decides what gender your baby is.

QUESTION:
I have 2 boys and I desperately want a girl. What can I do to increase my chances of conceiving a baby girl?
Are there any foods to eat, times to try, positions to do it?

• ANSWER:
  Nothing works.
  I have tried everything. Diets, positions, timing etc.
  I should know. I have 7 boys.

QUESTION:
Anyone believe in the Shettles method of conceiving a boy or girl?
We have two beautiful boys and I am pretty much the luckiest mom in the world to have them! I have always wanted to try again for a little girl. We desided to try again and I read the Shettles book, “How to conceive the gender of your choice”. It says to do it 24 to 48 hours before you ovulate, well, we did it but, I ovulated earily and only made it about 12 to 18 hours earilier. I’m pregnant!! Has anyone ever known that they were ovulating on the very day that they did it and conceived a GIRL??? Hopeful thinking and thanks for the comments.

• ANSWER:
  The sperm that makes a girl lives longer so having sex before you ovulate does increase your chances for a girl. We had sex before I ovulated, on the day of ovulation, and after. We are having a girl! Our plan was just to get pregnant though, but we are happy we are having a girl!

QUESTION:
Will higher PH level of our body helps in conceiving baby boy?
I have studied in various artilcles that higher PH will help in conceiving boy..Is it possible?Could anybody increased your PH by changing your food habits?If so please help me..and list out the foods to intake

• ANSWER:
  Unfortunately its always a 50/50 chance of conceiving a boy or girl, there is nothing you can to increase your chances of having a boy,this is deternined at conception. Just be happy whatever the sex as long as its healthy x

QUESTION:
Are the chances of conceiving a boy higher on the day of ovulation or the day after ovulation?
I thought the chances of conceiving a boy were best the day before ovulation, but I saw something yesterday showing the day after ovulation was best. What is the best day to conceive a boy?
So, if I am scheduled to ovulate on Tuesday, should I avoid having sex the previous Thursday to Monday on order to increase my chances of having a boy?

• ANSWER:
  If you wait until after ovulation, it will be too late to conceive because eggs only live for 12 to 24 hours. The sperm need to be waiting for the egg not the other way around. You’re highest days of conception are the day of an lh surge (positive opk) and the day after. Women ovulate 24-36 hours after their lh surge. The problem is that we never know when the surge started so we never know when that 24 to 35 hours begins. So waiting until the very last day possible (day after positive okp), you’re lowering your chances of conceiving that month but the closer you have sex to actual ovulation, the higher you raise your chances for a boy. You have to avoid sex up to five days before lh surge to prevent any X sperm being in your tubes waiting for the egg.
  Diet can also can increase your chaces of having a boy. It changes the ph in your body to boy sperm friendly. Women are natually have a ph that is more acidy then the semen. This is to protect our reporductive tracts from bacteria but nature provided a safe haven for the sperm by providing nourishing cm for them. Our bodies give sperm 20-30 mins before our ph kills any sperm that did not making it into the safety of our cm or uterus.

  Boy Diet (to increase chances for a baby boy)

  Supplements:
  Potassium 200 mg
  Vitamin A 1000 mg
  Vitamin K 100 mcg

  Fluids:
  Sodas (any dark soda except diet)
  Coffee & tea (not too much coffee though)
  Carrot juice

  Foods:
  Red Meat
  Chocolate is high in potassium.
  Liver
  Dried Apricots
  Avocados
  Cantalope

  Stay aways from wine, eggs, milk, cheese, and anything high in calcium.

  You can change your ph with baking soda douches as well.
  There’s no 100% way of getting a boy unless you doing gender selecting through IVF but this helps increase your odds.

QUESTION:
What a man can do to increase chances of conceiving a boy?
I have heard things women can do, but what can a man do to help increase his chances? I have heard that if he ices is testes it will increase his chances, but for how long should he ice them? And what other suggestions? We would really like to increase our chances of conceiving a baby boy, have any suggestions?

• ANSWER:
  I read that if you have sex on the day before or the day of ovulation the chances of conceiving a boy increase. According to TCOYF, male spermies are quicker/faster, but dies sooner, while female sperm lives longer and swims slower. Therefore, if you have sex the day before or the day the woman ovulates gives the boys a better chance of getting to the egg faster. But this means your wife or GF has to know exactly when she ovulates.

QUESTION:
How do you maximize your chances of conceiving a boy?
i know that there are tests that you can tke to determine the best days to conceive, but what about ways to maximize your chances of conceiving a boy?
I would love any child I had, it as just been my dream to have a little boy. i believe that all genders are equal, this was just something I would like to know.

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QUESTION:
how can i increase my chances of conceiving a boy?
Hi! I am a mother of 7yr old daughter. now i want a boy . can anyone suggest some natural methods for conceiving a boy.

• ANSWER:
  The Shettles Method is based on the fact that the Y chromosome bearing sperm ( boy sperm ) are smaller and less robust but move faster than the larger X chromosome bearing sperm ( girl sperm ).

  So based on this fact, the Shettle Method recommends the following to help you conceive a boy.

  Determining when you ovulate is vital when you are learning how to conceive a boy. Shettles recommends that you have sex as early as 24 hours before ovulation to no more than 12 hours past ovulation in order to increase your chances of conceiving a boy. Having sex to far in advance to ovulation will dramatically decrease your chances of conceiving a boy. The timing of intercourse in relation to ovulation is a vital factor in increasing your chances of having a boy.

  Shettles recommends that you have sex 2 1/2 to 3 days BEFORE ovulation in order to increase your chances of conceiving a girl.

  It worked the opposite way round for me. We had early sex and had a boy. And then Hubby was away on business while ovulated. He got back from the US early on the morning 2 days after I had ovulated, and we had a go anyway, and we had a girl.

QUESTION:
conceiving myths??? and for Conceiving boys and lil girls!!! and Possible twins?
Like I posted before. I am looking to conceive in FEB. This is our last chance until the end of the year!! and we need any myths stories and more I only got two answers on the last one and need A LOT MORE!!!! WE would love to have twins so any things on that too!!!
with the twin thing I am able but the past year have had problems conceiving. and I don’t care nor does my husband on paying for a few cycles of fertility drugs. we know the cost and its fine. we have been planning. but don’t know how to go about doing it. The missionary things and doggy yea I got both boys with boths ways. I would love a girl.

• ANSWER:
  i dont think you can do anything about the twin thing except for like when you go get the sperm in the egg by doctor, im pregnant and i cant remember what its called! LOL.

  about the boy girl thing its pretty much a 50/50 chance, but just for a shot- ive heard that if you have sex before you ovulate your most likely to have a girl becuase males swim faster but they die faster, the female are slow but they live longer. so, if you want a boy you have sex the day you are ovulating, if you want a girl do it 2-3 days before you ovulate. its confusing, but that is the scientific thing ive heard, i think either way its 50/50.
  i also heard the day you concieve if you eat a big hearty breakfast that morning you are most likely to have a boy but not sure if that is true either.

  good luck and baby dust to you!

QUESTION:
Has anyone tried this method for increasing their chances of conceiving a boy or girl?
I’ve read on several websites that “boy” sperm swim quicker but die off faster, and “girl” sperm swim slower but live longer. They say that if you have sex a couple days BEFORE you ovulate, your chances of conceiving a girl are better because by the time you drop an egg, the boy sperm are dead, and you become pregnant by the girl sperm that are still alive inside you. If you have sex right when you are ovulating, your chances of conceiving a boy are better, because the boy sperm are faster. I’m just wondering if anyone has ever tried this and conceived the sex of child that they were hoping for. Hubby and I are TTC baby #2. We actually have no preference. We already have a girl, love her, and wouldnt mind another. But a boy would be different and new, so we wouldnt mind that either. I’m just curious if anyone has had success with this method that I read about. Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  Oh it works….it’s called the shettles method. When we ttc our 2nd we wanted a boy so we aimed for as close to ovulation as we could and we got a boy…….with our girls we always managed to stop 3-4 days before I ovulated and it ended up with a girl. Other factors to think about when using this method is your husband. Some men produce more female sperm or male sperm than the other and if that’s the case it could throw off the method, but for us, yeah it’s worked…..I’m so sure that it works that I feel like I already know I’m having a girl because of how many days before ovulation we were when we quit having sex(we were trying to NOT concieve this time)

QUESTION:
How can I increase my chances of conceiving boy/girl twins?
That’s what I want soooooo bad.

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QUESTION:
is it true that women with high testosterone levels conceive boys?
are more likely to conceive boys then girls because my doctor told me that i have high levels of testosterone and i already have 2 boys…and this nurse told me that it is possible

• ANSWER:
  No. That has nothing to do with it. The sex is determined by the man’s DNA

QUESTION:
Hi to every one what is the best way to conceiving boy baby.?
I have tow lovle beautiful girls this time I want trying for boy.

• ANSWER:
  Have your partner wear boxers and keep very cool downstairs. Have him drink coffee / caffeine in the hour before sex.

  Have sex only on the exact day of ovulation, as male sperm are fast but die off easily, whereas girl sperm are slower but more resiliant.

  Eat a diet high in salt and protein.

  Google shettles method, there’s heaps of tips! Good luck, blue baby dust to you.

QUESTION:
Opinion on new baby and conceiving a boy?
I would like to hear from parents who have babies that are 2 years apart and how easy/difficult it was. I have a girl right now who is 16 months old and will be 27 months (if I conceive when I want to) when our next planned baby is born. Also, I have heard there are a few ways to help conceive a boy. Any suggestions?

• ANSWER:
  Well, two years apart is a fantastic age difference in my opinion. I have four children; the first three are two years apart from each other and the last two are 1 1/2 years apart. Go for the 2 year spread…it is way better than a one year age difference or a 3 or greater age difference. I feel like 2 years is still close enough for older and younger sibling to connect as friends and playmates, but not so close that Mom goes bonkers!

  Gender is luck of the draw…50/50 chance. Remember, it’s dad’s DNA that makes the difference, not mom’s. Mom has XX and Dad has XY chromosomes that dictate gender of baby. Every baby gets an X from Mom. If Dad’s is an X you’ll get a baby girl, if it’s a Y you’ll have a boy. It’s up to the fastest “swimmer” you might say.

QUESTION:
Dr Shettles method for conceiving girl or boy?
I’ve done ALOT of research on trying to conceive a girl because I have 3 boys, Dr Shettles method does make sense scientifically, when I look back, seems like we did everything right for making boys, but I was curious to see if anyone out here has had any luck? Please only serious answers. Thanks.

• ANSWER:
  my husband and i are currently trying for a girl. I couldnt find the the book on the Shettles method but I have read info on it and other ways on conceiving a girl. So far we’ve tried the vinegar douche eating more acidic foods having sex 2-3 days before ovulation and also im taking Lydia Pinkham. So I hope this works. I wish your luck also

QUESTION:
is there is a specia way to conceive baby boys?
Baby girls are often said to be conceived anytime your are ready to have a baby and that it is hard to get a baby boy because you have to time it right. is this true?

• ANSWER:
  SHETTLES THEORY

  Timing of Intercourse:
  In order to have a boy insemination should occur as close as possible to the moment of ovulation so that the faster, Y-sperm arrive first and achieve ovulation, according to the shettles theory. When seeking a girl insemination the couple should seek to have sex 2½ to 3 days before ovulation.
  Orgasms:
  Orgasms favor male sperm because they make the vaginal environment more alkaline. Acidic environments harm (Y) sperm, according to the theory, making conception of a girl more likely.
  Sexual Position:
  Shallow penetration coupled with the sperm deposited close to the entrance favors female conception because the area is more acidic, which inhibits the weaker Y sperm, according to the theory.

QUESTION:
Conceiving Baby boy? Do i have to do this ir order for it to happen?
In order for me to conceive a baby boy, when having intercourse do i have to orgasm before him? And i already know its after ovulation. Thanx for your answers.

• ANSWER:
  After ovulation favors a girl baby actually, if you’re going by the shettles method…
  ON ovulation is said to increase your chances of a boy slightly.
  But I can say that I just gave birth to my son and we conceived before ovulation in a non ‘doggy style’ position. Sorry tmi, but those things aren’t true..
  It’s 50/50

QUESTION:
I know there is no science to it, but are there myths about conceiving girls and boys when trying for a baby?

• ANSWER:
  The biggest one I can tell you is that boy sperm (Y chromosome) swim faster and the girls sperm (X chromosome) live longer, so the closer you have sex to ovulation the higher chances of conceiving a boy and the earlier/father away you have sex from ovulation the higher chances of conceiving a girl.

  this below copied and pasted from www.babyhopes.com
  The Shettles Method is based on the fact that the Y chromosome bearing sperm ( boy sperm ) are smaller and less robust but move faster than the larger X chromosome bearing sperm ( girl sperm ).
  etermining when you ovulate is vital when you are learning how to conceive a girl. Shettles recommends that you have sex 2 1/2 to 3 days BEFORE ovulation in order to increase your chances of conceiving a girl. Having sex closer to ovulation will dramatically decrease your chances of conceiving a girl. The timing of intercourse in relation to ovulation is a vital factor in increasing your chances of having a girl.

  Good Luck

QUESTION:
What are the chances conceiving a boy a few days before ovulation?
What I want to know is that If I have sex 3 days before ovualtion, what is the percentage of having a boy? Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  Not sure of the percentage, but of you are aiming for a boy, aim to have sex as close to ovulation as possible. By having sex 3 days before ovulation, you are increasing your odds for a girl.

  Good luck!

QUESTION:
How can my girlfriend increase her chances of conceiving a boy instead of a girl?
Female friend of mine looking for tips and advice. Would prefer a boy this time.

• ANSWER:
  The father is the one who decides what the gender will be. Girls have no choice, you can google old wives tales on trying for one gender over another if you want.

QUESTION:
Has anyone succeeded in conceiving a boy after changing their diet?
What was your diet like prior to conceiving your son? I already have a girl so we’re hoping for a boy the next time around.
Julia…there’s something called changing the pH balance of the uterus which affects female and male sperm differently……do some research before calling something dumb!!

• ANSWER:
  I haven’t tried but I did a lot research on internet and found these points will be helpful for 68-85% (not 100%):

  -Intercourse just before the ovulation and not many days before it coz male sperms are fast and also shortlived so if ova is available for male sperm (Y), it reaches before female sperms (X).

  -Alkaline condition at your vagina coz female sperms will die in alkaline but male sperms will survive.

  -Deep penetration so that spems get easily there to ova and specially male sperms.

  Try these techniques and let us know if helpful.

  Good luck!

QUESTION:
What will increase my chances of conceiving a boy?
My husband and I didn’t really plan our daughter but now we to expand our family a little more with a little boy any suggestions? I have already heard to have sex right on my expected ovulation days but is there anything else?

• ANSWER:
  The day you ovulate or day before. Boy sperm travel faster But die quicker..while female sperm travel slower and live longer

QUESTION:
just wondering are there any tips for conceiving a boy?
i have 2 girls and want a boy are there any tips for conceiving a boy

• ANSWER:
  Try to use this ovulation calendar

  http://www.softorbits.com/awc

  to predict.baby gender.

QUESTION:
Is it true that drinking a lot of milk increases your chance of conceiving a girl?
And eating more meat increases your chance of conceiving a boy? Or is that just a myth?
I mean eating more dairy products increases your chance of having a girl.

• ANSWER:
  Foods high in calcium and magnesium increase the chances of conceiving a girl.

QUESTION:
How do you go about conceiving a boy?
I already have a girl but I don’t want to risk having another girl and would really like to have a boy and make my family complete.
Don’t get me wrong, I just want to maximise ways to conceive a boy, I would love a girl just as much.

• ANSWER:
  If you have a husband then your family is already complete.

QUESTION:
I am a mom of 3 wonderful boys but would love a girl. What is the cheapest way of conceiving a girl?

• ANSWER:
  You can not automatically know when your pregnant if you’re having a girl, because it could be a boy. Nobody really picks a girl or a boy.

  Messing with genetics is illigal, so that’s not an option.

  Adoption might be, but it’s not that easy. You need to make a lot of discussion on the topic of adopting a child, and make a lot of preparation.

QUESTION:
I have heard there are tricks to conceiving a boy or girl,I hope to have a girl next. Is this true?Any advise?
I am hoping to have a little girl next. I have heard that there are tricks to conceiving one or the other. I dont have a lot of faith in this but any advise or tips would be appreciated. I’m just really curious!

• ANSWER:
  The Shettles Method
  This method of gender selection has been around since the 1960s. Dr. Landrum Shettles, MD, author of How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby, recommends methods of gender selection most upheld by scientific evidence and without costly or controversial medical procedures.

  The basic premise is that men produce two types of sperm, the X (female) and Y (male). According to Dr. Shettles’ studies, the male (Y) sperm are smaller and weaker but faster than the female (X) sperm, which are bigger, stronger, and slower. Understanding this information helps in manipulating the sex of your child.
  The Right Time
  The most important factor in gender selection is the timing of intercourse during the monthly cycle, so the woman must be familiar with her menstrual cycle. She can learn more about this by following natural family planning methods (including charting her basal body temperature and tracking her cervical fluid), and using ovulation predictor kits, available at most pharmacies.

  The Shettles method believes that the closer to ovulation you have sex the more likely it is that you will have a boy. However, if you have sex two or three days prior to the egg being released, you have a better chance of having a girl. Basically, if you have intercourse right at or near ovulation then the Y sperm will make it to the egg quickly and you will have a boy, whereas if the sperm is released two or three days before the egg, the Y sperm will die off and there will be more X sperm left waiting for the egg to appear and fertilization will most likely result in a girl.

QUESTION:
What are some tricks/tips or ‘wives tales’ about conceiving a boy/girl?
I’ve heard quite a few stories about if you do this you have a better chance of a boy, or this and a better chance of a girl. What are some you’ve heard? Do you know of any that have actually “worked”?

• ANSWER:
  The only thing ive really heard is if you want a girl have sex 3 days before your ovulation day to up ur chances and ive known a couple people it has worked for and then for a boy have sex the day before and day of ovulation=) and that has worked for me i have 2 boys=) but thats really all ive heard of!!

QUESTION:
Any tips on conceiving a boy? Can it be done on purpose?
Due to some health (and emotional) reasons my husband and I have decided to only have one more child in the future. We currently have a 2 year old daughter and would love to have a son some day. I’ve hear a few things like, boxers and drinking coffee beforehand, but what are some other tips that you’ve tried? Thanks!
Sorry Athel, but that doesn’t have to do with my question.

• ANSWER:
  I have never heard of conceiving a certain gender on purpose… but Check out the chinese gender calender. Aparently there are certain months that if you get pregnant you are supposed to have that gender.
  Good luck!

QUESTION:
whats the best way to conceive twin boys?
Or a boy in general. Trying for my third I hae 2 daughters. And since this will be my last I wanna try for a boy, any tips on how to help with that?

• ANSWER:
  Ok so I’m not one for these types of things but I have read that “boy sperm” are faster than “girl sperm” but they die faster. So that would mean in order to conceive a boy you would have to have sex only on the day you ovulate. This is because if you have sex before you ovulate the “girl sperm” would still be alive and looking for the egg. Haha this is so weird. Again, I don’t know if it works, but it’s always fun to try! Good luck

QUESTION:
Improving odds of conceiving one sex over the other?
Ever heard of such things? For example, having sex in a certain position will increase the odds of conceiving a boy. I was wondering what you’ve heard and if you’ve tried any, did they work?

• ANSWER:
  The Shettles Method:
  Male sperm swim faster but don’t live as long a female sperm so, it is recommended to have sex closer to ovulation, the day before and the day of for a boy, and 2-3 days prior for a girl. Just search for Shettles Method and it goes into great detail of the whole idea

QUESTION:
Does conceiving on the day of ovulation raise your chances of conceiving a boy and how do you know?
Also how do you know the exact day you ovulate?

Does the OPK work?

I will pick a best answer!

• ANSWER:
  yes, having sex closer to ovulation increases the chances of having a boy (In theory). the reason for this is y chromosome sperm swim faster then x chroma some sperm. problem is that they do not live as long.

  as for the day you ovulate there are multiple ways to tell. OPKS do work for some women but I prefer charting my bbt.

QUESTION:
What are the ‘tricks’ in conceiving a boy and/or a girl?
I know there are things people say to do and not to do to have a boy or a girl, I just can’t remember.

Like, my mom said ‘girl’ eggs can’t really live in acidic places, so if you want to have a boy, eat acidic things (fruit and such), and if you want to have a girl, don’t eat that stuff. Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  You can “hope” and you can “pray” for the gender child you want…

  But the “tricks” you should most focus on, are those that produce a healthy baby, regardless of gender.

QUESTION:
In your opinion, is this a load of crap or not? [[about conceiving girls vs. boys]]?
I have heard this theory I don’t know what to think about it.

According to the theory, if you are trying to conceive a girl, have sex only on 5, 4, and 3 days before ovulation, and then abstain from it. This is because, they say, the “boy” sperm are quicker in getting to the egg, BUT the “girl” sperm outlive the boy sperm.

But then I have also heard that this is crap, that both types of sperm have the same quickness and life-longevity, the only difference is the genetic makeup in the head.

What do y’all think of this theory? Has anyone ever conceived a girl from sex the day of ovulation?

• ANSWER:
  yes i have heard the same! i have 3 boys and hav never tried to concieve a certain sex, my best friend had 3 girls and wanted to try for a boy! she did the therory and got her little man but it could have just been luck!! i have been on loads of sights and they all have the same and some different therorys like positions etc!!!

QUESTION:
If more boys are born that means more boys are conceived so then more boys are aborted?
Is this a sexist “gender gap”?

Should there be quotas? If you look at the abortion rates in India/China there is a disproportionate higher number of females being aborted and feminists don’t like this “femicide”. So why when more boys are aborted is it seen as ok?

Hypocritcal?

• ANSWER:
  More boys are born, because boys are more likely to die young. It’s nature’s way of balancing things out.

  Women ultimately outnumber men because they live longer.

QUESTION:
Shettles Method for conceiving a boy or girl?
Hello Ladies, was wondering if any of you have tried this method and was successful at conceiving whatever gender you were trying for?

• ANSWER:
  So many people give me thumbs down whenever I answer this question, so here it goes. We had three boys and wanted a girl so bad. We got a book on his method and a couple months later we found out we were pregnant with twins, and at about 5 months found out that they were both girls. We followed the techniques to a tee though, we didn’t waver even a little bit. Now, in my husbands side of the family there are only boys, he has four brothers, his dad has only brothers and so on. Males are much more prominent in my family than females so we really didn’t think there was any chance, and I had already had three boys. It may have just been luck on our part, but I am proof that it may just work. Be careful though, I did end up with twins!

QUESTION:
Any tips on conceiving a little boy??
I already have one(7), but back then I wasnt trying.I have read tons of stuff on conceiving a boy, but Id rather hear it from real opinions/experience/technics lol.
P.S. My son WAS planned, just not his sex,and I am very greatfull.If you have nothing nice to say,go find another question to answer please…

• ANSWER:
  Some suggest: having sex very very close to the time you would ovulate. This gives the shorter lifespan Y chromosome (boy) sperm the best chance at fertilizing your egg. I hear this method has a 50% chance of success.

QUESTION:
Different positions and conceiving a certain gender?
I have heard a few people say that you have a higher chance of conceiving a boy if at the time you conceived you had sex in the “Missionary” position (giving the super speedy XY’s a head start) and you have a higher chance of having a girl if at the time you conceived the female was on top (Giving all the little XX’s more of a chance, considering they are slower than XY’s)

Is there any fact in this?

Do you find this true for your current pregnancy or any previous ones?

• ANSWER:
  no lol those are silly myths, theyre fun to test and try to guess the gender, but not very reliable as being %100 accurate

QUESTION:
What are the overall chances of conceiving a boy or girl..?
What are the chances, are there positions you can do, do they really make a difference, opinions or experieces please..

• ANSWER:
  No, absolutley nothing you do will affect the chances of concieving either sex! Although there are so many different old wives tales to try that can be alot of fun!! x

QUESTION:
Are more boys conceived in the colder months and girls in the warmer months?
any scientific proof or own personal experience?

• ANSWER:
  No, never heard or seen of this, my son was born in august of last year, so it was hot!!

QUESTION:
What are the ways to increase the chances of conceiving a boy?

• ANSWER:
  I have answered your second time of asking this question.

QUESTION:
Do girls take longer to conceive than boys?
With our son, no problems, first try!

With the girls, 9 and 6 months respectivley.

Is this just a flook, or do you have a similar experience?
yes, ho ho ho, very funny. thankyou for the serious answers!

• ANSWER:
  People here have their facts messed up. On conception the baby’s sex is determined. A woman has one type of egg which is always X. A man has two types of sperm X&Y. If a Y sperm meets with X egg then it is a boy(X+Y=boy). If a X sperm meets with X egg it’s a girl(X+X=girl). I wouldn’t know because I have been trying for baby #1 for almost 10.5 months.

QUESTION:
what are the traditional beliefs to conceiving a boy?
i want to know practices regarding folklore, and traditional medicine, both european and eastern, animist or wiccan rituals in order for a woman to conceive a son.

• ANSWER:
  Some European cultures will have a woman of the family sprinkle salt on the pregnant womens head with out her knowing. There’s also this tie a string aroung the wedding band finger with the wedding band at the end. If the string goes counter clock wise it’s a boy.

QUESTION:
What can a couple do to increase the chances of conceiving a boy during pregnancy?

• ANSWER:
  There is nothing you can do to conveive a boy. It is the way the DNA from the two of you pairs up that will determine the sex of the child…and there is now way to alter this process. It is just one amazing part of having a child.

QUESTION:
Has anyone ever had success conceiving a boy, using the Shettle method?
Me and my husband have 3 beautiful little girls and no BOY! We really want to have a boy this time. We are trying th Dr. Shuttle method. Has anyone done this and have it work? Please help?

• ANSWER:
  There is no way that you can effectively determine the sex when trying to concieve… Your husband may have 5 times as many y chromosomes as he does x but the x’might be stronger or just lucky enough to fertilize the egg…

QUESTION:
Has anyone tried using the shettles method of conceiving a boy?
I have two girls and i love them but am desperate for a boy and so are inlaws ive read about the scientific way of having sex when u ovulate and deep penetration to allow male sperm to travel quicker to the egg anyone tried it and had any luck?

• ANSWER:
  if it were scientific it would mention there is no fool proof way of making sure the sperm with the Y chromosome gets there first. there no harm in trying the method, but don’t depend on it 100%

QUESTION:
is this true? about conceiving a girl and conceiving a boy?
ok…….. so i heard that at the beginning of ovulation your egg will only let in female sperm, and in the middle and end of ovulation your egg will only let in male sperm.
so you have more chance of conceiving a boy than a girl….

is this true?

• ANSWER:
  Nope, I have not heard that one! I don’t think its true. Maybe the person that told you that got mixed up, because male sperm swim fast but die quickly and female sperm swim slowly but live longer so technically the at the beginning of ovulation the male sperm would get to the egg first and toward the end of ovulation the female sperm would get to the egg!

QUESTION:
Tips on conceiving a boy, if there are any?
Me and my husband are trying for our second child. We currently have a beautiful little girl, but we’d LOVE to have a boy!
Does anyone have any tips to conceive a boy?
Thank you in advance.
Is there anything I could eat or consume to better my chances of conceiving a boy?
Thank you all for the wonderful answers. I really appreciate it. I will try some of those tips, and hope for the best.

• ANSWER:
  Yeah, try using the Shettles Method for intercourse. Also, try a diet full of potassium. Works well.

QUESTION:
Is it a fact or a myth that it becomes hard for Indian Women to conceive after 30?
More than 3 friends and a cousin I know who got married by their 30′s got their first kid immediately 9 months after their marriage.
Reason: Not coz’ they wanted parenthood coz’ they were generally informed by people that in case of Indian Women it becomes difficult to conceive post 30. Not that they can’t conceive at all but there are chances of complications. I wanted to really confirm this from someone.

• ANSWER:
  Well, it’s definitely not a fact, and I’ve not even heard anything mythological, with regard to specific fertility issues involving age and Indian women.

  In general, as women age, conception becomes more difficult. But 30 is hardly “aging”. IMHO, around 30 years old is a perfect age to be having children.

  John Jones, M.D.

QUESTION:
I come to know that conceiving after age 30 is not good for women health is this true?

• ANSWER:
  I would have to disagree, I think they watch a little closer but I don’t think the studies prove woman after 30 will do more harm. In fact that is the best time to have a baby, you are more mature. I had 4 children 3 of them before 30 1 after and I would say the one after 30 was the best pregnancy,delivery and I was much more patient with this child.

QUESTION:
Ladies age 30 and over~~did you actually have more difficulty conceiving after 30 than before?
Both of my kids were born in my early 20′s and now I really want to have another baby now that I’m 30. I’ve been reading on many web-sites that once we hit age 30 that our chance of conception starts to go down. It was so easy to get pregnant that I’ve never actually had to try. I never even had to stop birth control!

Now that I’ve decided to TTC, I have stopped birth control pills altogether.

I’m just wondering if anyone that had babies in their 20′s found it hard to conceive once they hit age 30?

Thanks ladies!

• ANSWER:
  I never tried to conceive and have a baby before I was 30. I had just turned 32, was six weeks off of birth control when I conceived our son, our first. I conceived right away, first month trying, again at almost age 34, but miscarried early. I am pregnant again after just a relatively few months of trying (and my cycles are a little screwy), and hopefully all will go well. I will be 35 by the time this baby is born. My husband is a year and a half older than me.

QUESTION:
Is it a problem for women to be pregnant and conceive after they turn 30 years ?
Is it true that if you want kids, its always better to have when you are younger and things could get difficult after we hit 30 and even more difficult after 35 ?? whats really the cut off point to be safe ?

• ANSWER:
  Fertility does starts to decline after 30 and after 35 the chances of Down Syndrome and tother problems do increase.

  However in saying that I conceived my children at 31, 33, 35 (twins), 38 and now pregnant with our 6th and final child at 40 years old, I had no difficulty conceiving, trouble free pregnancy and have five healthy children.

  Have a read of http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fertility

QUESTION:
Am i going to conceive after stopping microgyno 30.?
My depo shot expired on 23rd May 2009. I stared bleeding in November 2009 but i was bleeding after every two weeks until i met GYN. My GYN put me on Microgynon 30 for three months. I took one packet but i experience serious side effects. I had pill break bleeding on the 7th day. I don’t want to take the second packet again. When should i expect to conceive?

• ANSWER:
  Hey ,
  well every woman is different but i conceived 10 days after i stopped taking it lol.
  but most people say leave it 3 months to get out of ur system.. so i would say probs anywhere from 3 months onwards just to make sure all the contraceptives are out of ur system.
  good luck x

QUESTION:
Does woman fertility decrease after the age of 30?
I just wanna know if woman after 30 will have difficulties in conceiving or not?

• ANSWER:
  Yes. It’s best for a woman to have a baby in her mid twenties, because she’s still fertile but she’s usually out of school and living on her own, and responsible enough to take care of an infant.

QUESTION:
Trying to conceive after 30?

We have been trying for 3 years, we have done everything but invitro so far and have been told that we should be able to have children. I guess I have just been looking for some reassurance that we are not alone and that others have had sucess. We have researched other medical options – but neither one of us have insurance and things can get very pricey.

• ANSWER:
  Okay, what exactly is the question?

  I concieved my daughter when i was 31 and conceived my son back in March/April and i’m 33 now.

  You may want to add more detail.

QUESTION:
Is it safe to start trying to conceive straight after coming of Microgynon 30? What are the chances..?

• ANSWER:
  I came off Microgynon 30 and tried for a baby straight away. However, it took my cycle 12 months to become regular, and then a further 6 months to get pregnant (i now have a gorgeous 2 week old boy). Everyone is different though, so you could get pregnant straight away.

QUESTION:
What are the risks of having a baby after 30?
I am almost 28 and my husband is 34. I know we are not “old” but we want to have children in a couple of years and I worry about the effects of us getting older on conceiving, pregnancy, and even us being old when they are just teenagers. I know people have kids in their 40′s etc. but I am just seeking some opinions on this subject so please share what you think.

• ANSWER:
  You’re still O.K. No desperate rush. There is a steep decline in female fertility after the age of 35, but before that the decline is much more gradual. The chances are you are still very fertile. Conceiving is a bit of a lottery in any case. We tried for a year before conceiving our first son. I was 29 when we started trying, and 30 by the time we conceived. He was born the day after my 31st birthday. When I was 33 we decided to try for another …….. and conceived immediately. Our second son was born 3 weeks after my 34th birthday. So, you see, age is not the only factor.

  There are no risks to your health as regards carrying a baby after the age of 30. Childbirth is no more or no less difficult than for young girls. Much more important is not smoking or drinking during pregnancy, regardless of age. The chance of a chromosomal disorder such as Downs does increase with the age of the mother, but is still very low at the age of 30, too low to be worth considering. There is much more risk of having a child with the kind of developmental problem that can occur with any age of mother ie autism, or a genetically inherited disorder. I’m not saying that’s likely either, just trying to put things into perspective.

  So I would say, don’t rush into things. Wait until you pass your 30th birthday, and then you will have done it in your own time, which is important. That’s assuming you only want one or two. If you want more, then you may want to consider starting now, otherwise you might find yourself cramming in several pregnancies close together.

  At the end of this year my son has his 13th birthday. So I will be just turned 44 when he becomes a teenager. He doesn’t think of me as “old”. A lot of it is to do with the parents’ attitude to life rather than chronological age.

  As for your husband’s fertility, not a problem for a good many years. Men get a lot longer.

  If I had my time again I would choose to have my children at exactly the same age.

  But, a word of caution, nothing in life is guaranteed. You can’t predict what will happen with fertility, health etc. I’m talking about minor problems, but ones which can still have a huge impact on conception or advisability of pregnancy. So if it would be a real disaster if you were stopped from having children for any reason, it would be better to go for it now. You can fit the rest of your life around it. Children do not have to change your life nearly as much as some people claim. If you’re prepared to be pragmatic, there are ways of carrying on with just about all the activities you did before they came along, especially if you breastfeed. Then you can go anywhere and do anything with a young baby. When our son was 4 months old we backpacked round France, travelling by train. Hope some of this helps

QUESTION:
More than 6 months to conceive after taking the pill and you are over 30 or have you had any complications ?
I had recently stopped taking the pill to use a more natural method. Realizing how easy it is to get pregnant even when it is not your “fertile days”, I have been thinking about getting back on the pill. I wanted to know if anyone had any type of complications while on the pill. Or if it has taken anyone more than 6 months to conceive after getting off the pill and they are over 30 and have never had children.
We don’t want to get pregnant for another 2 years, but I don’t want to take the pill and cause it to be harder to get pregnant as I will be in my mid-30s

• ANSWER:
  I was on “the pill” from the time I was 16……I stopped taking it when I was 24 because the Dr. said it would take a while to get pregnant….I was pregnant a month later!!….After he was born I was never on the pill again and I did not get pregnant again until I was 30…….Delivered at 31 with no complications……

QUESTION:
Conceived your first after age 30?
I was wondering if there are any women out there who conceived their first child naturally after the age of 30? I’m 30 now and have been trying for 4 years, had loads of tests done, been on meds, etc. I’m losing hope. I was just wondering if there is anyone out there who conceived their first naturally after age 30 to give me hope that it might still happen for me. Thanks.

• ANSWER:
  My mother had my older brother when she was 32. He was her first child. Then when she was 34 she was pregnant and she lost it, i think it was only 2 months old but they had but she had been trying for a while. She was pretty sure it would have been a boy. Then two years later, at 36, she gave birth to me, her last child and only baby girl.

QUESTION:
At 30 years old and 10 years on the pill…How long did it take you to conceive after birth control pills?

• ANSWER:
  My sister in law was on the pill for 10 years took her 4 months to get pregnant with her first after going off it.A friend of mine got pregnant while on the pill.Depends on your body.Good luck.

QUESTION:
research reveals that fertility in women drops dramatically after age 30. have we been doing it wrong?
many have suggested that women should focus on family in their twenties and early thirties? if you thought you would have difficulty conceiving later in life might it change your priorities? would you consider pursuing your education and career after you’ve had children?

• ANSWER:
  I don’t think so. I simply wasn’t ready to have children while I was still in my 20s and I’m glad I didn’t. I wasn’t ready for them emotionally or financially. If I had had children then, they would now be in their 20s and possibly married. Because I waited, they are in their teens instead.

QUESTION:
Can a 60 year old man become infertile after being 30 years of sexually inactive?
what are the odds of conceiving a healthy baby at this age?

• ANSWER:
  no, not infertile. aging doesn’t affect men as seriously as women. the chance of an autistic/downs baby is very slightly increased at 60, but not by much.

QUESTION:
Anyone naturally conceive their first after age 30?
I just read some article about “infertility myths” and it one of the “myths” was that women are fertile until age 40. The “truth” was that fertility starts falling off at age 30, then dramatically moreso at age 35, and its all downhill from there. I’m 31 and have been TTC for almost 5 years. I’ve seen the doctors, had all the tests, etc., and I currently have a distance issue with my man. I want to know if anyone conceived their first naturally after age 30? Do I still have some hope? I thought I still had a couple years left before its time to give up.

• ANSWER:
  My mom naturally conceived me naturally when she was 33 (I’m her first). I don’t think her and my dad were trying for a baby, but here I am! She then had my brother when she was 37, and she conceived him naturally too. He was going to have a twin, but sadly she miscarried the twin at 12 weeks.

  Good luck! I hope you get a little angel soon!

QUESTION:
Does remaining inside after ejaculation increase chances of preganancy?
My husband and I are trying to conceive; after ejaculation, my husband does not withdraw until after about 20 to 30 minutes have passed. (I feel so weird writing this.) My question is, does this increase our chances of conceiving? I’m not sure if the natural oils or perspiration on his skin can potentially harm the sperm?

Any helpful answers would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

• ANSWER:
  Having your husband stay in you after sex does not increase your chances. The best thing to increase your chances if do the deed with a pillow under your bottom or do it doggie style. After doing it doggie style keep your hips in the air for 10 to 15 minutes. That is all that is needed. Also with missionary style, just keep the pillow under your bottom and lay still for 10 to 15 mintues. Both procedures allow for deeper penetration and will help the sperm to get where it needs to go. No need for your husband to “squish” you for thirty minutes. lol

QUESTION:
Lying on your back after sex.. does it help when it comes to conceiving?
I have heard that lying on your back really helps after sex when you are trying to conceive.. After my husband finished last night I laid on my back with a pillow under my butt for 30 minutes. I have heard this helps and then I have heard it does not. I am really hoping we did conceive, I did orgams so maybe the fact his sperm was pulled into my cervix and my the lying on the back thing I did

• ANSWER:
  you are doing it right but you missed out very impt detail and that is ovulation. You need to ovulate in-order to conceive and the best way to detect is to monitor your cervical mucus everyday when you wipe. Sometimes it may be dry, creamy, cloudy, milky and abundant. On the day when you feel really wet down there, put some mucus between 2 fingers and feel the texture. Fertile mucus are slippery and very stretchy (kind of like those muscus coming out from your nose, sorry for the TMI), it should be able to stretch more than 2″.. you may wan to confirm with ovulation test. It should show positive.. GL with bless you babydust ***

QUESTION:
spotting after possible conceiving?
I know in most cases I’ve read that implantation bleeding occurs 7+ days after conceiving. My fiance and I have been trying to conceive for a few months now. My periods are very irregular ranging from 23 days to 30 days.

Well my question is has anyone experienced implantation bleeding sooner? like 1-3 days after possibly conceiving? cause I spotted for only about 1-2hrs very light and then it stopped. I should still have a week or 2 before my period should even start.

• ANSWER:
  this is not the answer you want but i think its probably just due to hormonal flucuations. i have been ttc for 2 years and if you look hard enough you will find the answer you want to hear which is yes but in my experience it always turns out to be nothing

  i tried for 4 years and fell pregnant naturally after a number of failed fertilty treatments. ttc again for 2 years and can relate to your question as i am sure i have asked it but spottingis the exception not the norm i believe

QUESTION:
After sexual intercourse when trying to conceive, do you stay laying in bed for 30 min?
And later do you still have some sperm come out after you get up? Have you found this successful to get pregnant?
I meant to say semen coming out, sorry.

• ANSWER:
  After ejaculation semen clots. When it’s clotted sperm have limited mobility. So laying down for 30 minutes is recommended to give semen time to liquefy (which takes 5-30 minutes), so that more sperm can get a chance to swim into the cervix.

  Orgasming also helps, since it dilates the cervix and draws sperm in.

QUESTION:
can peeing after intercourse decrease you’re chances of conceiving?!?
im TTC#1 & everytime me & my husband try to conceive, ihave to pee 30 minutes after, can peeing after sexual intercourse decrease you’re chances of getting pregnant????

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
cycles, conceiving after depo Please help?
I am a 30 year old married woman who had two cycles on depo, the first was in my late teens for 18 months and the seconded in my early-twenties for 3 years. I have been off depo for over 3 years- however my cycle have not returned to normal. I have had a total of 4 cycles since the depo should have cleared from my system. All of those have been in the last 16 months. There has also been one period of spotting just resently. My husband and I are now ready to add to our family again, however we are having difficulty due to the irregularity of my cycles or lack there of.
Has anyone else experienced difficulty in returning to regular cycles and/ or conceiving post depo? Is there anything I can do? Is there anything that can regulate my cycle aside from the pill( it makes me very ill)? Thanks so much for your help everyone

• ANSWER:
  My best friend was on it, and she was on it for years, after she got off it she had messed up periods for 2 years! Then she got prego, then got in it again, only went through one cycle didn’t get it then got prego again…now she isnt on anything and her periods are once a month but very heavy….If you cant get on the pill I am afraid you will just have to let nature take it’s course…there are hundreds of pills, I am sure one will work for you. I personally had to go through several kinds before I found one that I liked and my body liked…It’s FemCon FE its a low dose and I had NO side effects.

  Good luck

QUESTION:
Question about missing a pill and conceiving (Microgynon 30)?
I recently forgot to take a pill and had unprotected sex on the same day. I continued taking my pills as normal the next day but had unprotected sex again on the days after that. During that period I experienced breakthrough bleeding caused by the pill I missed. Is there a chance I could be pregnant or does the fact that I’m actually experiencing bleeding mean I’m definitely not?

Thank you. And yes, I know I’ve been a very silly woman.

• ANSWER:
  There is actually a chance you could still be pregnant. It’s only a slim chance but it’s still there. Remember that some women actually have proper periods throughout pregnancy and don’t know they are pregnant until very late so I would suggest you do a test just to be sure.

QUESTION:
with my husband having 30 million sperm count, will I conceive after he undergoing treatment??
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• ANSWER:
  No one can tell you whether you will conceive or not, we dont have crystal balls. Gd Lk with your treatment. Babydust to you…

QUESTION:
How long Should you wait after the possible conceiving to take a pregnancy test?
Saturday the 30th is the day of unprotected intercourse. How long should I wait to take the test in order to receive accurate results?

• ANSWER:
  if you get an early response test, a few days before your missed period

QUESTION:
conceiving 3 days after your period?
is it likely to conceive 3-5 days after your period if your on a 30-33 day cycle? and your periods come on the same day every month, never late or early?

• ANSWER:
  I really doubt you’d conceive then. It takes time for one of your eggs to ripen to maturity & for your hormones to do their thing and make you ovulate. HIGHLY unlikely to happen, but not impossible. Mine are 27-29 days in length. Last one was 30.

QUESTION:
Was on the pill since 17? 30 now? Able to conceive easily after?
If were taking the pill since 17, and stopped at 28.. and are 30 years old now. .

would it be a little bit hard to conceive?

• ANSWER:
  The pill doesn’t cause infertility. It was originally thought that it might, but it doesn’t.

  I took the pill from 15 – 29 and have three healthy children.

  If you have trouble conceiving, it may be another reason such as your weight (if you’re over or underweight), or lifestyle, or it could be a hormonal issue.

QUESTION:
I’ve realised that 2 weeks after conceiving I got really drunk, is my baby at risk?
I am now 5 weeks pregnant and apart from not having taken folic acid in advance of conceiving, this is the only thing that is really worrying me. I’m 30.

Surely many people (she says trying to convince herself…) go on drinking and partying right up until they realise they have missed their period.

Is there anything I can do to put things right? Will the harm already be done? Am I being silly and of course there is no risk?

Many Thanx

• ANSWER:
  I did the same thing. Your baby will be just fine. They are more resiliant than we give them credit for. Alcohol Syndrome usually happens with prolonged alcohol use, not just a one-time deal, so not to worry….your cutie will be fine.

QUESTION:
Why am I having so many problems conceiving after having a baby and breastfeeding?
I am 30 and trying to conceive my second child. I conceived my daughter on the first try. She is now 17 months old. I breastfed her for about 15, and weaned in late-December.

During breastfeeding, I noticed that my periods occurred every 28 days like clockwork, but my cycles varied in how heavy or light they were. Also, as my breastmilk started to dwindle in the final months of breastfeeding, I noticed an increase in PMS.

Now that I’ve stopped breastfeeding, my cycles have remained regular in duration but they again vary between light and heavy. In addition, I’ve noticed a drastic increase each cycle in my PMS symptoms, such that I am convinced that I am pregnant before AF comes.

Can anyone relate to these problems? Did you have any issues conceiving another baby? How long did it take?

• ANSWER:
  It’s called “secondary infertility,” not being able to conceive after already having a child, and it’s very common.
  You would have to consult a doctor to find out exactly why you’re having trouble, but I will say that while breastfeeding even though you were having periods, you may not have been ovulating, and you may still not be ovulating. Some of the symptoms you describe sound like endometriosis.

  I had the opposite thing happen as you, I had a hard time conceiving my first two children, went through infertility treatments, and now am expecting my third child, who was a surprise. I didn’t think I could be surprised! The biggest thing I was doing differently this time, was I was eating healthier and following the advice of this book, “Lean & Free 2000 Plus” by Dana Thornock. You can get it used on amazon.com for under , and I highly recommend it. I have come to think that one of the most important things for a woman’s reproductive health is her diet. You can’t be low-calorie or low-carb or fad dieting, and have your body be receptive to pregnancy.

  Another thing to look into is wild yam cream, not artificial progesterone, but wild yam extract. One of the companies I’ve bought from is Syringa, you can find them online, and there are many other good brands. The wild yam basically absorbs through the skin, and your body uses the natural chemicals to make hormones. Most of us just don’t eat the way we should and get the fresh fruits and vegetables our bodies need to make hormones. It’s worth looking into.

  Good luck! And you haven’t been trying that long, give it a few months. Ok, well I don’t know how long you’ve been “trying” but you just barely stopped breastfeeding. Give your body some time.

QUESTION:
How long did it take to conceive after ending Depo-Provera?
I have to make a choice. Either I end getting the shot now and be ready to have children when I am 32 or wait and have my first child when I am 40.

I just turned 30, am single, and my GYN is concerned about my fertility. I’ve been on Depo for 6 years due to severe cramping. The doctor told me that it could take up to 3 years after stopping the shot to conceive. She told me she wants me to be ready when I find Mr. Right…and not have to wait. (I’ve wanted to have a baby since I was 15, just wanted to be married first – but I have no problem being a single parent. )

Just looking for someone to help me with this big decision!
I started on the Pill when I was 14, I passed out because of my cramps. After 6 different prescriptions, I asked to be put on Depo – the Pills did not work at that time. Maybe they will now, since I have a different doctor.

As for my bone density, I had a bone scan done last year and the doc said it was excellent.

• ANSWER:
  I took one round of Depo-Provera, and it took nearly 2 years for us to conceive. Plus I could get my cycle to re-regulate itself, it was completely wacky after going off the shot. Definitely be prepared to take time to get regulated again so you can properly chart your fertility.

QUESTION:
will there be chance of conceiving after threatened abortion?
i had a threatened aborting after 10 wks of pregnancy but when i had a scan during 8 wks the sac growth was only for 6 wks and asked me to wait but afer 2 wks i stated bleeding and got aborted without my knowledge , during that period we ones had a contact without protection and soon after i washed clearly allowing everything to come out….now its over 30 days i havent got my periods and no sign……wat will be the reason??? how long i can wait??? and will that cause me to conceive ????iam totally confuse.

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QUESTION:
Trouble Conceiving after M/C with D&C When should we seek medical assistance?
We started TTC Aug 2009 conceived first cycle but sadly ended in missed miscarriage at 9.5 weeks dint find out until 11.5 weeks so required emergency D&C Nov 2009
My Fiance an I have been TTC since some months with OPKs but now Mar 2011 and still no luck We conceived our Beautiful 3 year old Daughter first month TTC without OPK and our Angel Baby first month TTC with OPK. Now 16 months of TTC after D&C and still not pregnant. I had my follow up after D&C but OBGyN didn’t do a scan and I have read they are meant to. I am wondering something could have gone wrong with the D&C off which was not detected. My cycles are fairly regular 26-30 with average of 28 days.

Could something be wrong ???
When should I seek medical help ???
Spoke to my doc she reakons I should go on the pill but that doesn’t help my TTC situation please help !!!!
Thank u for answering but why u say wait longer for body to get back to normal i got my AF as normal straight after D&C n that was over 16 months ago (almost 1.5 years) so what should I wait longer for my body to do what sorry I don’t understand ??

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QUESTION:
Anyone had problems conceiving after Mirena?
I had my Mirena put in in Dec 07 and had it in only for 7 months. We want to try to get pregnant so that our little ones are around 2 years apart so I had mine taken out July 30. I thought that I would be pregnant by now I was really hoping to conceive by January but it just doesn’t seem to be happening for us. I have been tracking my CM and taking my BBT every morning, we are timing sex with my ovulation and we have tried various positions but its just not happening for us. I have heard that it could take up to a year after removal to conceive, if I had known that I would of never gotten the Mirena. Does any one have any other tips for things to do to try and conceive?

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QUESTION:
Can you get pregnant just one day after you ovulated?
So I was reading that there are only three days a women is most fertile (2 days before ovulation and the day of ovulation). But the most is 5 days before ovulation. My question is that supposedly I ovulated on December 30, 2009, I had unprotected sex the next day (new years eve) and now I am pregnant assuming that’s when I conceived. So is it possible I conceived after ovulation?

• ANSWER:
  Technically no, as the egg only survives 24 hours then dies off, so the unprotected sex wouldn’t make a difference as the egg would be dead by the time the sperm got there.

  But..ovulation doesn’t just happen during the daytime when we can detect it. The egg can pop out of the fallopian tube up to 3 days in advance of ovulation, but not actualy be totally released by the tube until the day of ovulation – it can be penetrated by sperm any of these days. The egg being released fully can happen within a 24 hour period, so it’s very possible that your egg was still viable on New Year’s Eve (just) and that you conceived just in time before it died off.

  In any case, congrats!

QUESTION:
how soon after starting TTCing does the average 30 year old fit lady conceive a baby?

• ANSWER:
  Usually within the first 6 months of ttc women will get pregnant 70% of the time I read recently. It’s after 35 that if not pregnant in 6 months a doctor should be seen. Good luck!

QUESTION:
I have regular 28-30 day cycles. i am past ovulation for this month. Can one conceive after ovulation too?
i m 28. ttc with 1st. bd on 18th, 19th and 20th day of the cycle.

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QUESTION:
Average 28-30 day cycle ~ sex on CD 16 ~ what my chance of conceiving ?
I have a average cycle length of 28-30 (mostly 28 days)
DF and I had unprotected sex on Cycle Day 16 (PM)

I know best chance to concieve is before and during O . . . BUT I am stil wondering . .

What’s my chance of conceiving ?

Can u conceive the day after “expected” ovulation ?

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QUESTION:
is it possible to conceive a day or after your period ends, if your cycle is approximately 30 days?

• ANSWER:
  You can concieve at any time, even on your period. Its not as commen but yes it can happen.

QUESTION:
Conceiving after you had your period? possible?
my bf and I fooled around last feb 1 and accidentally he came near my you know. but 10 days after, which was the day my period was really supposed to come, came. it lasted to 5-6days but it was sorta light(or maybe im just paranoid).

im usually a 30/31 cycle girl. is there a chance that i could still be pregnant? i hope not. we’ll be safe and smart next time. ill just have to wait another week for AF to come

and right after that period i started having this clear or watery discharge until now..and it became sticky when it was my most fertile time so that means i ovulated right? and im starting to have on and off cramps. cause my period is coming in a week.

but i had my period so please help me not to worry

oh and im not experiencing any pregnancy symptoms like sore breast, fatigue, nausea and such.i know its not implantation bleeding. thanks

• ANSWER:
  I’ve had the exact same situation. I’m not preg and I really don’t think that you are.

QUESTION:
Best method to conceive after the first try?
I read that after intercourse the women should lay for at least 30 mins
true?

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QUESTION:
possibility of conceiving after your period?
my bf and I fooled around last feb 1 and accidentally he came near my you know. but 10 days after, which was the day my period was really supposed to come, came. it lasted to 5-6days but it was sorta light(or maybe im just paranoid) with brown blood at day 3 or 4. im usually a 30/31 cycle girl. is there a chance that i could still be pregnant? i hope not. we’ll be safe and smart next time. ill just have to wait another week for AF to come

and rigt after that period i started having this clear or watery discharge until now..but i think its decreasing. and it became sticky when it was my most fertile time. and im starting to have on and off cramps. cause my period is coming in a week.

but i had my period so please help me not to worry

oh and im not experiencing any symptoms like sore breast, fatigue, nausea and such.

i know its not implantation bleeding cause i bled for a week. and it came on the day it was supposed to.

• ANSWER:
  You are not pregnant. That sticky discharge during your ovulation is very very normal. I get it every month during that time as well. If you had your period, and you have not had sex again, then you are def. not pregnant. Even if the period was dark, light, short, long…doesn’t matter. A period is a period, period… =] Hope this helps!

QUESTION:
I am planning a pregnancy.My period will come on the 30 of this month how soon after that is good to try ?
I am 30yr.s old & have only tried 3 times with my ex nothing happened but I had just got off the pill a month & a half prior
I hope I can conceive. Everybody else around me seems to get knocked up if a guy looks at them wrong ! Lol !

• ANSWER:
  Try getting one of those over the counter ovulation tests. Many of my friends have used them and have gotten pregnant within a matter of months.

QUESTION:
conceiving after mirena?
So I got my mirena taken out on the 18th, bled for a couple days like a normal period. Before the mirena my menstrual cycle is usually every 30 days. my husband and I are trying to conceive but are aware i wont get prego right away. Though I took 2 prego test a couple of days apart later in the week of this week and both came out negative. I still havent gotten my period nor any signs of getting one like my normal ache in my back a day before. For the people who had the mirena did they have similar issues or experiences?

• ANSWER:
  I got my Mirena out on August 25 of last month and bled normally for a few days. You are testing too early. You will keep getting negatives for about another 2 weeks. I haven’t had mine out but almost a month and my boobs are killing me and I’m eating everything in the house, if that tells you anything

QUESTION:
How hard is it to conceive after a miscarriage?
Okay so im 30 and im trying to wonder is it because im in my 30s now that im not getting pregnant being TTC#3 for 6 months now.. And now my period is not right, it spotted last month and currently 3 days late thia month. Not stressed out more then usual.

• ANSWER:
  Since this will be your 3rd child,you would have a relatively easy time conceiving.So don’t stress it.

QUESTION:
TTC. I have regular 28-30 day cycles. i m past ovulation for this month. Can one conceive after ovulation too?

• ANSWER:
  What’s a normal menstrual cycle?
  An average menstrual cycle lasts 28 days – that’s counting from the first day of one period to the day before the next. Some women have much shorter cycles, possibly lasting only 23 days, and some have much longer ones, lasting up to 35 days. Cycles which are shorter or longer than this are probably not normal, and you should see your doctor. You should also see your doctor if you bleed between periods or after sex.
  How your hormones work
  Your menstrual cycle is under the control of an array of hormones produced in various parts of the body:

  • Gonadotrophin-releasing hormone (produced in the hypothalamus, which is in the brain)

  • Follicle-stimulating hormone (produced in the pituitary gland, which is also in the brain)

  • Luteinising hormone (produced in the pituitary gland)

  • Oestrogen (produced in the ovaries)

  • Progesterone (also produced in the ovaries)

  The whole process starts in the brain. The hypothalamus produces gonadotrophin-releasing hormone (GnRh) which travels to the pituitary gland and signals it to release follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH). FSH is carried round the body in the bloodstream and stimulates the ovaries to start ripening eggs. Between 15 and 20 egg-containing sacs, called follicles, then start to mature in the ovaries. Of these, one follicle (or very occasionally two or more) grows faster than all the others.

  FSH also stimulates the ovaries to produce oestrogen. This encourages the eggs to mature and starts to thicken the lining of the uterus so that it’s ready to support a pregnancy, should fertilisation occur.
  Ovulation: the egg is released
  As oestrogen levels rise, levels of FSH fall temporarily and then rise again – accompanied by a huge surge of luteinising hormone (LH) from the pituitary gland. It is this hormone that triggers ovulation – the moment that the most mature egg bursts out of its sac and away from the ovary. The egg is immediately caught up by the ends of the fallopian tube.

  Normally your cervix (the neck of your uterus) produces a thick, opaque mucus that sperm can’t penetrate. Just before ovulation, though, oestrogen changes the mucus so that it becomes thin, clear and stretchy. This allows the sperm to swim through the cervix into the uterus and up to the fallopian tubes where fertilisation may take place.
  After ovulation
  In the ovary, the empty follicle collapses and becomes a corpus luteum. This small yellow mass of cells starts to produce the hormone progesterone. Progesterone changes the mucus in the cervix so that, once again, it becomes impenetrable to sperm. It also acts on the lining of the uterus, which becomes thick and spongy as a result of an increased blood supply, ready to receive a fertilised egg. As levels of progesterone rise, your breasts may feel stretched and tingly. The pituitary gland stops producing FSH so that no more eggs mature in your ovaries.
  If fertilisation occurs…
  If the egg is fertilised in the fallopian tube, it will continue to travel to the uterus, where it beds down in the lining. At this implantation stage the fertilised egg is made up of about 150 cells. The journey from ovary to uterus takes about five days. Your progesterone levels will stay high and you may start to feel the early signs of pregnancy.
  If fertilisation doesn’t occur…
  If the egg isn’t fertilised or doesn’t successfully implant, it starts to disintegrate and the corpus luteum shrinks. Your oestrogen and progesterone levels drop and the lining of your uterus starts to produce prostaglandins. These chemicals cause changes in the blood supply to your uterus, breaking up the lining and stimulating the uterus to contract. Your period starts and the lining of your uterus is shed along with the unfertilised egg, and your menstrual cycle starts again.

QUESTION:
How long did it take you to conceive after coming off the pill?
My husband and I decided to start trying. I’ve been on LoEstrin 30 since I was 15. Should I be waiting 3 months to try? Is it okay to start right away?

• ANSWER:
  2 years. But I have PCOS, i didn’t know there was anything wrong with my cycle because the Pill hid the symptoms.

  You can jump on the bareback saddle as soon as you stop taking the pill. It varies from woman to woman how long it takes for their normal period to return. So you can start TTC right away, just don’t be surprised if you don’t get pregnant in the first few months

  Good luck.

QUESTION:
How long does it take to conceive after having the Mirena IUD removed?
I had the IUD removed on March 25, 2011 & my period returned 5 days later on March 30th. I’m currently on the patch so i don’t get pregnant right away.. but I was wondering how long after my period & the patch has been removed, would I have to wait before I can conceive. We’re wanting to try to conceive during the month of May & June. Any answers would be greatly appreciated, Thanks!

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QUESTION:
CONCEIVING AFTER VERY RECENT MISCARRIAGE?
Okay, so I have a normal 29 day cycle and would always ovulate on schedule. I ended up finding out I was pregnant June 15th 2009( 4 days before my period was due). I started bleeding June 30th 2009 and ended up passing tissue and having cramping and lots of bleeding on July 2nd 2009(had gone to er). I went for a check up a few days later and my levels had dropped to 8hcg and everything else looked fine. Since I was nearly 6 weeks along and had miscarried naturally the doctor gave me the okay to start TTC again as soon as my husband and I felt ready.I bled from June 30th(when I first noticed I was bleeding) and completely finished bleeding July 9th. About 2 or 3 days later I had a lot(and I mean a lot) of creamy white odorless discharge. Husband and I have been BDing since I stopped bleeding. Today is July 16th 2009 and I’m having really dull cramping(is this ovulation cramping you think?) Is it possible to even ovulate right after a miscarriage since I heard most don’t? Has anyone ended up pregnant before they even saw their first period post miscarriage?? Lots of answers would be EXCELLENT Also, what symptoms did you experience if you did conceive again shortly after and when did you first notice them
really?? no one else can post answers?? Well…thanks for the answers I did get…i appreciate it

• ANSWER:
  You are VERY fertile immediately after a miscarriage. I got pregnant two days after I had my miscarriage! I wasn’t trying, because I didn’t know it was possible as I was still bleeding from my miscarriage. I was shocked and very happy!

  So yes, you absoloutely could be. Pregnancy tests right now may be wrong as you still have pregnancy hormones in your system for a month or sometimes more, so your doctor will send you in to get your BETA levels tested. If they are increasing, you are pregnant again!

  Good luck!

  AND, I had sore nipples and breasts about two weeks later. I miscarried November 21st, got pregnant a couple of days after that, and got tested december 15th because I didn’t feel right. So about a couple of weeks after my miscarriage I had symptoms.

QUESTION:
When we did scan 8th week after pregnancy and no heart beat was there. Hence we went for abortion.?
We did all check-up then for her including sugar, hemoglobin, Thyroid, Torch panel and all were normal. Only Prolactin is around 27 (normal must < 20). I also did semen analysis and it came out normal. Any reason for the miscarriage. Dr. gave her cabgolin 0.25 mg once per week for 4 weeks. She said then she can conceive after a month. We are married for 8 months now. Im 30 and she is 24. Please advise.

• ANSWER:
  i also had a M/C

  sorry to tell you but there are no answers for a M/C

  some things are just meant to be, life goes on!

  Be glad that it happened really early and not later on! and you could of had really problems then with deformity ect. your wife’s body knew there was something wrong with the process, and prity much rejected the baby..

  good luck for your Future :0)

  baby dust to you and everyone ttc.

QUESTION:
Chances Of Getting Pregnant After Tubal Reversal?
I am 30 Years old and was divorced two years ago…I have 3 children with my ex-husband. After my 3rd child, I had a tubal ligation. I am getting ready to marry a wonderful man and we have talked about having my tubal reversed. This is a very costly procedure and we aren’t real sure of the chances of conceiving after it is done. What Are The Chances Of Conceiving?

• ANSWER:
  It does cost a lot of money and after it’s done there is a chance it wont work.
  My guess is that it is only a 30% chance that it will work once it’s done. I know for sure it’s less than 50% chance.
  I think it’s around 30% chance of working.
  A man has a 50% chance of working after having a Reversal but it’s not like that for the women because it’s more complicated.
  I wish you luck.

QUESTION:
when is the best time to conceive after your period ends ?
So me and my fiance are planning a baby. we are going to try next month. because i think we already missed this month. anyways it’s like a 30-32 day cycle
so my next period should come on the 2nd or 3rd. anyways when would be the best time to try

• ANSWER:
  For a cycle like yours (mine’s similar,) 13-17 days after your period are the best days to try. My next period is also due about the 3rd; my fertile time was last Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, and that may have been yours, too. Do you get any sort of lower-abdomen pain in the middle of your cycle? That pain signals that ovulation is beginning. So does the presence of copious, slick mucus coming out of your vagina. Best of luck to you!

QUESTION:
am anemic can it stop me from conceiving?
i started having the signs when i was pregnant with my first child ayear ago, after the baby i have not been on medication ; am planning to conceive but i don’t know it will affect my conception.

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QUESTION:
In a country where The Bacheor was conceived, how can anyone invoke the “sanctity of marriage” argument?
As a rationale for denying gay people the right to make a lifetime commitment to someone they love and have loved in many cases, for years?

Why aren’t they out the front of TV studios with signs saying “This show demeans my marriage” or “Your show is teaching my child to be a money hungry little skank”?

Just sayin’

• ANSWER:
  Reality TV shows are an abomination unto God.

QUESTION:
What are tips that can help my husband and I conceive a child?
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 9 months now. I don’t suspect there should be any problems conceiving, however neither of us have been to the doctor to get checked. We plan on trying for a year and if we still have no luck we will get our fertility checked. I was wondering in the mean time for those of you who have been to the doctor, what have they said to do to increase your chance of conceiving? Are there any tips out there that worked great for you? I’d also like to hear success stories…Thanks so much!

• ANSWER:
  There is a book called “Taking Charge of Your Fertility” by Toni Welcher. She says that if you follow the plan in the book and you are a normal healthy couple then you should conceive in-at most-4-6 cycles. She actually says it should take less than that assuming everything is alright. This book is great! I highly recommend it.

QUESTION:
Why does it take some people longer to conceive than others?
One of my uncles and his wife have been married for almost 15 years and they want kids, but they can’t conceive, whereas, my sister and her husband have been married for 8 years and have 2 kids. Why is it difficult for some people to conceive?

• ANSWER:
  To some degree it’s just luck. A normal, healthy couple has about a 25% chance of conceiving every month of actively ‘trying’. (And if they aren’t really ‘trying’ but are just accepting what happens, and aren’t having sex very often, the percentages are lower.) So it can easily take 6-12 months to get pregnant, if the roll of the dice isn’t in your favor.

  But if a couple has been trying for several years without success, there is usually a physical/medical reason — and there are lots of possibilities.

  The woman might not be ovulating, or doing so very rarely.
  She might have blocked tubes so the egg can’t get where it needs to be, or the sperm can’t find the egg.

  She might have thick/hostile cervical mucus that keeps the sperm from getting through.

  She might have a short luteul phase — her hormonal pattern is such that she has a period before the fertilized egg has a chance to implant in the uterus.

  She could have antibodies that cause her body to destroy the sperm, or lead to repeated, very early miscarriages.

  Or the man might have too few sperm, or his sperm might be weak or poorly developed, so they can’t fertilize the egg.

  In a few cases nothing obvious is found. Medical science still doesn’t understand everything that is involved in making a baby, so an occassional couple has ‘unexplained infertility’ … which just means that there is SOMETHING wrong, but the doctors aren’t smart enough to figure out what it is.

  (Fortunately, there are treatments for most types of infertility, so if a couple is willing/ able to go through treatment [can be VERY costly if insurance doesn't cover it], they have a good chance of ending up with a baby eventually.

QUESTION:
What is the best way to conceive twins?
I’ve wanted twins since I was a very little girl, and I don’t want to get pregnant unless I have twins. Is there some way I can know if I can conceive twins?
Twins in my family skip three generations, and I am the third generation. I guess that’s why I’m so bent on having twins.
What is ttc?

• ANSWER:
  yams and lots of em for up to 2 years before ttc and just keep eating them .. there is a tribe that’s main staple diet is yams and they have 80% twins.. good luck ..

  No one is quite sure why, but the Yoruba tribe in West Africa has the highest rate of twinning in the world. A study concluded that the mother’s diet was the cause, being high in cassava, a type of yam or sweet potato. The peelings of this vegetable are thought to contain a chemical that causes hyperovulation. In addition, a 2006 study found that women who consume dairy are five times as likely to have twins.

  1) Have a History
  Do twins run in your family? If you have a mother, brother, sister, uncle or long lost cousin with multiples, you may wonder if you’ll have them too. Sometimes twinning is hereditary, it’s true. However, only fraternal (dizygotic twins are influenced by heredity, and then only in some cases. If your mother or maternal grandmother was or had fraternal twins, you might have inherited a gene for hyperovulation, increasing your chances of conceiving twins also.

  Grow or Gain Weight
  A recent study published by the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology correlates the rise in multiple birth rates with rising rates of obesity. Research found that mothers with a BMI (Body Mass Index) of 30 or higer were significantly more likely to have twins. Again, this statistic only holds true for fraternal (dizygotic) twins. The research also showed that women of above-average height were also more likely to have multiples.

  3) Wait Until You’re Older
  Older mothers are more likely to conceive twins than their younger counterparts. It’s thought that the body accelerates ovulation as the biological clock starts ticking faster. Seventeen percent of mothers over age 45 have multiples. Wait five more years and the odds rise to one in nine!

  4) Have More Twins
  Once you have had a multiple pregnancy, you are significantly more likely to conceive — and deliver — twins again! Some estimates suggest that mothers of twins are four times more likely to have twins again than a woman who has never been pregnant, or who only had a singleton.

  6) Seek Fertility Assistance
  Reproductive technology has dramatically increased the multiple birth rate. Drugs that stimualate ovulation can lead to a multiple pregnancy, but multiples can also result from invitro fertilization. It’s not just that multiple embryos are implanted in the mother, but there is also an unexplained increase in the number of monozygotic twins among IVF patients. No ethical doctor would provide treatment if it wasn’t warranted, so fertility assistance should only be sought out when necessary.

  7) Have A Big Family
  The more kids you have, the more likely you are to conceive twins in a subsequent pregnancy. No one knows the magic limit that triggers a multiple pregnancy, so you’ll just have to keep trying until it happens.

  Most people think that you can’t get pregnant while breastfeeding, that the process of lactating keeps a woman from ovulating. However, plenty of mothers of twins can disprove that theory. Some research has supported the theory that the chance of twins or multiples is increased if a woman conceives while breastfeeding

  9) Get Pregnant On the Pill
  Birth control pills are usually thought to be 99.9 percent effective at preventing pregnancy. However, that .01 percent often results in a double whammy — multiples. Sometimes pregnancy occurs when the pill isn’t taken consistently; in other cases, the hormonal mix of a particular drug type simply doesn’t provide enough coverage to completely prevent ovulation. In either case, playing around with hormones can lead to hyperovulation, increasing the chances of multiples.

  10) Just Get Lucky!
  Many parents of multiples don’t meet any of the classic criteria, yet find themselves doubly blessed. Monozygotic twins are particularly mysterious; no one is exactly certain what causes an egg to split after conception, producing identical twins. The bottom line is that there truly isn’t a whole lot an individual can do to influence their chances of having twins; sometimes you just get lucky!

QUESTION:
What are the options for a couple trying to conceive through normal sex who have been unsuccessful?
Let’s assume the woman has very irregular cycles and therefore makes it hard to conceive (maybe two or three cycles a year). What would the next step be? Can they inject sperm into the woman, or would they do In vetro fertilisation? How expensive is something like that without insurance? Are there any other options? Obviously charting and being self-aware of your fertility is good, and also doing a sperm check on the male partner. What else? Curious as my friend is in this situation and don’t know what options to suggest to her. Thanks

• ANSWER:
  There are alot of options.
  1. medication to regulate her cycles and regulkate her ovulation
  2. fertility medication
  2. natural medicine (natropath, acupuntre, chineese medicines etc)
  3. IUI
  4. IVF
  Generally with medication to regulate her cycles or fertility meds she will fall pregnant on her own!
  Good luck!

QUESTION:
Why is the ability to conceive a god or gods absent in my brain?
Rewording my earlier question: Why am I nat able to conceive the existence of a god. I am not saying why don’t I believe it, I am saying why is there no ability in my brain to even for a second think that any gods including Yahweh are by any stretch of the imagination are possible? How can something be so clear to others that my brain can’t grasp.

• ANSWER:
  Because you are smart.

QUESTION:
How soon after trying to conceive can you find out if you are pregnant?
Me and my husband just started trying to conceive this weekend. I usually have my period on the 10th of every month. If I do miss it next month, is it still too soon to take a pregnancy test? Because I have missed my period in the months before but not pregnant, so I can’t go by missing it to know if I’m pregnant or not.

• ANSWER:
  It’s best to wait until you have missed your period, but I got my postive test at 11 DPO. 10-11 DPO are about the earliest you might get a postive result, but the longer you wait the better the chance of not seeing a negative test.

QUESTION:
My wife cannot conceive a child due to surgery she had with her first child.Can she give birth again?
We want to have children.Unfortunatly we couldn’t.She is unable to conceive.She gave birth surgically 15 years ago and she is now unable to conceive.Is it possible for her to get pregnant?

• ANSWER:
  I am a little confused by your question. If she is unable to concieve than the liklihood of her getting pregnant on her own is pretty slim. It depends on what type of statistics the doctor gave her. For example, did he say it was completely not going to happen or did he give a range (like one in a million chance)? You may also want to discuss with the doctor the aspect of invetro. Perhaps if she is still producing eggs than maybe the doctor can go from there. However if she has stopped passing eggs than the liklihood is very slim.

  I hope that I answered your question, and I wish you and your wife the best of luck.

QUESTION:
Is it safe to conceive within 1 week after the end of my tattoo laser removal treatment?
I am a newly wed and my hubby can’t wait to conceive. I have a large tattoo on my belly that is being lasered off my last treatment is Feb 4 and I will be ovulating a few days after and my husband wants to conceive then. I am just concern how this can affect in anyway due to radicals that can stay within the body because of the laser.

• ANSWER:
  I don’t see why it would cause a problem if you would happen to conceive just after….however, there’s really not a huge chance you’ll conceive your first month trying….I became pregnant with #1 3 months after we married (even though we WEREN’T trying at the time) but it’s been 30 months since we started TTC#2 and nothing….

  best of luck to ya, though.

QUESTION:
What do doctors check in your blood for women trying to conceive?
My doctor wants to check my blood. I really don’t know a lot about all this stuff and I’m wondering what my blood can tell us that can help with information on us trying to conceive. I posted once about this but didn’t really get feedback. Curious to know what blood work can tell for women who are trying to conceive?

• ANSWER:
  Your blood levels tell you numerous things! Some of the most important being if you are experiencing some kind of problem hindering you conceiving success and when (or if) you ovulate. I have included a website with the specific tests performed and the reasoning for each. http://www.fertilityplus.org/faq/hormonelevels.html, I hope this helps! I know when I first started my infertility journey I was positive I was going to run out of blood with all the pokes and prods. Best of luck.

QUESTION:
what are the odds that a black female can conceive over forty?
I want to have at least one or two kids in the next 5 years. I am over forty and have never had kids before. How likely is it that I can conceive at all. I have never used birth control I have mostly gone celebt. I was surpriced that after four months I still wasn’t pregnant. Any suggestions?

• ANSWER:
  I am a black female over forty. I have children one I had at 25 and the second at 35. I am currently 5 months pregnant and have never used birth control. You are as likely as any other woman to get pregnant. I would suggest however that you visit your ob/gyn to make sure all of your parts are in working order and have your husband or significant other visit his doctor to get checked out as well. In the meantime don’t stress over it. If its meant to be it Will happen.

QUESTION:
Why is it so hard for healthy couples to conceive?
This is kind of a strange question. If two healthy people (no diseases, reproductive problems, etc) are trying to conceive, why can it be difficult? I understand that the window for fertilization is very small, but in theory if a couple just had sex everyday for one month wouldn’t it be a guarantee? What are the factors that might affect that? I am curious because we are trying (not for very long) and i wonder about using all the basal thermometers and ovulation predictors, is it really necessary?

• ANSWER:
  A lot of things need to happen in order to have a successful implantation. A couple can have sex everyday for a year straight and not get pregnant. So no, there is still no guarantee of getting pregnant with two healthy and fertile people. It is said that only 1 in every 4 eggs we ovulate is considered viable. Sometimes after an egg is fertilized, it fails to implant properly. Also, every sperm that may fertilize an egg may not have the perfect chromosomes. Same applies with an egg. A woman may have hostile cervical mucus and not even know it. Sperm can get tangled and trapped in certain types of cervical fluid, which results in them never making it to the fallopian tubes in the first place. So really, there are a number of things that can go wrong. It really is a miracle that anyone gets pregnant in the first place!

  If you both have no fertility problems, and have sex 3-4 times a week, you will probably get pregnant within a year, but you may not. The ovulation predictor kits, and charting your basal body temp aren’t necessary but will help you to keep track of your ovulation and fertile window. Some women know their body well enough to not have to use anything, or some women have a “perfect cycle” and ovulate on the same day each month. I would recommend using opk’s if you are not familiar with your own unique ovulation pattern.

  Sending you lots of luck and baby dust

QUESTION:
How to manage stress while trying to conceive?
I am naturally a worrier. I get stressed out about everything. I know that stress can make it more difficult to conceive, but it’s difficult to not get stressed out considering my situation. I only have one functional ovary and I can only afford one round of IVF for now. If it doesn’t take then it will be quite a while before I can try again. Any suggestions on how to manage the stress and hopefully be successful in conceiving?

• ANSWER:
  DISTRACTIONS!!!! Find a hobby or two. Also, consider making that hobby yoga, which in itself will help relieve stress and help the body. If you are constantly busy you won’t have that time to just sit and stir. Find something that will challenge your mind so it is occupied with that and not baby excitement. Best of luck!

QUESTION:
How hard is it to conceive with an irregular period? Does that mean ovulation changes each month?
My periods are always a few days apart. Aug 25th, Sept 27th, Oct 30th, Nov 4th and I can’t seem to have luck with tracking ovulation. I think my periods are around 33 days apart. Is having an irregular cycle going to make it harder to conceive? Is ovulation exactly two weeks after the first day of your period? If I get an opk which days should i test?

Thanks for the help

• ANSWER:
  Speak to your GP hun xx

QUESTION:
Desperate to conceive before my hubby deploys–should I use Clomid and how do I get it?
My husband will definitely deploy in August and may even deploy as early as July. I’m scared that we won’t conceive by the time he leaves. Should we try Clomid to increase our chances? In what circumstances will my doctor prescribe it, and if he doesn’t where on the internet can I get some? Any other tips on conceiving quickly? Baby dust to all TTCers out there.

• ANSWER:
  I agree with timid woman and jamie s… If you are ovulating on your own, you don’t need fertility drugs… Even with fertility drugs, you still only have a 20% change of conceiving every month… And if you are going to use any, use the soy isoflavones, they are only 6 dollars and you take them just like clomid.

QUESTION:
What is the best way to conceive if you have to take vitamin supplements?
My friend is very concerned as she really wishes to conceive but she takes vitamin supplements. The question is, how will this affect the possibilty of getting pregnant, and if that is possible, what method is best. I recently had a young son myself. he is now seven weeks. I never actually took vitamin supplements when I was hoping for him, but I didn’t plan him either. I am asking this on here as it is kind of anonimus and maybe I can get some advise for her as a friend. Thanks y’all for your help.

• ANSWER:
  I heard the best way to conceive is by having sex. I think that worked with my parents, their parents and so on. Just some crazy idea you might wanna try.

QUESTION:
Today I was diagnosed with PCOS, How long will it take us to conceive?
I’ve spoken to my doctor but my gynocologist appointment can’t be for another month. We’ce always wanted a big family of 5 children, Is this still possible with my condition? We’re only a young engaged couple but we’re very much ready for the family life. Im worried ill have to settle for only one or two children which i know would still be an amazing blessing but i would love more. Any help with this answer will be appeciated as I really dont know how long it will take us to conceive.

• ANSWER:
  Hi I have PCOS! I didn’t know until last spring that i did… i found it odd that my husband and i for the lst year and a half never used any protection and werent trying to prevent it but werent trying too hard so i went to my doctor to have some test run i found out i have pcos and i decided last may to check into a fertility specialist…he started me on metformin and then a few weeks later i started my first round of clomid and trigger shots! well i did it for 4 months 50mg,100mg,150mg the last 2 months and trigger shots it wasnt til the 4th month we decided to try and iui and to our surprise it worked!! It could not have happened at a more perfect time because we had decided if it didnt work this month since my husband has his surgery thursday we would wait to try again at the beginning of the year!! i had my iui done on the 1st of oct. i had gone in sept 29th i had 3 good eggs 24,27,28mm and my progestrone was at a 35 that following week i went back to have it checked my hubby had 60million good after wash and my estrogen was at 1218! I waited til the 13th and took a test it was pos! I took another one on the 14th and went to my doctor on the 15th my beta hcg levels was at 142 i went back on the 17th and they were 332 and went back on the 23rd and they were at 3555! we go wed for our 6 week check up and thrusday morning to the hosptial for my husbands surgery!! we are so blessed it happened when it did!! BEST OF LUCK AND TONS OF BABY DUST TO YOU!!! I will pray that things work out in your favor take care of yoruself!

QUESTION:
What vitamins did you try to regulate your cycles and conceive?
What vitamins did you try to regulate your cycles and conceive?

I’m trying vitex – chaste berry.

i have irregulars periods. And i heard that vitex is meant to help regulate ur cycles and relive pms symptoms. So can’t harm me. = )

What did u try and did it work?
How long did it take you to conceive?
i haven’t gotten my period this month i just stopped brown and some red. But i did a pregnancy test a couple of days ago and it was negative.

• ANSWER:
  Vitex is the best known one. I actually bought it to try because I was really sad that I’d gotten my period and another month had passed me by. But when my period stopped after a few hours, I tested the next day and got a positive HPT. I’m 8 weeks now. I’m hanging on to the bottle for after my little one is born, to help regulate my cycles.

QUESTION:
Is it a bad idea to go on rides at Disneyland while trying to conceive?
My hubby and I are trying to get pregnant, and we are thinking about a trip to Disneyland. My ‘peak’ time for getting pregnant is the exact same week we would be at Disneyland. We’d really love to go, but if going on those bumpy rides is going to effect whether or not we can conceive, then I don’t want to miss a change to get pregnant or hurt what may have already begun. Any experiences or advice? Am I being overly cautious?

• ANSWER:
  Remember: women are more likely to become pregnant if intercourse takes place just before or just after ovulation. This is because the unfertilized egg can live for only 12-24 hours in your body. If you’e been trying for a few months with no results, don’t get discouraged. Only 20% of women trying to get pregnant are successful on the first attempt. So don’t lose hope or assume something is wrong. the rides will not bother the process since once the semen goes in it is fairly straightfoward process and something as light as a disney ride will not disturb the process. after intercourse wait a couple of hours though just to be safe

QUESTION:
How can women have periods yet unable to conceive?
My great aunt had her period (before menopause of course), and she tried to conceive, but she was unable to have kids but her husband had 3 kids before her though, so we don’t think it was him? How is this so?

• ANSWER:
  Perhaps her fallopian tubes were scarred and the ova couldn’t make it through. Perhaps she simply didn’t produce ova that were capable of fertilization. There are folks who are infertile for reasons that are never really discovered. In fact, the majority of couples in fertility treatment are infertile for unknown reasons. It is also always in the realm of possibility that the three children did not belong to the uncle. After all, prior to DNA testing, fatherhood was a matter of faith and not science. The only person you could be sure of was the mother. And in these days of donated ova, and test tube babies, even that isn’t a promise anymore. It might also have been the uncle in question had troubles that weren’t made public. One never really knows, unless you happen to be told. And in those days, you didn’t ordinarily discuss it except with the doctor.

QUESTION:
How soon can I conceive aftter having mirena removed?
I just had it removed today and boy did it hurt like HELL the DOC couldn’t find it then he had to give me a needle and You know where and I hope my body returns to normal fast. Anyone had their IUD removed and tried to conceive afterwards? How long did it take?

• ANSWER:
  when i had my IUD removed in Feb 06 i became pregnant that very same month i it hurt me a bit when they removed it so just keep trying and hope fully you will get caught this month

QUESTION:
I am trying to conceive. I have had my period for 21 days now. How soon or when will I be fertile?
I am trying to conceive a baby but my period has lasted for about 21 days now and seems like it may end soon but hasn’t yet. This period started just a few weeks after my last one. How can I know when I am fertile?

• ANSWER:
  After the bleeding stops, you should have a few “dry” days.
  Then you should begin to secrete vaginal mucous for a few days. When the vaginal mucous is white and stretchy, fertility is at its peak.

  If you are tracking temperature as well, you will have a slight “spike” on the day you ovulate.

  Three days after the vaginal mucous disappears, your fertile period is over.

QUESTION:
How to prep my body to conceive?
I finally got my husband to commit to a time frame, 6-8 months from now so long as either all of the credit card is paid, and half the car (or visa versa) AND I have to be working from home.

My question is how can I prep my body to conceive as quickly as possible and so I can have a healthy pregnancy?
I don’t take BC so I don’t have to worry about that, I have a glass of OJ every day, drink at least 64 OZ of water a day and take a woman’s muti vitamin. I do want to try to lose 10 lbs, but I don’t think it’s really necessary to do so.( I’m 5 ft 1/2 in and weight 130 Lbs).
Anything else I should be doing to help my body be at it’s healthiest and most fertile come January? I already track my periods and fertile times as well.
I already don’t some and only drink a few times a month. I plan on stopping that as the time gets closer. As for caffine I have 1 drink (usually a Pepsi) a day, just to wake me up and get me through work.
I mean I dont smoke

• ANSWER:
  Don’t smoke, drink, and cut out caffeine. You say you track your cycles and fertile times, what method do you use? Ovulation calendars are not reliable, charting your basal body temps would be the best way. That way you can identify if you are going to have certain problems now and get it corrected, like luteal phase defect, CM problems, or abnormal spotting, etc. Make sure the vit you are taking meets the requirements for prenatal vitamins. You may even want to switch to a prenatal vit. About 3 months before you actively TTC make an appt with your Gyn for a Pre-conception visit. This will be a good time to make sure your current Gyn is the one you want to be your OB during your pregnancy.

QUESTION:
How soon after a miscarriage can I try to conceive?
How soon after a miscarriage should we start trying to conceive again. My doc says 2 weeks but I’m actually afraid of even having sex in 2 weeks much less conceiving. This happened 12 days ago and I feel ok, but I’m just afraid I might not be healed properly. By the way I was just 4 weeks along and didn’t know I was pregnant yet.

• ANSWER:
  I would wait at least 2 cycles, and see how you are feeling at that time..And I am sorry for your loss..Good luck!!

QUESTION:
How long could it take to conceive after the contraceptive implant?
I have had a contraceptive implant in my arm for 5 years. I had it removed on August 2nd 2006. I got my period exactly 3 weeks to the day after it was removed. I’m on my period for 5 days then again, it’s 3 weeks to the day until I come on again so I was back to regular asap. How long do you think it should take me roughly to conceive. I did have a late period in October. It was late by 8 days. Could this have been a pregnancy that didn’t take? I’ve been to various doctors and they can’t seem yo agree on when my fertility should return to normal after the implant is removed.
PLEASE HELP!!!!

• ANSWER:
  my friend got pregnant 2months after having implant taken out, but sadly had a miscarriage 2 months later she is pregnant again, doctor told her you are fertile as soon as you have it taken out good look.

QUESTION:
How do you know when you can conceive if period is a no show this month?
My cycle is erratic at the best of times but normally a 32 day. This month I am on day 41 and waiting. How do I know, if I wanted to conceive, when I am fertile, if I haven’t had a period to judge it by? Do I just count backwards from when the October one is due? And by the way, I am not already pregnant, I’m just absurdly late!
If I count on from end of last period, I have missed that fertile time. I am trying to find out if I can suss out when to conceive this month or if I have to wait until I get a period?

• ANSWER:
  Maybe if you check your discharge and fliuds down there everyday. You can maybe tell then, usually the discharge is watery almost slimy. That is signs of your ovulating you have atleast three day of that in which you are fertile being the day its more is your fertilest day. Also you’ll for some strange reason become really horny between those times, not to say that happens to everybody but most females I know say they get real antsy around that time. So keep an eye out and pay attention to your body and it’s signs. Just some suggestions.

QUESTION:
Can I stop taking progynova and still conceive?
I’m taking progynova in preparation for a frozen embryo transfer. Ultrasound and bloods show lining is fine. I haven’t many frozen embryos and would like to try to conceive naturally as well as the transfer.

• ANSWER:
  NO, keep taking progynova… the uterus needs to be in perfect condition… remember it changes through the month and this drug maximises ur chance of the embryo taking to u! I bet if u asked your doctor they’d say the same thing… Never take alternate drugs or cease taking prescribed drugs when u are preparing for something like this… u put urself at risk as well as the child (U may increase the risk of it being born disabled or still born if u arent carefu!)

QUESTION:
What can or cannot do while trying to conceive?
My boyfriend and I had sex yesterday since I was ovulating. We are trying for our first child and I’m hoping that the test comes out positive when I take one…What can or can I not do while trying to conceive? It’s obvious that you can’t drink or smoke. But what can/can’t I eat and drink?

• ANSWER:
  Cut back on caffeine.

  Don’t eat sushi.

  Don’t eat lunchmeat that hasn’t been heated to steaming. (you could get listeria sp?)

  Eat healthy….fruits, veggies, lean cuts of meat, milk.

  Good luck!

QUESTION:
What is the best way to prepare your body when you are trying to conceive?
My husband and I are going to start “trying” to conceive in about 6 months. It’s a while away but I’m already thinking toward that time. I know when it comes time, I need to go to an OB-GYN, take pre-natal vitamins and such….but are there other things I should or shouldn’t do? For instance, I read an article the other day that really scared me! It said even small amts of trans-fats can almost DOUBLE infertility rates in women! That was so scary! So, I will definitely be staying away from trans-fats. Anything else I should be doing or shouldn’t be doing?

• ANSWER:
  buy what to expect when you’re expecting. it has lots of info for how to prepare yourself (and hubby) and what to expect while you are pregnant. good luck and baby dust!!

QUESTION:
What kind of diet/vitamins should my wife and I have to help us conceive?
I’m 25, my wife is 32 and we’re trying for our first baby together. We’ve been trying since we got married last year but she still hasn’t fallen pregnant. Apart from timing and positions, what can we do in terms of diet to help us conceive? What can I do to increase my sperm load/quality? Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  There is nothing to suggest that vitamins do not aid in helping fertility. My husband is taking co q 10, L arginine, L carnitine, Saw Palmetto, Grapeseed Complex, Flax Seed Oil, Fish Oil, Vit C, Baby aspirin, and he can tell a difference in his sperm production and quality of his ejaculations so I would at least suggest taking some type of vitamin supplement to help if you are worried about any of those issues.

  Also they can be purchased at walmart which is very convenient. As far as her, she can take the vit c as well which helps promote healthy cervical mucus that will aid in conception.

  I would definetely google all the vitamins so you can see the benefits they produce.

  Also make sure she is taking folic acid.

QUESTION:
My wife and I have been trying to conceive for the last 2yrs?
We have been trying to conceive and fail lots of times. She has irregular cycles. She has followed charts and we can’t make it happen. We are fertal so what can we do now. She has gotten a uterus message and vitamin shots to give her uterus strength. What should we try next?

• ANSWER:
  keep on doin it

QUESTION:
How soon after having the IUD removed can I conceive?
I just had my IUD removed about 3 months ago. I hadn’t had a menstrual cycle in 4 years before that, but have them irregularly now. Is it too soon for me to conceive? Could the hormones still be active from the IUD?

• ANSWER:
  It depends on which IUD you had the Mirena or the Copper T. I had the Copper T for 3 years and was told fertility could return with the next cycle. I would say if you had the mirena it would be about the same answer as soon as your period returns you should be able to get pregnant again!

QUESTION:
Why do people wait for a certain time of month to conceive?
In sex-ed classes and on tv and such
They say you can get pregnant when you have your period, when you don’t and all that stuff
so Why do women usually wait till they are ovulating?
Is saying that you can get pregnant anytime just to scare people from having sex?
And if trying to conceive while your ovulating better’s your chances
then wouldn’t having sex any other time make it more difficult?

• ANSWER:
  Because a woman can only conceive when she ovulates. Sperm can live for up to 5 days in the females reproductive system, so there is about a 6 day window – 5 days leading up to and one day after ovulation – when a woman can conceive. The reason they tell you that it can happen anytime is because you don’t KNOW when you are ovulating. If you don’t know, then you can not possible be aware of your most fertile days. Some women ovulate right after their period, which would mean that if they had sex while on their period, in that 5 days before ovulation, then pregnancy certainly is possible.

QUESTION:
Why do some women wait until they are at a risky age to conceive?
Considering that it is proven that after 35 it is much riskier to concieve, many more things can go wrong. Why do some women intentionally wait until they are 35 or older to conceive then?
I don’t mean if they got married at 35 and had no other choice, but say they got married at 30, but waited 5 years — isn’t that selfish seeing as they are going to have a higher chance of thigns going wrong, and such a bigger age gap between their children and them?

• ANSWER:
  What business is it of yours (or any ones) when a woman chooses to have a child? How presumptuous of you.

QUESTION:
How long after the depo shot did it take you to conceive?
I’ve only had one depo shot, was good for 3 months. Now 3 1/2 months later. Don’t know if we can actually conceive because I have been bleeding pretty well the whole time of having this depo shot which sucks! maybe a break for a week. Can you conceive/ovulate while bleeding like this? Also breastfeeding, heard this makes your chances less.

• ANSWER:
  I was on it for a year and it took 2 years to concieve

QUESTION:
How many Months did it take you to conceive your first baby?
Ok.. I just would like some input on how long it has taken ladies in the past to conceive.
If you don’t mind can you please also include your age.

P.S: What do you think about Robitussin?
Is it dangerous to take it after ovulation?

Thanks Ladies

• ANSWER:
  With my 1st I was 24 and off the pill 6 months before we conceived. With my 2nd I was 29 and off the pill 7 months.

QUESTION:
Trying to conceive, but missed period for 2 mos. Blood test:Not Preg! How do I stop stressing and relax?
My husband and I are trying to conceive after losing our 1st child a yr ago. Delivered 6 months into pregnancy and our son didn’t make it. I am late 2 months but had blood test done. Not Pregnant! I guess I’m late because I am stressing. I am overweight but have periods every 36-38 days. How can I relax so that period can continue so We can get back to trying again? Any suggestions on relaxing methods?

• ANSWER:
  If you have not had a period in 2 months and tests show that you are not pregnant it is probably time you go see a doctor. It may be that you are stressing and that is causing your missed periods, but it could also be something more serious. The best thing would be to go get checked out.

QUESTION:
If god possesses all knowledge, how can he conceive of or create something?
Think about it. If he possesses all knowledge then he can’t even conceive of a “new” anything so he’s not imnipotent. Nothing can be new, different, or surprising to an omniscient being. Therefore an omniscient god cannot be a personal god. Thoughts?

• ANSWER:
  You’re right, people with lots of ideas tend to find it hard to express them. Because language is not a great enough medium for them. Plus the ideas are so massive and complex that they are hard to transcribe in words instead of just thinking about them.

  The person with the idea thinks about it all the time and thus cannot imagine how it’s like to not understand it, so when he explains it he doesn’t really understand how someone else feels or thinks.

  But truly creative people read and absorb all past creations so they can create something that hasn’t been created before.

  If God knows everything then he must know what he creates and how he does it, also what he could possibly create or what he thinks he will do in this dilemma, he probably foresaw that someone would ask this question and would wonder what he should do.

  The truth is it’s impossible, really, is the answer to your question.

  So far we do not even know if God exists or how he overcame this paradox. We’ll have to ask him later. Or maybe he created these laws…..

  oh………..

  ohhhhhhh….

  Btw, this is all really heavy, complex and abstract stuff. Really annoying and complicated. Tooo hard to think about and digest.

  Too philosophical.

QUESTION:
How soon after give’in birth can you conceive?
Is it right away or dose everything have to get back to normal? Not that I’m try’in just wanted to know. But it’s been 1 week and 2 days could i conceive again already? I am breastfeeding i know they say that lowers the chance. I know lots of you will say don’t risk it. I’m not so plz don’t put that.

• ANSWER:
  It is possible to get pregnant right away and while you are nursing, it depends on individual fertility. Yes breastfeeding lowers your chances, but it is still very possible. If you got pregnant right away with this one, I would be extra careful. Congratulations on the new baby and on breastfeeding!! The best thing you can do for your newborn!!

QUESTION:
How long does it take to conceive after having the Mirena IUD removed?
I had the IUD removed on March 25, 2011 & my period returned 5 days later on March 30th. I’m currently on the patch so i don’t get pregnant right away.. but I was wondering how long after my period & the patch has been removed, would I have to wait before I can conceive. We’re wanting to try to conceive during the month of May & June. Any answers would be greatly appreciated, Thanks!

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
What happens if you conceive late in your cycle?
I’m not worried about being pregnant or anything, just curious. If you conceive like a couple days before your period, would you still menstrate?

I know you can get pregnant while you’re on your period, but doesn’t it actually happen afterwards? Or could your period just quit in the middle?

I dunno these might be stupid questions..

• ANSWER:
  if you were a few dates from when you are supposed to start your period, chances are you would not conceive.
  the egg that was waiting to be fertilized has already been absorbed into the body. that is if you have a “normal” 28 day cycle, and ovulate on day 14.
  but not everyone has a 28 day cycle. some are longer or shorter. some people do ovulate late in the cycle, but most ovulate about 2 weeks before the actual start of menstrual flow.
  and people are mistaken in thinking you ovulate on multiple days, when in fact you only ovulate on 1 specific day, but are fertile for a few days before ovulation actually takes place.

QUESTION:
Can a woman still conceive after 35 years of age? is it safe?
I have 2 kids aged 12 and 8. I am trying to have at least one more to complete our family. After 2nd child I use IUD and other method for family planning for about 5 years. I try to concieve naturally after that but it doesn’t seems to work. I doubt is there still any chances for me to conceive. Please help.

• ANSWER:
  Birth control doesn’t affect conception.

  According to the Mayo Clinic, a woman’s fertility peaks between the ages of 20 and 24. However, fertility rates remain relatively constant through the early 30s, after which they begin to decline:

  At age 30 to 35, fertility is 15 to 20 percent below maximum. From age 35 to 39, the decrease is 25 to 50 percent. From 40 to 45, the decrease is 50 to 95 percent.

  Technically, any woman who has not gone through menopause, and who does not have other reproductive problems, can become pregnant. Successful pregnancies have been reported in women as old as 59.

  Pregnancy Risks After 35
  The risk of miscarriage increases after age 35; by the early 40s, more than 50 percent of pregnancies end in miscarriage. Many of these occur at an early stage and may not even be detected, or may be mistaken for a late period. The majority of these miscarriages are due to the chromosomal abnormalities in the fetus.

  Other age-related factors affecting fertility include less frequent and/or irregular ovulation, and endometriosis, in which tissue that attaches to the ovaries or fallopian tubes interferes with conception.

  When they do get pregnant, women older than 35 may have a higher risk of developing gestational diabetes, preeclampsia, and placenta previa. There is also a potentially higher risk of having a baby with low birth weight, and of chromosomal abnormalities such as Down syndrome.

  Aiming for a Positive Pregnancy
  Although older women may find it somewhat harder to achieve pregnancy, the overall outcomes are excellent. In fact, birth rates for mothers in their 30s and 40s have increased dramatically over the past 25 years. According to the National Center for Health Statistics, the birth rate for women age 35 to 39 nearly doubled between 1978 and 1998. Between 1981 and 1997, the birth rate for women in their 40s increased 92 percent.

  If you’re over 35 and thinking of getting pregnant, a few simple tips will help minimize the risks:

  * Start taking prenatal vitamins
  * See your doctor for prepregnancy checkups
  * Eat well
  * Exercise regularly
  * Cut out nicotine, alcohol, and drugs

  Finally, if you don’t succeed in getting pregnant within six months, see a reproductive endocrinologist (fertility specialist) to discuss next steps.

  Call your doctor.

QUESTION:
I have aretroverted uterus and I am tring to conceive last month I tried but didn’t happen?
With retroverted uterus can I conceive and I have two children.I am Trying to conceive for two months.

• ANSWER:
  Two months is nothing, relax. Retroverted uterus’ are ridiculously common. There are some positions, like doggie style, that are said to increase your chances with a tilted uterus by keeping the sperm in a better position.

QUESTION:
What does all the acronyms mean in pregnancy message boards and trying to conceive section at yahoo answers?
I am trying to conceive and love yahoo answers and other message boards.. but I simply do not know what all the acronyms stand for when reading responses and posts? All I read is (and this is an example ” I started my pp late, could my wbcf be late or am I OpX?” I want to benefit from the readings.. but can’t understand what they are saying!!!

• ANSWER:
  twoweekwait.com gives you all the meanings to the acronyms.

QUESTION:
Trying to conceive, but missed period for 2 mos. Not Preg! How do I stop stressing and relax?
My husband and I are trying to conceive after losing our 1st child a yr ago. Delivered 6 months into pregnancy and our son didn’t make it. I am late 2 months but had blood test done. Not Pregnant! I guess I’m late because I am stressing. I am overweight but have periods every 36-38 days. How can I relax so that period can continue so We can get back to trying again? Any suggestions on relaxing methods?

• ANSWER:
  Hey this is a an exsperienced doctor who hits people up everday. I sell drugs like anti depresents if you need to relax you might want to consider a hobby such as knitting. Also you should try try again and then you will eventually become pregenant hopefully.

QUESTION:
Would the doctor give me clomid to help me conceive my second child?
I needed clomid to conceive my first child, my question is that since she already knows I have pre existing issues with ovulation and all that would she just give me the clomid again? I know you can’t answer this question for her but do you think she will? To me it makes sense if you know someone needs it to just give it to them.
Thanks for any help and please do not be rude to me, having fertility issues is no joke!

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
My Partner & I are trying to conceive what is the best sex position to conceive?
We are trying to conceive, but we can’t figure out what is the best sex positions for us so that I can get pregnant with highest successful Rate? Any suggestions

• ANSWER:
  The experts say missionary, but we conceived with cowgirl. We suggested cowgirl to our friends who were having difficulty and they were pregnant the next month. No one can say for sure, everything just has to be in proper alignment. There has been no proven fact to this, but after you are done baby dancing, have her lay with a pillow under her butt for 15 minutes. Might help open the pipes! Oh make sure she pees too! UTI’s are no fun!

QUESTION:
When is the best time to conceive a baby?
My fiance and I have been trying and trying for the past 4-5 months to conceive a baby and were still not pregnant. I have been taking prenatal vitamins, eating right, and trying at the right times to conceive and still nothing. Help! I don’t know if I should be feeling this way but sometimes I worry and think that I can’t have children or something along those lines. Is this normal?

• ANSWER:
  do you have an ovulation test?? They ususally help telling you when you’re most fertile. Don’t worry… lots of people go through this… If you’re really that worried about not being able to have children, go see the doctor… It might just take you longer, you should at least try for a year, and if you haven’t after that deff go see a doctor. I Know how you feel, my fiance and I are also trying!!!~ Good Luck

QUESTION:
My husband & I are trying to conceive what is the best sex position to conceive?
My husband & I are trying to conceive, but we can’t figure out what is the best sex positions for us so that I can get pregnant? Any suggestions

• ANSWER:
  Have you been to fertilityFriend.com yet? It’s very helpful, it will teach you all about recording your temperatures, so you will know around the time you ovulate.

  *Buy a basal Body thermometer

  *Learn how to record your temps (fertility friend does this for you).

  *check for fertile cervical mucus, the clear, egg white, stretchy discharge is the most fertile, and you should make love every time you see this, however not all woman make this, so even Watery discharge is considered fertile.

  * I used ovulation predictor kits for only 2 months, just to help give me a baseline of what my cycles were like, after that i stopped buying them~ waste of money, honestly

  *Take a prenatal pill or multivitamin everyday to make your body it’s healthiest.

  * I recommend the book the book “Taking Charge of Your fertility” thousands of woman swear by this book.

  By reading this book, i learned so much about my body, my fertility and fell pregnant w/ baby # 3 after only three months of trying. years ago, it took us 19 months of trying randomly.

  Personally, i stopped using OPK’s because they only stressed me out and were expensive. We kind of stopped “trying” the last month and just used my natural fertility signs to time intercourse. We had dinner, drinks (although I’d watch the alcohol intake, as it was very moderate), we relaxed, and enjoyed sex, sure enough it happened.

  After love making, theres no need to hang upside down or put your legs against the wall, positions honestly don’t make a huge difference either, as long as you stay in bed with a pillow or two under your hips for thirty minutes you’ll be fine. Make this as natural as possible.

  My last bit of advise, Don’t talk about it constantly, in fact try not to bring it up a whole lot, this will take the stress off of him, and you too. & NEVER SAY TO YOUR PARTNER RIGHT BEFORE SEX: “ok, it;s time, I’m ovulating” That is a real mood killer and believe it or not, it may cause him to ejaculate less if he’s not that into it!!! You want him to preform at his best, and have a good ejaculation.

  Good LucK and happy baby dancing!!! Remember relax, and enjoy your selfs, it will happen!!!

  **BABY DUST**

QUESTION:
WHAT ARE MY CHANCES OF CONCEIVING AT THE AGE 42 WITH MY SPOUSE BEING 33 YEARS IN AGE WE BOTH ARE HEALTHY?
i’ve had 7 children and 1 miscarriage the doctor said my tubes are not tied at both ends just at one side is closed and the other is open they want me to get on birth Control but my husband and i have no children together and now we are ready more than ever what is the chances of success and what are my risk

• ANSWER:
  if your eggs and uterus are in great shape you should not have a problem, but i would get that checked out as soon as you can

QUESTION:
is it still possble to conceive at 42?
been trying 18 mnths for 4th different partner no success my periods are regular and we are both well but nothing is happening ive heard clomid is good do you reccomend i order some online? would it increase our chances?

• ANSWER:
  I would talk to your doctor. It is harder the older you get but still possible if healthy.

  I got pregnant with Clomid, I would not recomend getting it off the internet tho go threw a doctor so they can monitor you and change the dose as needed.

QUESTION:
What are the odds of conceiving a child at this age?
He’s 42, she’s 41. She still has a regular cycle. They are having sex at random a couple times per month on average without using any protection. Both have had children within the last 10 years. How risky is this?

• ANSWER:
  It’s very possible. If you don’t want more children, it’s a risk not worth taking until she reaches menopause which is probably another 5 or 6 years away.

QUESTION:
At 42, can I have attempt to conceive?
I am extremely healthy and active. I enjoy the gym. I have 3 boys 10, 12, and 14. I am in a new marriage and would like to have at least one child. I heard I need to get bloodwork to check my FSH level (if over 5, then I may not have eggs). If you are my age and you have had a baby please let me know any advice you may have.

• ANSWER:
  If you still have a period you can
  but with any pregnancy you can pass away
  my mom had a baby at 38

QUESTION:
can a woman conceive at the age of 42.what are the chances?
can a woman b pregnent when she is in 40′s,but is healthy.and hve previously adopted family planning measure of gettng her tube closed.is pregnency psbl if she gets her tube opened.plz answer it matters alot in my life.n serious answers plz

• ANSWER:
  If you haven’t gone through menopause, yes.

  Please remember – the odds of genetic problems in the baby will increase drastically the older the mother is. There is a 50% increase in cases of babies born with Downs Syndrome in mothers over 35, and that % increases as the mother gets older. Talk to an OBGYN about pregnancy and what tests will need to be run on the fetus after conception to determine if it is alright. Also consider if you find out that your baby has an incurable genetic disease, what you want to do about it before you do the tests.

  I’m not trying to scare you, I just want you to know the risks involved and you need to talk to your doctor

QUESTION:
My coworker is clueless about her fertility. Should I say something?
My coworker is 35 and married, and wants to have children. She says they’re not going to start trying until her husband finishes college in 4 – 6 years! How can she be so clueless?

Would I be totally out of line mentioning something about fertility the next time she brings it up? I don’t think she has any idea that her odds of conceiving naturally at 40 – 42 are slim. She and her husband have a house and both have good jobs right now, so I don’t think it’s about money.

• ANSWER:
  I think you’d be doing her a favor informing her and saving her from problems when she does reach age 40+. I think you should certainly discuss this with her, be open about this. Just make sure you don’t mention it around other ppl so that she doesn’t feel embarrassed or anything. But I would definitely recommend that you discuss it with her. Just tell her that since she’s decided to get pregnant in 4-6 yrs, it’s good to go to the doc now to make sure everything is okay so that when she does try to conceive, she’ll alsready have a headstart…….Then when she goes to the obgyn, s/he will already tell her about the age factor.

  Good Luck!

QUESTION:
How have you dealt with infertility?
I’m searching for ways to deal with the emotional rollercoaster of being unable to conceive. I’m 42, married for the first time (to the love of my life) 18 months ago, and I’m finding myself at times feeling just plain crazy over the whole thing.

What’s been your most effective coping mechanism?

• ANSWER:
  I have dealt with infertility. I totally understand the frustration and pain. I found the best thing was to talk to other women dealing with the same thing. It really helps to know that you are not the only one going through this really hard trial in life. The more open you are the more you will find how very common it is. I was SHOCKED to find so many women that I had no idea were dealing with similar problems to mine. We were very lucky and through a lot of persistance we were able to figure out the problem. BE PERSISTANT with your doctor. YOU have to be on the ball, because they have a lot of patients and you are only one. I also suggest you go to a Fertility specialist. They will know more of the tests to do. I hope this helps! As you can tell by my name it all worked out, but it sure wasnt’ easy!

QUESTION:
Had 100% healthy baby at 42–want a second..chance of probs?
Would we be tempting fate if we decide to have another child? Our first perfectly healthy baby girl is going to be 15 months old this week, and we’re really wanting another baby; however, I’d be 43 when conceiving, 44 when delivering. The odds of a medical problem are very high.

Do you feel we would be risking too much by getting pregnant again?

Neither of us would abort the baby if there was a medical problem unless it was a problem that guaranteed the baby would not survive upon birth. (I.e., not for Down syndrome, other genetic problem, etc.).
Already received the blessings of our OB to try for a 2nd. I just wanted to know what your REAL feelings were about this. I’m tired of hearing about the percentages and risks. I’ve been hearing them since we were trying to conceive our first.

What’s your REAL feelings? Would you try?
We conceived naturally without trying. We “tried” for 18 months with ovulation predictor kits, eating right, sex during certain times of my cycle, etc., nothing happened. We quit out of frustration and the next cycle became pregnant. Funny, huh?

• ANSWER:
  I am 43 and have been ttc for almost three years now. I’ve been pg 3x and had 3 m/c. You were very lucky at 42! Congrats! I think you have to at least try to have another one if that is what you truly want. I had two when I was in my early 30′s and didn’t think I wanted more and now regret it so badly. Yes, they say the risks are higher, but there are also many, many, many healthy babies born to women of our age. Don’t wait around and wish a few years from now that you had done it because it will be too late then. Good luck to you!

QUESTION:
Pregnant at 42, is it possible???
Any natural remedies to conceive?

• ANSWER:
  this would be something to talk to your OBGYN about, but yes it’s possible as long as menopause hasn’t hit yet. Good luck!

QUESTION:
Change of menstral cycle at certain times of the year?
I had two periods in December 2006. I have been intimate but no sexual intecourse in 1/07. I did not have a cyle toward then end of January which would have been the normal 27 day cycle. I am 42 years old with tw. For some reason the end of January, the beginning of February are fertile times for. Both of my chidlren conceived in February, born in November. I am wondering could the change of a new year bring on irregular cylces. Also I have been taking mydo off and on for about a week, for the past two weeks when my cycle should have occured, I have had all the systems of having a period, a bit more severe. Could the new year bring on the irregularity, I have heard that it is possible for the cycle to change, other than being pregnant.

• ANSWER:
  You’re 42 years old. That’s the simple most likely reason for the changes that you’re seeing.

  You’re 42 years old, and perimenopause generally begins in a woman’s early 30′s. It’s a process that can take 20 years, but it does begin in your early 30′s. By your 40′s, you can begin to see differences in your cycle and in your period itself.

  Medically, there is no such thing as “going through menopause”. You are either perimenopausal or post-menopausal. But there is no way to tell that you are post-menopausal until you’ve gone a full year with no periods and no spotting. At that point you can look back and say that that was menopause.

  The next time that you happen to see your GP, ask for blood tests to check your reproductive hormone levels. But until then, don’t worry about it. It’s normal.

QUESTION:
Menopause at 42????
Have not had my period for… I think more than 6mths… Doc say’s homone unbalance or even menopause. Gracious here I’m trying to conceive.. GOD Help me!!!!

• ANSWER:
  menopausal symptons can begin as early as in the thirties. this is called perimenopause. 6 months, maybe you are already pregnant. or it could be hormonal inbalance or the early onstart of menopause. there are blood tests to show all. ask your doctor for a prenancy test by urine or blood and there is a blood test called “fsh” to determine if you are beginning menopause. if your current doctor won’t do this , find another.

QUESTION:
Is it possible to conceive … at this ages?
We (me and my wife) have got married seven years ago. After two year of our marriage got pregnant and the pregnancy continued until 31 weeks of gestation. At this stage she developed severe preeclampsia with severe IUGR…. She achieved a spontaneous delivery to a stillborn male fetus, 1500gms. After that time she has seen her menus irregualry at 30, 60 and 120 days or more. The last time she saw her menus was 6 December 2008, nearly after 4 months of its disappearance. Her two physician so far given her monogone with… but witout sucess. I am 41 and she is 42 now. Is is possible to conceive at this age? Please share me your experice or what you know so far? We are very egar to have our own kid..

• ANSWER:
  I’m 41 and pregnant with twins. Considered high risk from the start because of my age, but am now 35 weeks with no bed rest or any complications that are even typical with twins. Have had just about every test ran because of age and all my results came back actually better that a 28 year olds %. Not sure of what they are treating her for, but our Dr. had my husband start taking Fertility Blend vitamins from GNC. After 5 years of trying we were pregnant within 3 weeks of him taking the vitamins. Guess they give the sperm an extra boost. Good luck and don’t give up hope!

QUESTION:
Almost 42 years old trying to conceive, how and what should Ido?
My first conception was very easy and it was when I was 40 years old. My baby girl was healthy and she just turned one with no sign of any physical problem so far. I want to have another baby but don’t know much of how to,.. as the first one came to us easily and naturally and we were very surprised. I had my yearly check-up, and everything is fine i.e. blood pressure, cholesteral level, no disease, etc. I believe that my husband’s health is the same.
I know that at my age, the chance is very less, so I really need to well prepare. Please, let me know how and what to do? Also, at 42 years old, I need a big encouragement. Thank you.

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QUESTION:
Does caffeine affect your ability to conceive?
We’re having difficulty conceiving. We tried for 11 months got pregnant and miscarried at 4 months. Now we’ve been trying to conceive again for 5 months now. I have always had irregular periods. Now they are even worse. Some months I have a 27 day cycle, or 42, or 56 etc…Any tips on what to do and not to do? Does drinking a lot of caffeine affect your chances?

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
Is it difficult to get pregnant after 40?
Will it be difficult to conceive after 40?

My girl friend is 42 years old around 8 years elder to me. She already has two kids from her previous marriage. If we were to consider having a child, would this be difficult at this age?

• ANSWER:
  It may be harder for her to conceive because of her age. A woman’s egg count decreases to less than ten thousand eggs after the age of 29.

  At your girlfriend’s age, of the remainder of her eggs, only about 5% are chromosomally normal.

  It’s really dependent on her personal hormone levels and fertility. If you don’t conceive within a year of trying, than it is time to talk to a fertility specialist.

  ADD- Whomever gave me the thumbs down has no idea about recent clinical research. I just went to a meeting at my work with out top Embryologist who discussed exactly what age can do to prevent pregnancy. I am only quoting his statistics.

  “Woman may be born with a million eggs, but recent data shows that that number is much less than previously anticipated. The true number is probably less than 250,000 eggs at birth and you lose hundreds per month, even prior to puberty.” – Dr. Joe Conaghan, Head Embryologist

QUESTION:
A hard question relating down syndrome after long wait for conceiving.what do you think?
A sister of a good friend decided to have a baby 3years ago.She was 42 so as expected she found it hard to conceive.They had IVF and she was pregnant after 1 year .at 22 weeks she found out there was a change the baby mights have down syndrome,so they decide to terminate the pregnancy ,this was done at 23 weeks.
after 2 year and 2 other ivf treatments she is now pregnant and the test has just come back positive for downs again and they are termination the pregnancy again.She says this is not what she imagined and that she will not be raising a child with problems .
Yet she is already talking about IVF again.
I try not to judge but I find this very hard to understand. My friend is devastated and she cannot believe that she is doing it again. This is hard for my friend to understand ,and me because both howe children are special needs and both were not from a genetic problem,my son was due to lack of oxygen at birth and my friends child due to a fall when he was 2.
she tried to make her sister see that there is no guarantees when having children ,that things can happen.
what do you think?

• ANSWER:
  This woman doesn’t deserve a child.
  She has been given chances and has thrown them away because the child may have special needs.
  Basically, she is far too ignorant to understand that children with down syndrome can go on to lead great lives.
  I sincerely hope she NEVER has a baby, there are parents out there who would kill for a child of their own, special needs or not.

QUESTION:
Baby not seen during ultrasound?
Ok. I have been going crazy today because I had an ultrasound done to find out how far along I am but nothing showed up at all! I have never heard of this happening. Me and my fiance have been trying to get pregnant but he works out of town a lot so we bearly have the chance to really “try” however, I am positive that the last time we did “try” it was on 8/24/08 and then it was almost 2 months before that so I know that I conceived on 8/42/08!!!! I went to the dr to get blood test done and it was positive. When i got home I took a home test and it was positive but very very faint…I mean you could bearly see the other line at all. Just 2 days ago I took another home test and it was positive, still faint but you could see it alot better then the other day so it is getting darker. My dr sent me to get blood work today to check hcg levels then I have to get more blood test done on friday to see if level has risen but I ma so scared. WHERE IS MY BABY? My dr is already saying that I could be too early or “he just does’nt know” I SEEN HIM WRITE MISSED ABORTION ON MY PAPERWORK WITH A QUESTION MARK! Has he given up or what? Some one please give me some advise…..please! OH YEAH BY THE WAY LET ME SAY THAT HJE SAID THERE IS NO FINDINGS OF BLOOD OR ANYTHING ABNORMAL. i HAVE’NT EVEN BEEN CRAMPING!

• ANSWER:
  Stop stressing – I had an ultrasound at approx 5 weeks and the doctor couldn’t see anything. I went back for a follow up two weeks later and saw the tiniest dot on the screen with a tiny little beating heart. You don’t want to be stressing as this may cause you to miscarriage. You would only be about 4 weeks and this is far too early to see your bub. It sounds like your levels are rising by the HPT’s you have taken!!

  Good luck and take care xo

QUESTION:
Conceiving after D & C?
I had a D & C for a blighted ovum in November 2010 at 12 weeks. I am very frustrated because my husband and I are trying to conceive but my periods are still irregular. My cycle since the surgery has been around 42 days…? Can I still get pregnant with that long of a cycle?? Any insight is appreciated!!

• ANSWER:
  You should have no problems related to having D&C that would interfere with your fertility. Having irregular cycles could very well be the reason, since it’s difficult to pinpoint your ovulation day.
  You should start charting your BBT to see if/when you ovulate. You can check your cervical mucus (will be stretchy and clear during your most fertile days of the cycle). You can also try OPKs to increase your chances of conceiving. If this doesn’t work, then you can talk to your OB about your long cycles (there are meds to help with that).
  I can tell you from my experience. It took me 18 months to conceive with long and irregular cycles but without any meds. I charted my BBT so that I knew that at least I ovulated, just not regularly. I checked my cervical mucus to get an idea when ovulation is close. My cycles range from 29 to 45 days in length, so yes, it is annoying and I feel your pain. I know how disappointing it can be. I lost that pregnancy at 17 weeks due to chromosomal issue (but that has nothing to do my irregular cycles).
  Also, sometimes your body takes longer to go back to normal, and it depends on what your cycles were like prior to this pregnancy and whether it was your first pregnancy.
  I’m sorry for your loss. I know how difficult (to say the least) it is to lose.

QUESTION:
Anyone over 40 trying to conceive with a short luteal phase?
Age 42 and curious if anyone has experienced not being able to get pregnant due to a short luteal phase. There have been various times I expected to conceive but then nothing. I’ve been charting and from what I can tell, my cycles average 24-25 days but I still seem to ovulate on day 14. My lp seems to be right at 9-10 days. Anyone in the same boat?

• ANSWER:
  The most common cause of luteal phase defect is low progesterone after ovulation. The treatment is a progesterone supplement that is taken during the luteal phase. It is most commonly prescribed as a vaginal suppository, but it can be taken orally, topically or by injections.

  Talk to your doctor. Good luck!

QUESTION:
Can i still get pregnant with 1 ovary?
im having a cystectomy next week and they willbe taking 1 ovary. im 42 and would like a 4th child. doctor told be my chancesare limited and about 5% conceiving naturally, but not impossible. should we go ahead and try naturally or go to doctor and ask for help. how long should you wait after a laparotomy to try to conceive? and can i still get fertility help at my age? what are my chances? im on meds for high blood pressure.

• ANSWER:
  You need to go to the nearest RE immediatley. Don’t wait. At 42 with one ovary you will have a very difficult time getting pregnant naturally. I can almost guarantee you have a diminished reserve…now cut that in half because one ovary is gone. I would suggest IVF as soon as possible. That way they are getting what few egss you have left, out, and fertilizing them. That will giv eyou a MUCH better chance at conceiving. Please don’t wait. I have seen so many people wait and try to conceive naturally at your age to ultimately hit menopause and ruin any chance they had left. If you really want a 4th child head to the RE ASAP!!

QUESTION:
Has ne one tested positive at 3 weeks and 1 day?
My Lmp was May 6. I should have started on June 3. Sometimes I will have a regular 28 day cycle, and sometimes it is a 42 day cycle. I guess I’m having a 42 day cycle now because I tested when I was a day late, and it was BFN. I’m trying not to test just yet, but it is really hard to wait! But I’m also scared of getting a BFN. I looked it up on americanpregnancy.org, and put in that I have a 42 day cycle and it said I should have conceived on June 4th. If I am pregnant, tomorrow morning I should be I guess 3 weeks and 1 day or 5 weeks and 1 day. But I’m guessing 3 weeks. So, my main question is, has ne one gotten a positive at 3 weeks and 1 day? I am using a test that picks up at 25miu. Thanks for all answers. I really hope this is my month! Baby Dust to all.
I have also had off an on sore breasts, and have had quite a bit of cm for what seems like forever now. (Like 2 weeks or something)

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QUESTION:
Why do some people expect others to have kids?
Years ago, a lady was bothering me about having kids. I told her that I didn’t want any. Some people act as if I am everyone has to have kids. Ted Bundy has a daughter conceived in jail. Is she content with that?
Some people can’t afford kids financially nor emotionally—-like those coworkers of mine. They’re teen parents.
I, at age 42, love getting up everyday with my biggest problem is deciding which show to watch.

• ANSWER:
  Because they are narrow minded! If you look precisely, most of them do not have a proper education or a good job either. i.e. they don’t have a life and/or a civilized goal. A friend of mine told me once that they think like animals, that breeding is all they think everyone should do. It may seem rude, but I totally agree with him.

  I also never wanted kids of my own and I still don’t. I’d rather remain a “cool aunt”. I am now in my 30′s and love my job and nice apartment. I love how I choose my vacations, transfer my work to a city of my interest (have done it twice ans loved it) and how I come home from work and can relax and choose a movie to watch, ot just grab my gym bag and head to a gym, or meet a friend on weekends to do some photography in the park just for fun. Even think about going back to school and getting my PhD. This is my life! I love it and do not want to change it at all!

  I am not against people who have kids. But I do criticize those who become inadequate parents, or those who think others should live the way they want them to!

  Seriously people, get a life!! (For some of you if you had one, it would not end up in bringing innocent children to this world and ruining their lives by the lack of knowledge and planning!)

  And by the way (as a reply to one of the posts on this page) the “self absorbed” people are those who want to have the kid because they think kids are toys, they say “kids are bundles of joy” but in return give the kid an unhappy life and/or a bad upbringing with bad financial planning. That is REAL self absorption!!!

QUESTION:
How ovulation cycles work?
I am a 42 yr old female who is trying to get pregnant.I have never been pregnant before and my periods have always been regular every month.This may sound strange but I do not know how to calculate when my fertile time is to try and conceive.My period started feb25.I don’t understand how to calculate the days.is it from the first day of the month or the first day of period to next period or how does the 28 days work.Help please.I do not keep track of my periods because each month they come at different times like one month in the begining and then next month the end then the middle.

• ANSWER:
  First you should try to figure out if your cycle is regular or not. If your cycle is regular, you can try an online ovulation calculator such as http://www.ovulation-calculator.org/ to pinpoint your ovulation period.

  If your period is irregular, you’ll want to watch out for your ovulation symptoms. The most common ovulation symptoms include mild abdominal cramps and changes in cervical mucus. You can also measure your basal body temperature (basal body temperature will raise when you ovulate) or use an ovulation predictor kit, which is based on your hormone level.

QUESTION:
Worried about conceiving!!?
Hi. I’m 41. I just want to hear some good thoughts. I’m on birth control right now to control ovulation before I start Follistim. My sister just had twin boys by using IVF. She did IUI twice and then got pregnant with her first IVF try. My mom had my sister at 38, me at 39, and my brother at 42, and 2 miscarriages (before my sister and my brother) without any fertility treatments at all. Do you think my chances are good? I’m trying so hard not to be hopeful because I know the odds aren’t good. But it’s hard not to dream about babies. How do you keep sane though this process?

• ANSWER:
  Just try not to think about it too much..I know it’s hard, but it works! Also, don’t make TTC a job…ya just gotta go w/ the flow and it makes it easier! I know it’s hard not to overthink it, but you just gotta do your best! Maybe you could start a hobby…crocheting, putting puzzles together, doing crosswords, reading lots of books, etc! Keep your mind busy and you won’t have time to think about TTC and it will just happen! Good luck!!! Lots of **BABYDUST** to YOU!!

  Happy New Year!!

QUESTION:
What are my chances of having a biological child?
hi,

I just want real answers from someone who had experience journey to have a baby.

My journey to have a family started when i was 26 years old most of the pregnancies ended in a miscarriage.

I was 42 when i conceived that was 9 months ago, after infertilty treatments, unfortunately it ended in a miscarraige at 7 weeks. I feel that life has robbed me from being a mother.

I will be 44 this year and i don’t know if i have any chance left to have a baby on my own.

Do i have any chance left?

Thanks,

• ANSWER:
  I have met people who have become pregnant and had heathy babies during menopause. Its still possible to become pregnant.
  I have 2 friends who were told they would never ever ever ever become pregnant and one has had 2 children the other has had one.

QUESTION:
TTC with increasingly long cycles. Last one was 42 days. Help?
Our little boy was conceived 6 months before we had planned to start trying, but now we’re trying for number #2 it just isn’t happening…

My periods returned after 11 months and after a few months they had settled back into my pre-pregnancy length of 31-32 days (even though I breastfed for 20 months).

We started trying for #2 8 months after my periods returned, but from that point on my cycles started getting progressively longer – 35 days, then 37, 38, 39, 40 and the last was 42 days.

My period is late every cycle – now 11 days later than my usual pre-pregnany and pre-trying cycles (and usually a day or more longer than the last cycle), We’ve been trying every day or second day from day 14 to day 27 every cycle.

So I started charting (using the method prescribed in “Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler”) and my fluid quality and temperature shifts indicate that I’m ovulating (about day 24-25 this cycle)

Worried that I might be miscarrying rather than menstruating, or that I might have an ovarian cyst, I went to the doctor. He suggested I have the 21 day test. My progesterone levels were 2.5. Dr said this was within the normal range, but from what I’ve Googled they are very low. But if I’m ovulating after day 21, you’d expect them to be low at day 21?

Any advice?

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QUESTION:
At what age can most women not have children?
I am about to become 42 and am dating online. I want to have a child of my own if possible (but will also accept just her kids). I am limiting my criteria to less than 39 years old. But I do not know if this is right. I am getting many women at like, 44 that say they still want to have children. So since I do not know. At what age is it generally difficult for women to conceive and have a baby.
So far 3 out of six helpful to my question. One did not realy know so I can not hold that against her but you other two apparently are just looking for that 2 points.
Lovin’ Bama, Crucio, sMilz9SP and Katie luvs William. Thanks so far.
As for Steven S. I do not know what “Creeper” means but I see you have recieved one thumbs up so far. You do not have a clue and if you would like to discuss it in person. I will show what a creeper is Jack.
Cedes_Ba.. You may not be back but I will say here I have been out in the world and with women, I am sure, more and longer than you. I am not hiding behind my PC I am looking for someone who will be more for me than the ones who have wasted my time and left me here at 42 asking this question. So P(ss off. I only hope your attitude does not leave you in my place.
QX thanks that is to the point. I may change my critera based on the 5 decent answers so far.
Emily. Very good response and I thank you. Now I will definitly change my range since I am worried about my age as well in regards to children.

• ANSWER:
  Until the menopause. After 36 the risks do increase. Most women get the menopause when they’re about 50, so at 44 it is still possible to have children. Look at Haile Berry, for example.
  Edit: Lovin Bama is incorrect. It isn’t the early thirties that is the problem.
  Edit: there are no guarantees. If having a child is your most important criteria, I’d suggest a health check. Some women do struggle to fall pregnant or might take longer.

QUESTION:
What causes irregular periods like mine and will I have trouble conceiving?
My periods are usually around 30 days, but definitely not on the dot. When I do have 29-30 day cycles, I ovulate late (day 18-19 with a luteal phase of 11 days). I also have several patches of fertile cervical mucous before ovulation. And sometimes, my period takes a hiatus and I have a 42 day cycle (haven’t charted one of those yet). However, I think I do ovulate on those cycles because I get PMS symptoms like swollen breasts, moodiness, and food cravings. I would say there is no real pattern to my periods, though..sometimes they are 30 days (at the shortest) and sometimes they are a few days longer. I know that doesn’t make me super irregular, but I’m worried that something could be wrong that would make me infertile. Apparantly I’m having a worrying day today, so any input would be great. I’ve mentioned my irregularity to my doctor, but she just brushed it off. Thanks!
Oh, and by the way, I had my thyroid checked and it came back within normal limits.
I REALLY hate birth control pills (was on them for about 7 months). Sure, they regulated my periods, but I wasn’t ovulating. And now my periods are back to how they were before.
And yup, I’ve always had irregular periods. I don’t think 2 cycles in a row have ever been quite the same.

• ANSWER:
  Being irregular does not, in itself mean you are infertile. If you are ovulating most cycles, then you can conceive during those cycles. (Most women are, in fact, irregular by a few days each month, and occassionally missing a month is normal too.)

  The short luteul phase CAN cause problems — since it may not give the egg a chance to implant before hormone levels drop. If you’ve been trying for a while, bring your temp charts to the doctor. If she brushes you off again, try a fertility specialist.

QUESTION:
So annoyed…. Help please?
So when I was 14 I wouldn’t have a period for months and then would spot brown fer several months after the doctor gave me something something start it. So when I was 16 I went on BC on it regulated everything. I conceived baby number 1 42 days after going off birth control. Now I am on my first cycle of clomid and I started spotting on CD 36 (a week ago) and now I’m afraid the brown spotting is going to come back and I’ll have it for 3 or more months again! Has anyone ever had this problem? As a teenager I never got an answer as to why I was spotting brown for several months at a time. Any advice or stories would be great. I’ve been TTC #2 for 7 months.

• ANSWER:
  hey i had brown spotting for about 2 months then irregular periods and i was ttc for 5 months, then i went to my gp the doctor sent me to the obygyn and they did an internal scan and diagnosed me with polycystic ovaries, (pcos).
  I am now on the yasmin contraceptive pill getting my bodys hormones back to normal then when i’m ready again i have to go back for more medication.
  I think you should take a trip to your doctor hunny, and goodluck ttc baby dust to you
  xxx

QUESTION:
does anyone know of a happy story regarding infertility of 9 mths?
im 41 going on 42 been ttc for 9 mths had no luck had LOADS of stress due to teenagers etc .. going for all the routine tests at the hosp .. wondering if anyone has had similar and managed to conceive ? dont say its age because i had a preg last year which i had to terminate …not interested in peoples views on TOP ..thanks to all in advance xx

• ANSWER:
  There have been many women over 41 who conceive naturally. The odds are lower, but not impossible.

  Here are many happy stories:

  http://fertilityfile.com

  Good luck!!

QUESTION:
What is the possibilty that I COULD be pregnant?
My last period began on Oct 7th. I had unprotected sex with my BF on Oct 12th (the day my period ended) then again on Oct 17th. Is it possible that I could have gotten pregnant? Today is Nov 2nd and I have been experiencing some LIGHT nausea at various times throughout the day today and my breast have been extremely SORE for a few days now.

A little history: I am 34 years old, never been on birth control and never have been pregnant. Just recently have been trying to conceive. My periods have been like clock work for over a year now with 27-29 day cycles. However for the past 3 months my periods have been all screwy. I have been late.. VERY LATE for the past 3 months, on 38-42 day cycles. I noticed about a week after my period, about the time I had sex on the 17th, that I had ALOT of cervical mucus and as the week progressed, it got thicker. So is it possible that I was ovualting that soon AFTER my period and became pregnant on the 17th? Any thoughts on this is greatly appreciated

• ANSWER:
  YES…YOU COULD BE PREGNANT!!

QUESTION:
What is the possibility I am pregnant?
My last period began on Oct 7th. I had unprotected sex with my BF on Oct 12th (the day my period ended) then again on Oct 17th. Is it possible that I could have gotten pregnant? Today is Nov 2nd and I have been experiencing some LIGHT nausea at various times throughout the day today and my breast have been extremely SORE for a few days now.

A little history: I am 34 years old and never been on birth control and never have been pregnant. Just recently have been trying to conceive. My periods have been like clock work for over a year now with 27-29 day cycles. However for the past 3 months my periods have been messed up. I have been late. VERY LATE for the past 3 months, on 38-42 day cycles. I noticed about a week after my period, about the time I had sex on the 17th, that I had ALOT of cervical mucus and as the week progressed, it got thicker. So is it possible that I was ovualting that soon AFTER my period and became pregnant on the 17th? Any thoughts on this is greatly appreciated

• ANSWER:
  You can become pregnant generally anywhere between 11-21 days into your cycle. Sperm lives for a couple of days, so technically you may be. However if you did a pregnancy test now the answer would probably come up. good luck!

QUESTION:
Had a Miscarriage. please answer !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ?
it happened when i was six weeks.
its been four weeks now & my bleeding stopped completely three days ago..
i went and got my HCG levels checked three days ago and they were at 61.
today they were at 42.

ive heard you cant conceive again until they drop to zero.
how long will it take? i want to start trying to conceive immediately.
i know the risks, but i feel fine. im absolutely ready to try again.
this was devastating to me & i know another baby wont replace the one i lost.
i wont ever be able to forget her.. but i want more than anything to be a mommy.

• ANSWER:
  Look I dont how long it takes for levels to drop to zero.
  But what I do know is how you are feeling!
  I was 7 weeks pregnant when I lost my angel and to make it worse it was my first time pregnant.
  I also think like you that another baby wont replace the one that’s been lost. When I lost my baby I also wanted to conceive immediately!
  But since ive lost my baby its been 8 months! 8 months of trying to concieve month after month and NOTHING!!
  But dont take it all out of mee, every woman is different maybe you’ll have better luck!
  Also ive heard that it’s said to wait 6 months to a yeat to try to conceive after a miscarriage but when a woman looses a baby all she wants to do is have another one so it wont hurt that much.
  Good luck! Wish u the best!!
  (;

QUESTION:
how doi know if im/have ovulated with irregular/missed periods?
ive been trying for a 4th child for 2 yrs to no avail my periods have been regular until recent. my july period was 3 weeks late and i was due on 5th sept, but on 30 aug i got1 spot in my pants, that was it was that classed as a period? i have know idea if i have ovualted we really want a child (2nd hubby) but its not happening i wascheckedout 3mnths ago was told imfit and well and ovualting and that its my age but i still havent been referred for fertility treatment, the doc didnt seem interested.my age is against me im 42 and feeling upset i conceived my other 3inmy 20s without a prob nowi cannot seem to give my new hubby a baby im at my wits end at what to do advice please

• ANSWER:
  So yesterday you wanted a baby and your husband didn’t, now you both really want a child??? Just take a look at her other questions…

QUESTION:
Does anyone have some helpful questions i should be asking my doctor?
I am 42 years old & trying to conceive, my partner is 8 years younger…it’s been about 9 months of trying now & nothing (so disappointed) I’m going to the doctors on the 24 of Jan to dis cues fertility & find out if i’m fertile…I will write a list of question to ask him…need help on this part (what questions should i be asking?) Also does anyone know what is involved with finding out your fertility status…is there much involved? I am already taking prenatal vitamins trying to eat healthy…I know my age plays apart in it but i know other women that have had kids at my age…I just really want this & of course i would love for it to happen now…i’m not getting any younger.

• ANSWER:
  Initially the only talking you’ll be doing is answering their questions! and they’ll have plenty. If your going to your local Doctor he/she will only do a very basic blood test to start with. If your going to a specialist, here goes.

  The fertility testing will be for both of you, 1/3 female, 1/3 male and 1/3 unexplained infertility, are the western world stats.
  Right…

  1. A basic gyne exam, including std check.

  2. Blood
  tests for LH, FSH, PROGESTERONE etc
  Your bloods tests will be done different days, fsh day 3 of cycle, progesterone day 21.
  3. Ultrasound looking for polycystic ovaries, cysts fibroids etc.

  They will spend alot of time discussing your age and percentages of chance, go in positive and adamant that you want them to give you a chance. I wish you all the luck in the world. x

QUESTION:
Trying To Conceive A Girl. Help!?
Can someone help me out? I need to know when I will be ovulating next, and I also would like some advice on how to best conceive a girl, if at all possible. My last cycle started June 7, 2008 and I just started again July 25, 2008. So it appears that my cycle is 42 days. I have heard myths about how to conceive a girl, but I want the scientific facts I’ve read that having sex 2-4 days prior to ovulation can increase the chances of conceiving a girl, etc. So, can anyone help me figure out when I will be ovulating, and how to try to conceive a girl? Much thanks!

• ANSWER:
  The sex of the child is dependent on the age of the seed (what the GUY contributes). The longer he waits between ejaculations, the better the chance is that you are going to conceive a boy. Want a girl? “Tap his keg” first, getting rid of the seed more likely to produce the boys. Then put the NEXT load to work if you think you can get TWO out of him in ONE sitting! *laughter* Some women are prone to conceiving girls, but you don’t give us any of this information.

QUESTION:
What is the difference between the Biblical and the Qur’anic attitude towards the female?
Bible states that the period of the mother’s ritual impurity is twice as long if a girl is born than if a boy is:

“Tell the Israelites: When a woman has conceived and gives birth to a boy, she shall be unclean for seven days, with the same uncleanness as at her menstrual period. On the eighth day, the flesh of the boy’s foreskin shall be circumcised, and then she shall spend thirty-three days more in becoming purified of her blood; she shall not touch anything sacred nor enter the sanctuary till the days of her purification are fulfilled. If she gives birth to a girl, for fourteen days she shall be as unclean as at her menstruation, after which she shall spend sixty-six days in becoming purified of her blood”. (Lev. 12:2-5).

The Catholic Bible states explicitly that:

“The birth of a daughter is a loss” (Ecclesiasticus 22:3).

In contrast to this shocking statement, boys receive special praise:

“A man who educates his son will be the envy of his enemy.” (Ecclesiasticus 30:3)

Jewish Rabbis made it an obligation on Jewish men to produce offspring in order to propagate the race. At the same time, they did not hide their clear preference for male children:

“It is well for those whose children are male but ill for those whose are female”,

“At the birth of a boy, all are joyful…at the birth of a girl all are sorrowful”,

and “When a boy comes into the world, peace comes into the world… When a girl comes, nothing comes.”

A daughter is considered a painful burden, a potential source of shame to her father:

“Your daughter is headstrong? Keep a sharp look-out that she does not make you the laughing stock of your enemies, the talk of the town, the object of common gossip, and put you to public shame” (Ecclesiasticus 42:11).

“Keep a headstrong daughter under firm control, or she will abuse any indulgence she receives. Keep a strict watch on her shameless eye, do not be surprised if she disgraces you” (Ecclesiasticus 26:10-11).

It was this very same idea of treating daughters as sources of shame that led the pagan Arabs, before the advent of Islam, to practice female infanticide.

The Qur’an severely condemned this heinous practice:

“When news is brought to one of them of the birth of a female child, his face darkens and he is filled with inward grief. With shame does he hide himself from his people because of the bad news he has had! Shall he retain her on contempt or bury her in the dust? Ah! what an evil they decide on?” (16:59).

It has to be mentioned that this sinister crime would have never stopped in Arabia were it not for the power of the scathing terms the Qur’an used to condemn this practice:

“He hides himself from the people because of the evil of that which is announced to him. Shall he keep it with disgrace or bury it (alive) in the dust? Now surely evil is what they judge”. (16:59)

“And when one of them is given news of that of which he sets up as a likeness for the Beneficent Allah, his face becomes black and he is full of rage” (43:17)

“And when the female infant buried alive is asked for what sin she was killed”(81:8-9).

The Qur’an, moreover, makes no distinction between boys and girls. In contrast to the Bible, the Qur’an considers the birth of a female as a gift and a blessing from God, the same as the birth of a male. The Qur’an even mentions the gift of the female birth first:

“To Allah belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth. He creates what He wills. He bestows female children to whomever He wills and bestows male children to whomever He wills” (42:49).

In order to wipe out all the traces of female infanticide in the nascent Muslim society, Prophet Muhammad (S) promised those who were blessed with daughters of a great reward if they would bring them up kindly:

“He who is involved in bringing up daughters, and accords benevolent treatment towards them, they will be protection for him against Hell-Fire” (Bukhari and Muslim).

“Whoever maintains two girls till they attain maturity, he and I will come on the Resurrection Day like this; and he joined his fingers” (Muslim).

“One who brings up three daughters or sisters and is patient in earning for their maintenance till the time they will be married (…) He and I will be in Paradise like this” (Saying this the Prophet (S) showed his index and middle fingers joined)”

And people asked him: “O Messenger of Allah, what if he brings up two of them {daughters/sisters}?”

He (S) replied: “even if two”.

“What if a man brings up only one daughter?” people persisted.

“Even if eh brings up only one daughter or sister” replied the Messenger of Allah (S). (Bihar al-Anwar, Vol. 104, p.99)

• ANSWER:
  1. The Bible Convicts Women as the original
  Sinners, (ie. Eve picking from the forbidden
  tree){Genesis 2:4-3:24}. The Koran Clarifies it
  was Adam Not Eve {Qur’an 7:19-25}

  2. The Bible says “The Birth of a Daughter is a
  loss” {Ecclesiasticus 22:3}. The Qur’an says both
  are an Equal Blessing { Qur’an 42:49}

  3. The Bible Forbids Women from Speaking in
  church {I Corinthians 14:34-35}. The Qur’an says
  Women Can argue with the Prophet {58:1}

  4. In the Bible, divorced Women are Labeled as
  an Adulteress, while men are not {Matthew 5:31-32}. The
  Koran does Not have Biblical double standards
  { Qur’an 30:21}

  5. In The Bible, Widows and Sisters do Not
  Inherit Any Property or Wealth, Only men
  do{Numbers 27:1-11}The Koran Abolished this
  male greediness { Qur’an 4:22} and God Protects
  All.

  6. The Bible Allows Multiple Wives{I Kings 11:3}
  In The Koran, God limits the number to 4 only
  under certain situations (with the Wife’s
  permission)and Prefers you Marry Only One
  Wife{ Qur’an 4:3} The Koran gives the Woman
  the Right to Choose who to Marry.

  7. “If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not
  pledged to be married and rapes her and they are
  discovered, he shall pay the girl’s father fifty
  shekels of silver. He must marry the girl, for he
  has violated her. He can never divorce her as long
  as he lives” {Deuteronomy 22:28-30}

  One must ask a simple question here, who is
  really punished, the man who raped the woman or
  the woman who was raped? According to the
  Bible, you have to spend the Rest of Your Life
  with the man who Raped You.

  The Prophet Muhammad Says {Volume 9, Book
  86, Number 101} Narrated by Aisha:” It is
  essential to have the consent of a virgin (for the
  marriage)”.

  Would the Christian men Reading this prefer the
  Women they know to Be Christian or Muslim?

  8. The Bible also asks Women to wear veils as in
  Islam {I Corinthians 11:3-10}, this lowers the
  chance of rape, (God Forbid), see statistic link
  below.

  9. Women were given rights to Vote less than a
  100 years ago in the (US), while the Quran (42:38) gave
  Women Voting rights almost 1,500 years ago.

  10. Islam has unconfined Women and has given them
  the human right to reach for the sky. There have been
  Muslim Women Presidents through out the centuries,
  but to this date, the oppressive mentality of the
  men in the Western U.S.A. has stopped any Women from becoming
  Presidents in predominately Christian countries,
  while the Muslim countries have voted for and
  elected Female Presidents.

  Here is a list of previous Female Muslim leaders:

  Khadija bint Khuwaylid
  Aishah bint Abu Bakr
  Fatimah bint Muhammad
  Barakah
  Ramlah bint Abu Sufyan
  Rumaysa bint Milhan
  Umm Salamah
  Asma bint Abu Bakr
  Zaynab al-Ghazali
  Maryum Jameelah

QUESTION:
How old is the oldest mother to conceive naturally?
I had my first child at 42 and my second at 44, with a miscarriage in-between. I had no difficulty conceiving fairly quickly. I have now come off the pill (at 48) assuming that I am unlikely to get pregnant – but does anyone know what the likelihood actually is? Anyone know of anyone who got pregnant at 48 or even 49 or 50 completely naturally?

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
Looking for hope…I am on 50mg of clomid for the 3rd cycle. For some reason, opk has not detected a lh surge.?
My doctor said that my progesterone level last month was at 42 and is consistent with ovulation. Is there anyone out there that conceive on clomid although when testing the opk didn’t detect a lh surge.

• ANSWER:
  you should really look on babymed it told me the exact day i would ovulate and it was right!!!!u must be testing way too early or too late…..you should b having sex every other day throughout your cycle just too cover your basis….!!!!!!!!!

QUESTION:
two and a half years and still not getting pregnant? advice needed please.?
I have a daughter of nearly 3 years old now, ever since i had her ive not once used any contraception, i love kids and would like a big family. Ive been trying for near on 2.5-3 years now. After a year of not getting pregnant i looked into all the ovulation calculators and the timing of ovulation i even read up about certain things that help boost fertility such as exercise, good diet, no caffeine etc etc. I was slightly over weight too only by around a stone so lost the weight to give myself a good chance at getting pregnant. I started getting symptoms of pregnancy every month with alot of pain about 1-2 weeks before my period. I then found out after going to the doctors and having scans that i have a cyst on my wall, it is about the size of a ten pence piece. My doctor told me that this will not affect me conceiving a baby (not so sure that’s 100% true) and my consultant from the hospital decided that there was no need to remove it. So basically its still there. About six months ago I tried some herbal tablets that are meant to help women conceive etc etc i also got some herbal tablets for my other half that helps produce healthier sperm, my partner is 42 this year i am 22 he has had 3 kids already his last one being 5 years ago, I have one little girl of nearly three years old, my partner in all honesty is quite fit gets plenty of exercise eats very healthy doesn’t drink alcohol neither do i, the only thing he does enjoy is his odd hot bath now and again which he’s started to lay off of. I really want a baby, ive been backwards an forwards to my doctor and he doesn’t help me at all just tells me to wait, ive been waiting 3 years, i don’t know whether that’s me being impatient but it seems like forever especially when I keep getting told at 22 im at a great fertile age. I conceived my last child in 4 months of trying so whats going wrong now? Ive been thinking of trying IVF because I don’t know any other solution I have ran out of ideas. If anyone can give me advice please do. I have explained everything I can, at the moment i’m beginning to feel like im infertile, and I have done the thing of just let it happen now im beginning to feel slightly annoyed with my body, I have done everything i can. Any advice on anything i have said will be a bonus. Any ideas why I’m not getting pregnant? Could my cyst be causing the problem and my doctor is wrong? I don’t know, any ideas? anyone?

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

• ANSWER:
  If you have been trying for 3 years and have not been successful, then its way overdue for you to see a fertility specialist.

  Ask your doctor to refer you.

  Honestly, he should not be telling you to wait longer. In North America, it is recommended to see a doctor after 1 year of trying without success.

  Your doctor is wasting your time. Ask for a referral or go to a differnet doctor to get one.

QUESTION:
Brutally honest opinions are welcome. Your thoughts?
I’ve dabbled a bit in poetry lately and I just want some of the peoples’ thoughts.

This is the first one I’ve written in years, I titled it “Question?” or “42″

Which society did not ponder its purpose?
Those famous philosophers spent many of their days
Thinking, conceiving.
With the ability to reason, they inquire
Their design.
Surely, the answer must be lengthy, lush and lyrical.

How, then, are they to meet an answer they’d refuse,
Reject,
Repress.
Surely, the answer must be lengthy;
Certainly, it must. And

Yet,
The answer
Is only
Yes.

I have a couple more. If you’re REALLY interested, email me for more at manlymcmankin(at)gmail(dot)com

• ANSWER:
  -NEXT ! [ ]

QUESTION:
first IUI appointment ends with a twist, a very unexpected one:)?
This morning I got ready for my first IUI appointment after just finishing 8 cycles of clomid, ovulateing only three times, my problem was i lost alot of weight after child 2 yrs ago birth and periods stopped, clomid and weight gain help me to start my periods which became quite regular, i was day 42 today now and no period and negative HPT on day 32 confimrned that this was another failed month after all blood work on day 21 showed no ovulation, 7.1

i knew my gyn would probably give give me provera again to kick start my periods, and then what ever next, so I got up and thought he will probably ask me to do a pregnancy test before starting provera, so day 42 I head to Asda pick up a pregnancy test reluctant to use it as feel it will just be wasted, but I do and it is a positive! Wow , wow I just can’t believe it head to my gyn appointment waving it at the reception lady, test again and again positive, so happy gyn congratulates me and asks me to see my DR. I am in shock total and utter disbelief, if u are having problems conceiving never give up hope I did so many times but it can still happen.i still can’t believe it, my last period was on aug 28th so how far would I be!! Thanks to everyone who has answered my Q over the last 2.5yrs!!

• ANSWER:
  Congrats! I’m so happy for you! Talk about a wonderful surprise! Because your period is so irregular, it will be hard to determine exactly how far along you are without an ultra sound. Based on the dates form when you took your positive and negative tests I would *guess* your around 4 weeks. If you want to go my the date of your last period, you would be about 6 weeks.

  Again, congrats!

QUESTION:
Feeling pregnant but 3 negative HPTs. HELP!?
I was due for my period between July 1 – 3. I am on 21 to 23 day cycles. You can set the calendar by me. I am never late. 11 years ago, I was diagnosed with infertility problems that left me (at age 31) with a 10% chance of conceiving AFTER removing my faulty right fallopeon tube, taking clomid, and having IVF. Without these things, natural conception was basically out of my reach. Fast forward to now (age 42) where I realize what little fertility I may have has decreased since age 31. However, I cannot explain away the fact that I am 18 days late for my period plus I have other symptoms which come and go. In fact, I am due for my 2nd period this Sat 7/25. Some days I feel good (no symptoms), other days, I feel like crap. Here are the other symptoms I have had at least once since July 1:

blue tinge to vulva (TMI)
boobs heavy/sore
low back pain
tired
nauseous
heartburn
clear watery baginal discharge
frequent headaches
hot episodes (temperatue regulation issues)
mild cramping for 2 weeks, but no period
brown blood spotting on 7/14, but barely 2 tissues worth (TMI)
occassional emotional breakdowns (uncommon for me)
bloated feeling

I just feel off. I took the first test on 7/9 (6 days late), the second test on 7/15 (12 days late), and the third test on 7/20 (17 days late). All negative. I understand that some women just don’t test positive with HPTs. Can any of you who posted similiar questions tell me if you found out if you were pregnant. (This Q/A method doesn’t show what ever happened.)

I am going in for a blood test tomorrow morning. Wish me baby dust.

Denise
I don’t think I’m going thru peri-menopause based on some of the symptoms. Like the blue vulva thing… I think that is just a pregnancy thing. God! I hope I’m not going thru menopause. I’m too young!

Also peeing more frequently too.

• ANSWER:
  I hope you are!! Lots of baby dust to you

QUESTION:
trying to concieve started on 100mg clomid days 2-6?
new to clomid. this is my first cycle of clomid,(been ttc for over a yr) i was given 100mg to start on day 2-6 and im now on day 28, im not sure if i ovulated or not, although i did have cramping in both left and right side of my stomach. i have been put on clomid due to irregular periods and not ovulating. so far i have had hot flushes and bloatedness, loss of appetite (which soon came bk lol) headaches, very slight blurred vision(but that subsided quickly) the only thing i still have is i cant shift the heavy bloating feeling i don’t no why im still getting it, im very confused, i have taken a preg test and it came bk negative. ive not seen anyone with the same as me (although i no there are – im obviously looking in wrong area) i also have a fibroid that is the size of a 5p and was told it should not effect me conceiving. does anyone out there have the same
i wont see my gynaecologists til september 2011 and have only had 1 blood test which was on day 21 of my cycle which came bk with a progesterone level of 1 (had my scan and other blood test before i was started on clomid) im on day 29 of my cycle and haven’t had my period yet but i have back ache and sore boobs and belly ache
im now on cycle day 42 and still have no period and no positive pregnancy test my bk ache has subsided as has my belly ache my boobs are slightly tender im at my wits end as my gynae Secretary is away till 11th july so i cannot contact them to get answers has anyone experienced this please help me i just need to set my mind at ease

• ANSWER:
  Your in the U.K, make an appointment in the morning with your GP. Forgetting every other symptom slightly blurred vision even for a short while is NOT ok on Clomid.
  There is an extremely small chance you’ve over stimulated, even if you haven’t 42 days is too long. Phone in the morning.. very best of luck.

QUESTION:
Ovulate late,could i be pregnant?
Ok TTC#2. I have irregualr periods but never longer the 36 days at the max. It is now day 42 and still no sign. On day 33 ihad positive opk and ferning on a saliva test. My hubby and I bedded day 33,34,35 and 37. Now i am feeling sick!! I have nausea, headaches dizziness, cramping, lower back pain, increased cm (TMI SORRY) I have had this for 5 days but I thought it way to early to get symtpoms.
Took a hpt it said neg.
Has anyone heard of conceiving so close to their period? If so when did a blood test or hpt show postive?
Where is my period?
Please no rude answers we are TTC! Thank you in advance!!
Thanks it really helps to have your view!! With my first i had these exact symptoms but lighter. I had nausea alll through my first pregnancy but never once threw up!! Lucky me

• ANSWER:
  Home pregnancy tests can detect a pregnancy as early as 10 days after conceiving. That’s how long it takes to have the egg meet the sperm (rougly) and once implantation occurs, your body starts producing what we call a “pregnancy” hormone.

  Yes it is possible to get pregnant so close to your period, it has happened to my mum. The two times she got pregnant (my brother and I) was RIGHT before she got her period. I guess that’s when she would ovulate.

  Just have sex all the time I wouldn’t worry so much. It’s a fact that most women conceive when they least plan it lol. So just relax, don’t worry, and I promise one day, you will throw up from morning sickness and the thought of pregnancy will be the last thing on your mind Good luck!!!

QUESTION:
Where do you start…getting checked for fertility among a couple?
I’m wondering after 6 years if we could have an issue conceiving…we have used the pull-out method, then an IUD, and then we go around my ovuation time the last 2 years…but a few times i got my ovuation time to where i lost track of it and still thought it was weird nothing happened.

I’m at the point where I want to ask my husband if we both get checked out….but i don’t know where to start.

I am 27 and he is 42….he has 2 children from a previous marriage.

I want him to get a sperm check….ect…and I will get my hormones checked….which should we start with?

I work in the medical field but i really have no clue about what to do with fertility….and what doctors see you for what….crazy.
This is actually depressing me because im scared that one of us might actually have something wrong with us….my mom’s side has no problem conceiving..and i am very like my mom physically and by character….so this is why i wonder.

Plus im 27 and I am realizing it might take longer and i don’t want to be in my 30s when having my first one…but i know i have no control over that.

I guess I kinda did the life thing and just figured that when that time came it would be easy but now im realizing maybe not..
EDIT: ALSO I WANT TO STATE THAT I ALREADY TALKED TO A DR…AND HE SAID A MANS SPERM COUNT DOES NOT DECREASE AT ALL AS HE AGES UNLESS THERE IS SOMETHING THAT TRIGGERED IT. MEN CAN HAVE THE SAME SPERM COUNT UP TO THEIR 80s.
Thanks soo much….i check everything except basal body temp….my cervical mucus is ok and ovualations are fine…but I HATE trying to track basal body temp which i know is the most essential thing….
Thank YOU so much Michelle…this was a perfect answer!! He has to go to the dr…so i’m gonna see if they can check sperm count….ya know….get it done together…since insurance covers it….

Thanks for piece of mind…you know what your talking about…:)

• ANSWER:
  First thing for you would be to start charting your cycles. Write down everything that you might think will help you figure your cycles out. This would include checking your basal body temp, CM, cervical position, length of cycle, maybe even using OPK’s. After a few months you should see a pattern. Once you’ve got the charting down, next would be to have your doctor, general practice or ob/gyn, check your hormone levels through blood test taken at various times in your cycle. In the mean time, have your husband go for a sperm check. Although he has fathered children in the past, he might have developed a problem. His is probably the easier test since he’s just got to give a “deposit” LOL This is usually done at a urologist. Sounds strange, but urologist also deal with male fertility issues.

  If all of this comes back as okay, then you might just have the pull-out method perfected and need to work on timing sex around your ovulation. If you’re still having trouble, you can go to a fertility specialist and ask for a full work-up. They will probably check your fallopian tubes for damage or blockage, as well as other tests.

  Hope this helps!!

  Best of Luck & Baby Dust!

QUESTION:
why is it not happening for us?
I am so aggravated. today i started my “period” on cycle day 42 on a what is usually a 29-33 day cycle, 35 being the latest. a week ago i had a faint faint positive, but it was still a positive. took another test this morning before i “started” to see if positive was any darker. nothing showed at all. =( then a few hours later i had the worst cramps of my life and then came aunt flow. I was on depo for a few years and had my last shot august of 2007 and have been trying to get pregnant ever since. I have had one m/c and im assuming this month i had a chemical pregnancy maybe? but after over 17 months of ttc, I would have thought we would have been successful in a healthy pregnancy.
once again i am beginning to lose hope. every one around me is conceiving but me. its hard. So i am asking or any advice, anything that you did that helped? please and thanks so much in advance!

• ANSWER:
  You are not alone!! That exact same thing happened to me, then I got pregnant three months afterward. I had been on depo provera on and off for over seventeen years. Feb 2007 was my last shot, and I took birth control for two months in hopes of regulating my cycle faster… no such luck. I got married in feb 08, and had a chemical pregnancy in March, then same like you, it was CD 42 that I awoke with horrible cramps and passed clots. I was so disappointed. Finally in June I was getting close to driving my husband insane with all my TTC talk and temperature taking at all hours. I finally had to let it go and start appreciating what I had that I could not have if I already had a baby. Then my big fat positive came July 21st, much to my complete and utter shock. Tons of baby dust to you!!

QUESTION:
Can you have a period and be pregnant
Can you have a period and be pregnant
I know I’m going to get ” thumbs down ” for this but I found this on JustMommies .com . Explaining how you can not have a period while pregnant . All I did was a search – ” can you have a period while pregnant ” and this was the very 1st site that pulled up . That being said its a good article and oh by the way I’m not trying to be sarcastic or bitchy by putting this up . Theres just been a lot of confusion on this subject. I am a 42 yr old woman and have done some research on this . So please no rude answers because 1 – I’m 35 weeks pregnant 2- I’m also hormonal lol . Also every pregnancy is different .

Can You Have a Period When You Are Pregnant?

Although you may have heard of women that had “periods” during pregnancy, the truth is you cannot be pregnant and be having periods at the same time. Once a woman conceives her body starts producing hCG and her menstrual cycle stops. This is not to say that a woman cannot have bleeding that resembles a period when she is pregnant, but the bleeding is not actually a period. This can be confusing for some and this is why you may know someone that claims to have had a period while she was pregnant.

What can cause bleeding (or a mistaken period) during pregnancy?

During early pregnancy, it is not uncommon for a woman to have bleeding or spotting. This bleeding can sometimes be mistaken for a period. Twenty to twenty-five percent of women have bleeding or spotting during pregnancy. The bleeding is generally not as heavy a regular period. However, if a woman did not know that she was pregnant, she may assume the bleeding was just a light period. Often early pregnancy bleeding occurs around the same time a woman anticipates having her period so this can add to the confusion.

Some causes of bleeding during pregnancy include:

Implantation bleeding or spotting – Implantation bleeding happens when the fertilized egg attaches to the lining of the uterus. As the egg burrows into the lining, it sometimes causes some of the lining to shed. A woman might notice light bleeding a week to a few days before her period is due. Implantation bleeding is usually light brown, pink, or red spotting but can be as heavy as a light period. It could conceivably be confused with a light period or an early period.

Bleeding after birth control – Women sometimes have irregular cycles after taking the pill. If you have recently stopped taking the pill and are pregnant, you may have some spotting off and on due to hormonal changes. Getting pregnant shortly after stopping taking birth control can make it more difficult to differentiate intermittent bleeding from an actual period. You may be unclear when your last period was or you could be pregnant and continue to have some irreg
Ectopic pregnancy – The symptoms of ectopic pregnancy include vaginal bleeding. An ectopic pregnancy may cause vaginal bleeding that is similar to a period. Other symptoms include abdominal pain (usually on one side), rectal pressure, nausea, dizziness and shoulder pain.

Miscarriage – About 20-30% of pregnancies end in miscarriage. Bleeding or spotting can be an early sign of miscarriage. Bleeding or spotting during pregnancy does not always mean that the woman will not go on to have a healthy pregnancy but it is reason for concern. A miscarriage often starts with light spotting that turns to heavy bleeding. If you are having bleeding and are pregnant you should consult your doctor.
These are some of the reasons why a woman might have bleeding that resembles a period during pregnancy. Bleeding that occurs during pregnancy is not, however, from having a period. Any time you have bleeding and our pregnant you should discuss this with your doctor.

Source(s):
Justmommies.com !
Like I said I’m just trying to clear up some confusion .
Thanks Jane , Callie and Proud Mommy
Wow – MomtoAngels so glad everything turned out for you
Wow I’m surprised there arent a lot of people wanted to chime in on this one lol . I guess we’ve all made our point
Your welcome Viva . I know I’ve seen you post answers on this subject and they were dead on ! You and I would ALWAY get thumbs down lol .

• ANSWER:
  That article is good, however, I am proof that women can have normal periods while pregnant and it actually is a period, not bleeding due to one of those causes. I had a bicornuate uterus(I was born like this and it basically means that my uterus is divided in half). I am currently 27 weeks pregnant after having surgery to resect my uterus. Before this pregnancy I experienced 3 miscarriages and 1 stillbirth. During all of my previous pregnancies my husband had to wear condoms due to the fact that I had a baby on one side and on the other side I was ovulating and then a couple weeks later receiving a period. However, I will also say that this condition is quite rare, so while I actually had periods in most cases the reasons in this article are why women experience bleeding during pregnancy. After having surgery to resect my uterus I became pregnant and I have not had a period since becoming pregnant.

QUESTION:
Is it possible that I got pregnant?
My last period began on Oct 7th. I had unprotected sex with my BF on Oct 12th (the day my period ended) then again on Oct 17th. Is it possible that I could have gotten pregnant? Today is Nov 2nd and I have been experiencing some LIGHT nausea at various times throughout the day today and my breast have been extremely SORE for a few days now.

A little history: I am 34 years old and never been on birth control and never have been pregnant. Just recently have been trying to conceive. My periods have been like clock work for over a year now with 27-29 day cycles. However for the past 3 months my periods have been messed up. I have been late. VERY LATE for the past 3 months, on 38-42 day cycles. I noticed about a week after my period, about the time I had sex on the 17th, that I had ALOT of cervical mucus and as the week progressed, it got thicker. So is it possible that I was ovualting that soon AFTER my period and became pregnant on the 17th? Any thoughts on this is greatly appreciated

• ANSWER:
  Oh yes! It is entirely possible that you are pregnant! You had sex 10 days after the first day of your last period. Sperm can live inside of you for a few days, so even if you weren’t ovulating on the 17, you could have concieved a few days later without even having sex! How exciting! So… Now let’s figure out when you should test. You are due for your period on November 4th (28 day cycle). You should be able to get an accurate result on Nov. 3rd (tomorrow!!!). Best wishes!
  (p.s. a rough estimate of your due date IF you’re pregnant is: July 14th 2007)

QUESTION:
Does any1 have an answer for this?
Ok, this may seem like a stupid question but this really does confuse me.

I’m not sure how long ago but approximately when our mothers were pregnant with us (I’m 21), doctors counted the pregnancy from the first day of your period & counted 40 weeks, which would be ur expected due date. Then if you was overdue, u could go to 42 weeks from ur last period.

However, now doctors can give you your expected due date from a scan which is supposedly a more accurate telling of when you conceived. So for example, my first child was due 26th April 05 from my last period but my scan due date was the 11th May 05, roughly 2 weeks later. So my pregnancy would not have been able to go beyond the 25th May 05 making me 42 weeks from my scan but if I wasnt offered the scan my pregnancy would have not gone beyond 10th May 05.

So how comes before ur pregnancy was not allowed to go beyond 2 weeks after ur last period but now they can go on for at least another 2-4 weeks from a scan?

• ANSWER:
  you may find that as the baby grows your due date will change again at your next scan – the doctors will keep your baby safe so try not to worry and if your last menstrual period was accurate and regular you should be going by that yourself.

QUESTION:
i would like to no if there is any body out there that has had a partial hydrosalpinx and concived naturally?
i have only my right fallopian tube and ovary after an operation a few years ago to remove my left and now i have been told that i have a partial hydrosalpinx on my right tube and ovary,i want to no if there is any one out there that has conceived naturally with this problem and not had to resort to ivf treatment

• ANSWER:
  “Fuyan Pill”, the pills used for the treatment of gynecological inflammation, is just such a kind of green and safe traditional Chinese medicine. “Fuyan Pill” alone is competent for hydrosalpinx, and the treatment of the Western medicine such as injection, infusion, the surgery for the blocked circulation of fluid and so on are totally unnecessary for the treatment of this disease. Long-term use of Western medicine will bring drug resistance , so it is not an appropriate treatment for hydrosalpinx which is caused by chronic salpingitis. And surgical treatment will damage women’s fallopian tube.

QUESTION:
My fiance and i have been trying to conceive now I’ a week late and my breast have been hurting for two weeks?
Am never usually late can this mean I’m pregnant any help?

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QUESTION:
is there anyway to figure out the exact day i conceived?
I need to know which time I had sex did I get pregnant. No rude comments please. Is there anyway to find out forsure? Weither its going to the dr..ultra sound? Etc

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QUESTION:
have i left it too LATE TO HAVE A BABY.. sad, please HELP?
Life has been fabelous for me and my husband and i realise we are lifes winners and feel very lucky. We live in a fabelous 7 bedroom house in the leafy part of town. My husbands business is actually so busy hes hired 20 more people this month. Hes lucky, hes very bright and thought of a new product 4 yrs ago, which has basically made us millionaires. I’m an artist and do that part time in my studio in our gorgous 1 acre garden. We have an apartment next door with 3 bedrooms, where we have support house staff. 2 nannies and a housekeeper. They help when i want them, but i spend lots of quality time with my children, but its nice quality time, i’m never stressed or cross and love being a mum. I spend quality time with them every day and we all eat like together every evening as a family.I am a 31yr old female and I have 7 very healthy children but i would like one more just to complete this perfect family, before its too late for us. My kids are 12yrs, 10yrs, Twins 8yrs, little girl 6yrs, little girl 4yrs and my adorable 2yr old boy. Conceiving all has been a doddle. However, i would like One more to end the family and i find my body is letting me down. I feel very upset, i’m trying this past 6 months. I know i’ve left it late but will not be reverting to some sad ivf treatment, if it dont happen naturally, i will leave it. Do you think my chances are over?

• ANSWER:
  In answer to the question no it would not be too late to have a baby at 31.

  However, if this was a genuine question then I would wonder why you have to share all that information when a simple one line would suffice. If this was genuine then I would say that you are a bit of a snob and a show off and would have little patience for someone like you.

  I also agree that it is a little insensitive to be posting this in the trying to conceive section with people who have been trying for years to conceive and who have had/are having miscarriages etc.

  In summary …. grow up, get a life and stop talking s**t!!

QUESTION:
Infertility caused by chlamydia? Will i ever get pregnant? ?
My finance and I are having problems conceiving! He recently found out he had chlamydia but my std test came out negative(yes he cheated, no judgment please) but I was treated anyway! Its been a year and no luck. I was giving birth control to take for two months. Will getting off or skipping birth control reverse the possible infertility or help me become more fertile? Has anyone had chlamydia and gotten pregnant? I know I sound crazy but the stress is killing me. .

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QUESTION:
help pregnancy q so confused?
im due 9th of cotober i calculate the dates and it says i would have conceived on the 16th but i conceived on the 23rd does that sound like its possible ???
my LMP was jan 1st and i cnceived 23rd of jan

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QUESTION:
pregnancy question confused?
Okay so my cousin is 34 weeks pregnant and still cant figure out how this can be? she only knew she was pregnant 5 months after so the ultrasound was done when she was 23 wks She remembers her last period being the 1st of January, last intercourse on the 23rd of Jan and is due 9th October. Is this possible to have conceived on that day like does this sound alright ? because i calculated the dates and it said i would have conceived from 12th to the 20th

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QUESTION:
Why is it that now that i have a new partner, im finding it difficult to conceive?

• ANSWER:
  I asked this same question in the past. I got preggo while on the birth control pill and while on depo and was considered “fertile myrtle”. I was unable to take any birth control due to none of them working to prevent pregnancy. I ended that marriage and got into a new relationship. We were TTC for nearly 4 years and had to go to a fertility clinic to finally get help with conceiving. I don’t know why this is the way sometime, but just pray to higher power and believe that you will get preggo. Lots of baby dust being sent your way and best of luck with TTC. Just remember to have fun while TTC and don’t forget how much you love each other.

QUESTION:
can i get pregnant with low sperm count?
my husband have 15mill/ml sperm and 30% motility. plz suggest me what can i do for conceiving?

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QUESTION:
For those who came off of the pill and conceived?
My husband and I are finally TTC and while I already have a 7yr old, this will be my first “on purpose” pregnancy. I have been on the pill for years and years and after finishing my previous pack, I stopped taking the pill. The first day of my last cycle was 8/10, so according to the general 14 day ovulation predictors, this week I would be ovulating (that is IF I ovulate right away). Since I have never had to pay attention to ovulation signs, I am wondering if the “symptoms” I have noticed this week are signs of ovulation, or just early PMS.

For example, starting around Sunday, I noticed the “egg-white” cervical fluid, which I have noticed daily since then. I know this is a sign of ovulation, but does that occur while on the pill also? Since I never needed to pay attention, I have no clue if I had that same fluid all those years on the pill.

Also I have had other symptoms such as headaches and nausea, and also sudden surges in my body temp. For example, several days this week at work, I’ve suddenly felt really hot, lightheaded and nauseas while having a headache. Each of these could be contributed to PMS and ovulation, so it makes it hard to know.

Last, as of the night before, for the first time EVER, my breasts felt tender. When getting ready for bed, I took off my shirt and bra and was like OUCH. The sides and top felt tender…kind of like bruised or sore. And my nipped were worse. As of last night, my nipples were still very sore.

I guess what I am asking, is that for those of you who stopped birth control at the end of the pack and then conceived…how long did it take you to conceive and did you have ovulation symptoms the first month?
Also…you two are incorrect for saying the pill is still in my system. Do your research…the hormones that are in the pill are out of your system immediately after you stop taking them, and it is perfectly safe to get pregnant right after you stop.

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QUESTION:
How soon can i take a pregnancy test if i have very irregular periods?
i had sex on 8/17 and he came a little in me and then again on the 22nd and now i am feeling so nauseous, blooded and Major mood swings, tired, confused, and sleepy. since my periods are very irregular like every other month and i have PCOS how soon can i take it.
i had my son 5 yrs ago with no problem conceiving and i felt the same way couple of days after sex.
Am i pregnant? How early can i take a urine test? i need to know if i am.

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QUESTION:
Rate my poem out of 10, please don’t be generous for my sake, criticism is appreciated?
I’m 15 years old, and this is for English class

Lament
Forgotten before I arrived
Unseen therefore inexistent
Nothing more than a mistake:
Easily fixed,
Inconsequential
Surely I have been a sinner from birth,
Sinful from the time my mother conceived me. (Psalm 51:5)
A contemptible being, undeserving wretch
Left in fleeting memory
Without lament

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QUESTION:
conceived?
due oct 26,
unsure of monthly cycles cause they have been odd before i got pregnant
i only had spotting in january
had unprotected sex jan 1
with an old friend and then with my boyfriend after that
when could of the case of this pregnancy be? aftre january 1st or?

• ANSWER:
  sounds like it’s the bf’s baby, good luck to you. I guess you conceived near the beginning of February.

QUESTION:
Do IUD’s cause miscarriages?
I have heard varying info as to how IUD’s actually work. I got a copper Paragard IUD after my son was born because my body can’t handle hormonal birth control (‘ve tried all kinds) and I’m allergic to latex (so condoms are out of the question). But, since I’ve had it, my periods have been so painful and sporadic (I know what week it’s coming, but no idea what day) and they last about 10 days. Some months when it’s running late I start worrying that I’m pregnant b/c I begin feeling nauseated and tired and get hot flashes and dizzy spells. But, then my period starts- so I know I’m not. But, I wondering…is it possible that on those months I have actually conceived and the IUD is causing a miscarriage? Or is this just hardcore PMS? I can’t seem to find a clear answer as to how copper IUD’s really work…some websites say the copper just confuses the sperm, and some come right out and say that no one is really sure how they work. Can anyone shed some light on this sitation? Thanks

• ANSWER:
  No, IUD’s don’t cause miscarriages; for a miscarriage to occur, an embryo must be implanted in the uterus and IUD’s don’t allow this to happen. IUD’s act mainly by causing changes in the composition and viscosity of the mucus present in the cervical opening so sperm can’t penetrate into the uterus, go up the fallopian tubes and fertilize an ovum. They also alter the endometrium [lining of the uterus] so any fertilized ova can’t implant in there, in case that a hardy sperm succeeds in penetrating the cervical mucosa. As for the pain, an IUD is a foreign object that’s placed inside your uterus; in fact, the main reason women have their IUD’s removed is due to pain and heavy bleeding. Thus, the pain and bleeding aren’t related to an early miscarriage, but to the presence of the IUD in your uterus; in fact, in many women the uterus contracts in an effort to get rid of the IUD, and some actually expell it. If you’ve had your IUD in place for more than three months and the pain and bleeding are still making you very uncomfortable, talk to your doctor about an alternate birth control method.

QUESTION:
Conceived???????????
Hi everyone my fiance and I have decided to start trying again but this time i did not stress over it, but we would still like to know did we increase our chances of becoming pregnant.So ok my period came on december 4,5,6,7,8.My fertile days are the 14,15,16,17,(18 being my day i ovulate) and the 19 of december being my last fertile day.We already had sex on the 15 ,16 17, 19 .Today is the 21 so is it common to have breast and nipple pain and elevated bumps on you nipples at this time? Please read carefully and give me some insight on this matter I would greatly appricate it.Oh i’m expecting my period on january 1st i’m gonna test that morning if my period does not show.Everyone wish me luck on getting my big fat pregnant.
(January,1, 09)Thanks ladies.I took a test this morning it said BFN!!! I’m so sad.My period has not show herself yet so there’s still a chance right?

• ANSWER:
  Hi Sweetie! It is possible to feel prego symptoms this early. Some women even feel them before they miss their periods…. I hope you get your BFP tomorrow. Please let us know. A good, no, GREAT site for fertility “stuff” is fertilityties.com. The women their are in the same boat as you and I, and will welcome you with open arms to help your chances of conceiving. GL and **baby dust**

QUESTION:
WHy are we having trouble conceiving again?
We’ve never had problems conceiving, we just stopped using contraception and within weeks I was pregnant. We started trying again just before our youngest turned 2. Which was 1 1/2 years ago. We’re thinking about trying fertility treatments if we don’t conceive in the next 6 months. But I want to figure out why we haven’t gotten pregnant yet. He’s only 32 & I’m 30. We have sex 2-4 times a week on average. We’ve tried several different positions, and I rarely drink & don’t smoke, although I did drink on Tuesday night. But before that hadn’t touched alcohol since New Years. I’m not overweight, And we use an ovulation kit to tell when I’m ovulating too. We’re thinking about going to the doctors
But, any ideas on why we are having trouble getting pregnant?
We haven’t really been that stressed though. We’ve been trying to keep as stress free as possible.

• ANSWER:
  It could be stress. Maybe just try to relax and not think about it so much. I know easier said then done

QUESTION:
How can you determine whether or not you conceived right after having sex?
My boyfriend and I have been having sex for 3 months now. There are a few people that have said that you can tell you conceived right after having sex with your partner. If this is the case, I’d like to know how so I can fill my boyfriend in on it when it does happen.

• ANSWER:
  There is not such thing! Very impossible. If it is,there is no famous phrase “two weeks wait”

QUESTION:
What is my temperature supposed to be like if i conceived?
i haven’t actually taken my temperature, however, the past few days i have felt like i have been a little warmer then usual. I am about 7-9dpo. if i conceived or if the egg implanted would that cause my temperature to rise?

• ANSWER:
  Yes, if you conceived, your temperature will stay high. But implantation doesn’t cause elevated temperature. Your temperature rises after you ovulate and stays elevated until your next period (if not pregnant).

QUESTION:
How many people who have conceived on clomid?
How many people who conceived on clomid had a multiple birth as i have read in increases the chances?

• ANSWER:
  Out of 8 family/friends who’ve taken clomid none of them had more then one baby, a few haven’t gotten pregnant at all after several rounds though but the rest went on to have healthy singleton pregnancies.

QUESTION:
Is it possible to have conceived with a copper T inserted which is 2.5 years old?
I visited my gynecologist today with symptoms of fatigue and vomiting since 2 days. The doctor said that the symptoms indicate that I may have conceived. I want to know is it possible to have conceived in spite of having a Copper T inserted. I got it 2 years ago. Please let me know if there are any chances of conceiving. I have a 3.5 year old daughter and I am 30 years old.

• ANSWER:
  By a copper T, I presume you mean an IUD or coil? If so then yes, it is perfectly possible to conceive with one in place. I was pregnant within just a few months of having mine put in. You need to find out whether or not you are pregnant asap, as the possibility of the pregnancy being ectopic (i.e. implanted somewhere other than in the uterus) is much higher if you have an IUD, so you will need to be carefully monitored.

QUESTION:
I have conceived while having bv (bacterial vaginIs) is this likely to harm the baby or my pregnancy?
I think I have conceived a baby while having bv (bacterial vaginosis), Is this likely to harm the baby or my pregnacy?
It’s the non STD kind.

• ANSWER:
  Bacterial Vaginosis is NOT an std anyway. You need the treatment, which is a prescription of antibiotics. You need to treat bv as soon as you know you’ve got it. Don’t leave it, especially since you are pregnant. It’s unlikely to harm the baby.

QUESTION:
How accurate are the dates that i conceived?
Im due august 19, 2011. I have been hearing I conceived from november 22-30. And what if I go past my due date, does it mean I conceived later or the baby just doesn’t want to come out yet? And how accurate are they if I’m not sure of my lmp? And if mine is irregular or regular?

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QUESTION:
How can you tell when your child was conceived?
I’ve always wondered, how do you know the exact day you conceived?

I hear from so many people that they know the day their child was conceived, but if you’re having sex 3 or 4 times a week, how can you pinpoint it so close?

Or do the people that know just not have sex that often?

• ANSWER:
  Some people chart their ovulation so they know when it probably happened. You can also count backwards from your due date to figure it out if you want.

  It may also be that your friends don’t have a lot of sex – but it’s probably that they chart.

QUESTION:
How long after you have conceived will it show up on an at home pregnancy test?
Pregnancy tests say they can accurately tell if you’ve become pregnant within 5 days of your missed period. Well what I’m wondering is if you have sex around a week before your period is supposed to come. Will a pregnancy test confirm if you’ve conceived or not a week later? Or is that too soon to know?

How long does it take for you to show up as positive or negative… accurately.

• ANSWER:
  Well , its depends on yur regularity of your cycle , if it is regular, i mean 28+-1day then , 5days before the mense is a safe period so u might not get pregnant , its hard to pin point the exact date to confirm the pregnancy but generally when a period is missed then only a question of pregnancy arises .

QUESTION:
If I accidentally conceived on the pill is my baby going to be ok?
I know they say if you accidentally conceive while taking the pill, as long as you stop taking it after your missed period you are ok. Well i have been doing some research online, and I am finding different studies saying that a baby conceived on the pill can have side effects, like sex organ deformities, females being masculinized, and the like. I am so scared, has anyone else been there?

• ANSWER:
  No.

  Try to imagine any company selling something to women who might become pregnant, that would risk damaging the baby. they’d get their butts sued off. BC pills are harmless. After all, sometimes women miss the syptoms and keep taking them for months. (It happens).

  I have never heard of a study that suggests damage. that’s just speculation by people who don’t know medicine.

QUESTION:
Is there a way to tell when implantation might start if you conceived??
Trying to conceive after miscarriage, and read on another question where somebody said they started cramping around the time that implantation would have taken place if they conceived. I wanna know if there is a time frame after period, LH surge, etc that you can tell when implantation might take place if you successfully conceived?? Thanks.

• ANSWER:
  Implantation bleeding usually occurs about 6 days after conception, but can occur as last as 12 days adter conception. Some woman dont experience this, however, until they are due to start their periods.

  Implantation bleeding doesnt always involve bleeding. The other signs can be milkd cramping, bloating, and a whitish-clear discarge, much like the discharge you get prior to ovulation. Sometimes, a woman may notice slight bleeding or spotting, usually lasting for 1-3 days, and pinkish red in color.

QUESTION:
Do you still get your period if you conceived a few days earlier?
Okay so, you have unprotected sex on Friday and your period is due on Monday. Say you conceived that Friday. Would you still get that period of Monday? And if so, would it be full blown or just spotting. I’ve always been curious about this.

• ANSWER:
  here is the deal. In order to conceive you would have to time the sex very close to ovulation. with that been said the egg will not live up to couple days before ur period is due. I doubt that you could conceive that late.

QUESTION:
How do I know when i conceived. Four months after giving birth to first still no period to go by?
just had my daughter 4 1/2 months ago. Not ttc, but not opposed to it either. If I am pregnant how do I know when I was ovulating or conceived if I still have not started my period, also still breastfeeding!

• ANSWER:
  The dr will give you a due date at your first ultrasound (vaginal). They go by the baby’s measurements to give an approximate date of conception.

QUESTION:
Does having a cyst before I conceived make any difference symptom wise vs pregnancy with no cyst?
I have had an ovarian cyst of medium size for about 6 months. I just conceived about three weeks ago ( I think) I had a positive HPT but I’m not sure if the symptoms I am experiencing are usual symptoms of early pregnancy with a cyst. Anyone who has conceived WITH A CYST please share your story and the symptoms you experienced in your early pregnancy! THANKS!

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QUESTION:
Is it weird to sleep in the bed you was conceived in?
My parents are gypos and after 20 years of marriage they got a new matress offering me their old one. Because it’s a double bed I took it but when I thought about it I was probably conceived on that matress. Obviously it will have fresh sheets and stuff but is it still weird if I sleep on it? Thanks.

• ANSWER:
  No its not weird. I got conceived in the back seat of a car now I own the car

QUESTION:
Has any one ever conceived a baby baby girl by doing the deed the before & day of ovulation?
Has any one ever conceived a baby girl by doing the deed the before & day of ovulation?

As I have been told this is the time zone to try for a baby boy.

• ANSWER:
  Actually yes you can help increase your chances of having a boy or a girl. There are two types of sperm, X and Y. X makes girls and Y makes boys. The X sperm is slower but last longer then Y sperm. The Y sperm are faster but die quicker.
  To increase your chances of having a girl have sex a day or two before ovulating since they are slower, and live longer. Therefore, chances are by the time the X sperm makes it to the egg most of the Y sperm will have already died.
  To increase changes of having a boy have sex the day of ovulation since they are faster they will most likely get there before the X sperm to give you a boy

QUESTION:
If a child is conceived in one state but born in another and the paternal parents are not married, what state?
-what state has jurisdiction with regards to child support, custody and visitation?
-I am in California, the father is in Missouri. Baby was conceived in MO but father has decided to not be involved with me or the pregnancy
-Will I have to send the child to him for visitation? Or will he have to come here?

• ANSWER:
  It doesn’t matter were he was conceived or born; what only matters is where the child is having permanent residency; that would be California in this case.

  It also doesn’t matter what he “decides” or not; the Court will have the final word, not him.

  And for visitations rights, that will be decided on the court (but for what you said it seems he doesn’t care about having visitation rights). If you get a good lawyer you can claim safety reasons to request the father being the one doing all the travel.

QUESTION:
How many people have PCOS but yet still conceived fairly easily?
Is it a BIG fertility hinderance, or just in some cases? I have regular periods, but have just been told I have the condition. The only problem it gives me is slightly more painful periods than I’m used to. How many of you have successfully conceived with PCOS? I am not trying to conceive right now, but am worried for future reference, as I would be devastated if this meant I couldn’t have children one day.
Thanks in advance!

• ANSWER:
  my wife has pcos. she mis carried twice but were pretty sure it had to do with PAXIL. she started prenatal vitamins and chlomedand we now have 2 awesome kids. our second child was a surprise we werent even trying to conceive. we were in our early 30′s when we had our first. I dont think you should worry. however do alot of research on any prescription drugs you may be taking. this was a big factor in our mis-carriages

QUESTION:
What will happen to my unborn child if I was on Ecstasy when it was conceived?
I was on Ecstasy friday night. my girl and I conceived on sunday night would the Ecstasy in my body have an effect on the baby. And Yes im sure that was the night we conceived so by having that in my system would it effect my unborn child.

• ANSWER:
  Baby should be find, X doesn’t affect sperm, and even if it did it would be the sperm being created, not sperm siting there waiting.

  Hope that helped.

QUESTION:
If your baby comes out early does i mean they were conceived earlier than you think?
Same with late? If it’s later does that mean you conceived later? Or is the ultrasound date from the first trimester right, but the baby just comes out when it wants to? I have 9 days until my due date and I’m not sure when exactly I conceived, but I assume the ultrasound is pretty right on.

• ANSWER:
  It could do but you can usually tell when you conceived the baby bit it’s size and heart rate. So the date is rarely wrong. Some babies just want to get out, and some are just getting comfortable.

  That’s life

QUESTION:
What’s the pinpoint time in the month to find out if you’ve conceived?
I’m confused and I really want to know the timing in knowing if you have conceived. A week, A month? How long after missed period?

• ANSWER:
  My girlfriend got negatives until her period was three weeks late. And I’ve read in Yahoo Answers that some people read negative until they were 4 months pregnant and finally went to a doctor for a blood test. I would suggest waiting until your period is late to give your body enough time to build up enough HCG hormone to be detected by a HPT. If you get negatives and no period for a while, check with the doc.

QUESTION:
How many of you conceived on your first try?
I have 2 children. 7 and 2 1/2. We are trying for another. I conceived fairly quickly with both of them. Within the first month or two I was pregnant. Now I am wondering about trying for a 3rd. I hope that it is that easy. Has anyone ever had it pretty easy at first then very difficult with other times trying to get pregnant?

• ANSWER:
  You all are SO lucky conceiving right away! With our first we tried for over two years and gave up hope. BIG surprise this time I was on birth control and using condoms for back up well now I am 10 weeks, go figure.

QUESTION:
Is it possible I conceived the night i bled slightly during sex?
I never bleed during sex with my husband, and I just found out I’m pregnant. I have an appointment with the doctor when I can figure out when I conceived, but is it possible to have bled because of implantation?

• ANSWER:
  You could have bled because of implantation, but you would not start bleeding during the sexual encounter that you conceived in, it doesnt happen that fast. It takes up to 24 hours for conception to occur, and then an additional 5-14 days for implantation to occur.

QUESTION:
Is there any risk for the embrio if it was conceived while being sick?
My partner and I have been trying to make a baby for the last couple of months. No success, yet, but I know it will happen when it has to. However, I’ve been worried because I’ve been getting colds very frequently for the past 3 months. I wonder if there is a risk for the embrio to develop any malformations in case it was conceived while I had a cold (meaning running nose and coughing). I am the female
Thank you in advance.

• ANSWER:
  no it has nothing to with the embro

QUESTION:
Anyone conceived on the first month after a miscarriage?
This will be our first month trying after a miscarriage.
I had to have Suction & Curettage on Jan 14 and today is the 5th day of my period so I should Ovulate within the next couple of weeks, even less.

Is there anyone lucky out there that conceived on the first month trying after a loss?

• ANSWER:
  Hi-
  i had a d&c on 4 March 2007, waited for next period which came on 4 April 2007 and conceived straight after. I now have a healthy 6 week old son.

QUESTION:
Has a man ever taken dilantin and conceived a child?
We have been ttc for a while now and i read up on dilantin and it has infertility side effects. My husband takes 500mg a day for his epilepsy. He is going to the doc to see if they can change his meds.
Has any man taken this and conceived and how many milligrams were u taking at the time? Serious inquiries only please.

• ANSWER:
  Good luck getting pregnant

QUESTION:
Has anyone conceived while they were sick or intoxicated and if so what was the sex of the baby?
I don’t believe that I was sick or drinking when I conceived any of my boys and anyone that I’ve talked to that got pregnant while taking antibiotics while on birth control seemed to have girls.

• ANSWER:
  well i wasnt drunk or sick,but under the influence of ambien….and when i took ambien i was that small percent that did things without knowing..lol…like get pregnant….have no recolection of that nite but the husband has filled me in on what happened..lol…and its a girl…dont think it means anything tho,i just got lucky….mother of 2 boys.

QUESTION:
If you conceived close to when your period is due do you have your period?
I came off my period on the 24th September. Every month i run like clock work its every 28 days for about 6 days. I was due on yesterday but have not come on yet, but been having slight cramps. I know i’ll probably come on soon, but my question is if you conceived say a week before your period, would you have your period and still be pregnant?

• ANSWER:
  Everybody is different. I had my period for three months while I was pregnant, so the question is yes you can. What you should be really paying attention to is how the cramps are and if your period does come on see if its a “regular period” for you like, irregular bleeding or unusual cramps then you should get a pregnancy test. Good Luck=]

QUESTION:
Is it dumb to kinda consider myself also from the city/country where I was conceived?
I was born in US but actually was conceived and mom was pregnant in overseas and my parents came to US (legally they were already US citizens don’t worry!) just couple months before I was born. So technically I was born US but really my conception and most my mom’s pregnancy was when my parents were in europe all the way up until two months before I was born. I consider myself euro in a kind of way because of this even though i don’t have citizenship there.

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QUESTION:
Why did the old from the last last generation conceived so much babyboomer?
Ok I believe that babyboomer is the kids in big family. Like some parents have 5+ sister and brothers. But why did the parents of those 5+ children conceived so much? Was there Free money reward attribued for X number of kids? Or did they just wanna have sex?
Please be serious
Thank you

• ANSWER:
  Hun i have always wanted to answer a question like this….Do you know the tum metro sexual?… Men are becoming more woman like…back in the 50′s men were men the macho type that played football and worked on cars with there shirt tucked messily in there pocket…guy now a days think its cool to wear pink and spike there hair with gel…i read the other day in a mag that had a play on words such as “how to get your man away from the mirror” gross i need a man that has two pairs of pants, one set of shoes for work and one for suits, and cant stand to get ready more than 10 min…(shower included) I cant tell you why but i can def tell you its not natural….Also at the time of the baby boomers men had just gotten back from the war and let me tell you my man misses me A LOT while fighting for my rights….:)

QUESTION:
How many of you finally conceived after the 6, 9 or 12 months?
Studies show it takes an average of 6 months for healthy couples to conceive and that the percentage of healthy couples who conceive after 6 months of TTC is 50%, after 9 months of TTC, it is 75% etc. It looks like the longer you TTC, your chances of conceiving goes up (assuming both partners are healthy with no infertility issues). How many of you finally conceived after the 6, 9 or 12 months? Did you do anything different or just have faith and patience? (By the way, I am 33)
TTC going on 8th cycle

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QUESTION:
Is the date of conception and date you conceived the same?
I am 6 weeks pregnant and am confused. I joined this pregnancy site to track my pregnancy and it says I conceived July 25th, and my conception date is August 8th. I thought it meant the same thing. My last period was July 26th or 27th so the date it says I conceived doesn’t sound right. Any advice is appreciated! Thanks. My last period was different, very light pink spotting, then turned brown, and then regular period. Could I have gotten pregnant in July and still bleed? I heard it’s possible.

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QUESTION:
How old was Mary when she conceived?
I have heard that Mary was only 14 when she conceived and married, and that Joseph was and old man. Is that true.

• ANSWER:
  Generally, a girl was ready to have a husband arranged for her when she started her first menstrual cycle–which meant she had achieved womanhood. So if she was betrothed, and not married, she was probably pretty young. 12, 13, 14–in that area.

  Who knows how old Joseph was. Usually men were married when they were financially stable enough to support a family.

QUESTION:
What are the odds I actually conceived on this day?
On Sept. 20th I had a funny gut feeling that I was pregnant. I had no symptoms at all. A couple of weeks later I started having symptoms, and the 14th of October I got my first pregnancy test positive. I had taken one previously on the 10th and it was negative. I don’t have a regular period cycle–my last period was in April-so I have no way of really knowing when I conceived, other than that gut feeling I had, but how accurate is that really?

• ANSWER:
  If you were taking home pregnancy tests fairly frequently, you can use that to estimate – you can get a positive test about 2 weeks after conception – I’d just split the difference and say you were 4 weeks pregnant on Oct. 12th, which would put your due date at about July 23rd and make you about 12 weeks pregnant right now. Usually, if you’re unsure, your doctor will have you get a dating ultrasound, but you’re actually past the point where that’s really accurate.

  Sorry, I misinterpreted your question a little, going by what you gave, I’d say you concieved on September 29th.

QUESTION:
If you have entercourse the day before you ovulate, Is it possible to conceived?
Because I had enter course the night before and the next day I bleed for a few hours and thats it. The next day i wasen’t bleeding. Could i have conceived?
I’m not on my period I have already had my period. And, no I wasen’t a virgin. I only bleed for 2 or 3 hours and that was it. That hasen’t happened before. I’m gonna go get a test done soon.

• ANSWER:
  I am going through the same thing except i had intercourse 2 days before. I am trying to just be patient and wait for my period to see if it comes or not which is easier said than done. I have heard for both of our situations we have pretty good chances of being pregnant from those times. If that is what you want then I hope you get it. I hope this helps.

QUESTION:
I have been trying to conceive any tips?
I have been trying to conceive any tips? I have been trying for 3 months it’s going on 4 months.

• ANSWER:
  Try using the website www.fertilityfriend.com, they have handy hints about charting, monitoring cervical mucus and position and other stuff to. You can also use there chart for a month as a free trial, they also have a free online e-mail course on charting with tips. I’ve only started charting this month but am very hopeful that I now recognise my fertile period.

  Good luck!

QUESTION:
Does anyone know any Free how to conceive quick tips ebook?
we a normal and healthy couple, in our early 30s who are desperately to conceive, we have checked everything that we could possibly can, but all doctors have said we are perfectly normal and should conceived soon, but we’ve been trying over 14months now. Could anyone share their experience and also to provide us any free ebooks quick tips links??

With million thanks!!

• ANSWER:
  Make sure you and your partner have no medical issues.
  Have sex regularly from everyday to every other day in a month.
  After sex, stay still, lie down on your back, put a pillow under your butt and put your butt up for at least 30minutes after sex.
  You can use ovulation kit but do not focus too much on it as it may be inaccurate.
  Don’t stress too much, no pressure on yourself or your partner.
  You may try preseed to help guide the sperm to where they need to go.
  Have sex regularly, start taking prenatal pills to help prepare your body.

QUESTION:
What are tips that can help my husband and I conceive a child?
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 9 months now. I don’t suspect there should be any problems conceiving, however neither of us have been to the doctor to get checked. We plan on trying for a year and if we still have no luck we will get our fertility checked. I was wondering in the mean time for those of you who have been to the doctor, what have they said to do to increase your chance of conceiving? Are there any tips out there that worked great for you? I’d also like to hear success stories…Thanks so much!

• ANSWER:
  There is a book called “Taking Charge of Your Fertility” by Toni Welcher. She says that if you follow the plan in the book and you are a normal healthy couple then you should conceive in-at most-4-6 cycles. She actually says it should take less than that assuming everything is alright. This book is great! I highly recommend it.

QUESTION:
Your best trying to conceive health tips?
So, we are thinking of ttc soon. Since we don’t know if it will happen quickly for us or not we aren’t going to get into the tracking dates (I know when my periods are though) of ovulation and all that.

But in general, as far as foods and such go, which to avoid and which to consume, what are your best tips for starting off a healthy pregnancy?

• ANSWER:
  alcohol…cafiene. salts… smoking… start taking prenatals.. and get lots of rest and drink plenty of water…

QUESTION:
Need Help.. trying to find conceive tips faster and naturally?
My husband and I ,have been trying to conceive for over a year and the every month failures only made it more difficult. Can someone tell me conceive tips faster?

• ANSWER:
  You Can try this systems to get conceive fast and naturally, My sister get pregnant after 2 months trying this.. You must try this too

QUESTION:
Are there any tips for trying to conceive?
My husband and I have been trying to conceive baby #2 since July 2007. It only took us a few months to conceive our son, so obviously, #2 has taken longer then we thought. We have a 2 year old and feel very blessed! I count my days and all that good stuff, but we are welcoming any other tips or advice that anyone could give us to help us to give our son a baby brother or sister. Thank you so much!

• ANSWER:
  One of the big things you can do is chart your temperatures to see if/when you’re ovulating. There are good websites where you can do this that have lots of great tips too. http://www.fertilityfriend.com/ is the one I used. I really liked it (it’s free) Good luck!

QUESTION:
What are some tips to help me conceive?
Im calculating the days, doing home ovulation tests and having sex on the right days.. What i really want to know is what are some tips that could help me to conceive? (for example i heard holding your legs up after sex could help; does tht work?) so any tips or tricks you know of would help tons! Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  I don’t know too much about this sort of thing, but I heard that you are more likely to conceive on second ejaculation. Sorry I don’t really have any other tips

QUESTION:
At 17 I got pregnant and regretfully aborted and now I’m older and want kids I can’t seem to conceive any tips
I’ve been trying for 6 months now on my ovulation dates and I don’t want to ask the doctor just yet but need tips and advice to help me have the baby I long for. Thanks again

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  I’ve been trying to get pregnant for the past 10 months. Its late in my cycle now so I’m not sure if I concieved or not but I hope so. What I’ve been trying this whole time is tracking my cycle for a few months and then taking ovulation predictor kits to pinpoint the right day of ovulation and know what signs your body shows you and when in relation to the day of ovulation. Then I started taking prenatal pills to make sure my body is healthy and just in case I do concieve my baby will be getting the nutrients it need before I even know its there. Also try to have sex on the 5 days prior to the day of ovulation not just the day before or the day of. All of the women I know that are pregnant right now or recently gave birth concieved earlier than two days before ovulation. So you never know when it might happen. Theres also herbal remedies out there such as fertile aid I think. I was taking those pills for a few weeks but I stopped about a month ago, but that was because I moved and packed them away and couldnt find them. But Ive heard good things about them and they are natural too. One other thing you might try is not keeping track of your cycles and wingin’ it! I hear it works for some people. Just tell yourself it will happen when the time is right and relax. Sometimes that makes all the difference. I stopped tracking my cycles about 4 months ago although I can’t help but think in my head “I think I might be ovulating today…” I wish I could tell you if it worked but its too soon. Good Luck!!

QUESTION:
My friend is trying to conceive any tips?
She has been trying to conceive for quite some time now. She just recently purchased some pre seed. Is there anything she can do to increase her chances? Especially when she is ovulating.

I’m already pregnant and we don’t understand why she can’t seem to get pregnant. By the way, I’m 16 and she is 24. She is my boyfriends sister. Thanks.

• ANSWER:
  Here are a few tips:

  1. Have sex every 2 to 3 days
  2. After sex she should put some pillows under her bum to elevate her pelvis and lay there for 20 minutes before getting up.
  3. If she still isn’t pregnant after 12 months of trying then she should see a doctor to run some tests.

  Good luck to her

QUESTION:
Tips to conceive after quitting birth control?
Well the girl im with had been taking birth control pills for about 2 years now.

We recently decided that we wanted to try for a child, so she has quit taking birth control.

Thing is, i just needed/wanted some tips on trying to get pregnant after getting off the pill.

Like im sure it takes some time after for the girl to start ovulating, or whatever the case is, but i was just wondering if anyone had any tips or suggestions for us? Such as waiting for certain things? Making sure certain things happen? Or wat to expect..

Thanks in advance!

• ANSWER:
  Doctors suggest that you wait a few months before you start trying so that the woman’s periods/ovulation regulates and they can tell the gestational age when she does become pregnant.

  From personal experience, I was on the pill for about 5 years, stopped taking it in late May of 2010 and was pregnant by early July. It certainly didn’t take me awhile to start ovulating again! I thought the same thing and didn’t worry too much, but now I’m about 8 months pregnant.

  Good luck!

QUESTION:
Websites for tips on trying to conceive?
Does anyone know of any websites with tips and helpful tools on trying to conceive?

• ANSWER:
  I’m going to give you a few websites that cover different aspects of conception.

  http://www.babyzone.com

  http://www.babycenter.com

  http://www.webmd.com

  All have good articles and topics on trying to conceive.

  When ttc I would suggest charting your bbt (basal body temp)- a website that does it all for you is:

  http://www.fertilityfriend.com

  I would also suggest buying some if the CBE home ovulation tests with a smily face as a result or the Clear Blue Easy Fertility Monitor depending on how long you’ve been trying. They both would help you detect when you are ovulating and have helped me figure out when I need to use the next product to make the conception process alot easier.

  A really good product to use when ttc is preseed when you are ovulating. You can read more about it at http://www.preseed.com
  It basically helps the sperm get where they need to go alot easier. Alot of women swear by this product and you can read about that and many other things on:

  http://www.twoweekwait.com – Love this website!!!

  http://www.justformommies.com

  Good Luck and lots of baby wishes to you! Happy Holidays!

QUESTION:
Could anyone advice any quick tips on how to conceive?
Could anyone advice any quick tips on how to conceive? Any experience to share?

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QUESTION:
My husband and I are trying to conceive, any tips that could give some extra help?
Just wondering if there is something I’m missing, or anything you know that might be able to help. Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  Relax, don’t worry, and I’m sure you can figure out the rest, have fun!!!!

QUESTION:
I am trying to conceive, does anyone have any fertility tips?
My husband and I are trying for a baby for a few months now,
I know we are both fertile because we have successfully conceived before.
Does anyone have any tips on what we can do or any sites with any guide lines?

Thank you.

• ANSWER:
  Yes! So am i . www.feriltyfriend.com

QUESTION:
I am trying to conceive and need tips on how to be successful?
Me and my husband are ready to start our family we have been trying for about 4 months now. Its starting to take a toll on me. Sex is becoming more of a chore for me rather than fun and i started taking prenatal vitamins thinking that might help (will it) me succeed. Ive already gotten my yearly exam for STDS and or other things and everything came back good anyone who has ever been in my situation please help

• ANSWER:
  I don’t know if you are already doing this, but this is what my husband and I did.

  The day I was fertile (by test), my husband and I had sex. When he ejaculated, he held in me for a few seconds. He then elevated my hips with pillows to let it pool in my cervix, and then I layed like that for about 45 minutes. We got pregnant the very first try.

  If you’ve done this, sorry to waste your time, but if you haven’t, it definitely worth a shot!

  Good luck hun!

QUESTION:
Trying to conceive, any tips? We’ve been trying for 4 months now?
My boyfriend and I have been trying to conceive for the past four months with no luck. The only thing we have doing is making sure we try when I am ovulating and after I elevate my hips for 30 minutes…needless to say it hasn’t worked yet. Does anyone have any tips for me that could help or any natural fertility treatments that are inexpensive? Any thoughts and advice will be appreciated, Thanks!

• ANSWER:
  First off, make sure you know EXACTLY when you’re ovulating this could be the MOST important factor when TTC. Most websites will tell you you ovulate on your 14th day HOWEVER every woman is different. The only true way to know EXACTLY when you ovulate is to use ovulation pee sticks or to try BBT charting (look this up! Its sooo easy and cheap!) =)
  Also make sure you are eating healthy, exercising, and taking pre-natal vitamins (these are VERY good to take while TTC)
  Have fun with sex and make sure to not make it a “chore”. lol
  Try a sperm friendly lubricant like Pre-Seed. Most lubricants KILL sperm.
  Thats all I’ve got lol.Take care of yourself! It will happen at the most surprising time! Good Luck!!! =)

QUESTION:
Can any one tell me when is best time for me to conceive? Any tips?
I started my period today. I am usually on 28 day cycles give or take a few days. Is there any things I could try to help me conceive faster. Thanks alot

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QUESTION:
What are some great tips to help me Conceive?
I will be ovulating tomorrow, what are some great ideas to help me conceive besides sex? My husband and I have had sex Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday (2), and today. Are there any great positions? Ways to help the sperm get where it needs to go? Things not to do?

No negitive answers please, just some helpful ideas.

• ANSWER:
  Have sex before you go to sleep, in bed. Have sex and don’t get up, just sleep all night, this way it will all get there for sure. That’s what worked for me. I didn’t walk after sex.
  You need to have sex a day BEFORE ovulation, so the semen would be waiting for the egg to come out and fertilize it right away while it fresh.

QUESTION:
Does anyone have any tips on trying to conceive?
I’ve been trying to have a baby for about 6 months already and i’m getting impatient! Does anyone have any tips for me? Are there any vitamins or anything I or my husband can take to help us out that are over the counter? Any special foods? Looking for any ideas at all! Thanks.

• ANSWER:
  - Get yourself on some prenatal vitamins.
  - Get your hubby on some multivitamins
  - Keep tracking ovulation
  - Make sex fun (it really makes a difference)
  - Hubby better not be wearing tightie whities. lol If he is, get him in some boxers. Gotta keep those swimmers as cool as possible.
  - I’ve heard rumours that pineapple helps with implantation but I have no idea if it’s true. But have a few slices just in case. lol

  Good luck and baby dust to you

QUESTION:
Do you have any tips on trying to conceive?
I would like to know how big a pillow should be to elevate hips after BD. I read that it shouldn’t be to large or to small, so what does that mean? Also, where should the pillow be placed exactly? Under the hips or the small of the back. I read that if the pillow is placed in the wrong spot, semen will pool behind the cervix. Please let me know any other tips you may have. Thank you very much.

• ANSWER:
  Honestly I consulted with my OB doc on this, and she said this does not make a difference at all or increase your chances..It’s pretty much where the swimmers are swimming too.

  I never used this tip and I have 3 kids.

  Good luck to you n lot’s of babydust to you and all of us TTC!!

QUESTION:
Do you have any tips for helping me conceive?
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 4 years now. I finally did get pregnant in March, but lost the baby at 9 weeks. Is there anything that you tried that worked for you? We are trying to stay away from fertility drugs. Thanks!

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QUESTION:
failing to conceive, can anyone help me with tips?
Me and my partner have been trying for a baby since after the birth if my son five years ago. This is putting pressure on our relationship and ive gone off sex. Any tips for helping to conceive and putting the spark back in our relationship.

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QUESTION:
WHAT ARE THE TIPS TO CONCEIVE A BABY ? WHAT TO DO AND WHAT NOT TO DO?
ME AND MY WIFE ARE PLANNING FOR A BABY FROM LAST 3 MONTHS, BUT HAV’NT SUCCEDED YET. PLEASE HELP US THAT WE CAN HAV A BABY .

• ANSWER:
  Contrary to popular belief having sex every single day isn’t going to help you have a baby any sooner. Every time after the first the sperm count in your semen will lower, lowering the success rate with it. Aim for every three days. The sperm will live inside of her for the that time and do their thing while you can build up a reserve of new sperm. We found no luck with aiming for certain times of the cycle. But if you are having sex every three days then you are bound to have sex a few times every month during the “right” time AND keep in mind it is possible to get pregnant during any part of her cycle so focusing on the whole month rather than a week or two will help as well. Forgetting about all of the counting, and marking, and temperature taking, and charting really took the stress out of it for my husband and I…something that can hinder conception. So relax and enjoy each other. Eat healthy, get lots of good sleep, and try to lead a stress free life (pretty tough to do, right?)

  Good luck!

  Sending baby dust your way!! **********

QUESTION:
Does anyone have tips for trying to conceive?
We starting to try to get pregnant. Does anyone have tips to share and any good websites.

• ANSWER:
  I like to go to babycenter.com (I actually got that website from some other moms on here).

  Advice when TTC huh? The best advice I could give you is to not let TTC take over your whole life. At first you’ll feel like it will because you’ll be counting days and waiting to get your period but if you just let nature take it’s course without stressing hopefully that will help you conceive. A lot of people told me to do that and once I stopped letting TTC control my life, I got pregnant. It’s amazing what a stressfree environment can do. Good luck to you and keep us posted!!!

  ETA: Also, put a pillow under your butt after sex for 1/2 hr, helps the sperm travel to your egg faster.

QUESTION:
Any tips on trying to conceive after a miscarriage at 14 weeks ?
Hi, ive recently had a miscarriage at 14 weeks pregnant & just wondering if anyone has tips or advice about this please ?

• ANSWER:
  So sorry for your loss.I suffered a miscarriage at 12 weeks of pregnancy and was given conflicting advice of when to try for another baby,1 doctor told me 3-6 months and another told me to wait until my next period.I decided to at least wait a month,I needed time to get over the surgery and blood loss and time to grieve for my baby to be.I made sure for that first month,I ate well lots of fruit and vegetables like spinach etc…,I didn’t drink alcohol and tried to rest when my toddler had a nap in the afternoon.I started trying for another baby a month later but it took me six months to conceive.I worried continously in the first 3-4 months of the pregnancy and did every thing to make sure my baby was healthy.My georgous daughter was born naturally at 39 weeks of pregnancy and I went on to have another 2 children after this.Give yourself time to heal and you will know yourself when you are ready.We can only give you our advice but what is right for me or the next person might not be right for you.Take care and I hope that your next pregnancy is perfect for you,x

QUESTION:
Questions and Tips on trying to conceive a baby?
I am new to this whole idea of trying to have a baby. I just had a light bleeding and it is not time for my 28th day cycle yet and I am expercing some minor cramping and backache. Could be implanted now or what?

And what are the best tips or any good websites that could helpful?

Thanks

• ANSWER:
  How to get Pregnant Faster – Top Ten Tips

  1. Have sex three times a week.

  Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.
  2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.

  Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and don’t require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.

  3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).

  Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.

  4. Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.

  A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.

  5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.

  Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.

  6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
  Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.

  7. Don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
  This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.

  8. Have enjoyable sex.

  Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.

  9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.

  The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.

  10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
  Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.

  http://www.justmommies.com

QUESTION:
Can anyone share conceiving tips with me please?
My husband and I are trying to conceive. I was just wondering If anyone could share tips, that they have tried and tested. Thanks in advance

• ANSWER:
  First off- NO STRESS, don’t chart or take your temperature….just have fun with it. If you’ve been trying for a long time and you’re looking for help then I’d say start charting and taking your temperature but if you’re just starting to try then just have sex and have fun with it. When my husband and I started TTC I would stay in bed (or wherever we had sex) and put a pillow under my bottom and elevated my feet to help the sperm swim upward towards my cervix. I got pregnant 3 months after trying and I got pregnant the month I didn’t chart or write down every little thing. Good luck to you

QUESTION:
Trying to conceive tips ?
Any trying to conceive tips good websites out-there ? ones that really give good information ?

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QUESTION:
tips on best way to conceive i had miscarriage in may?
i had a miscarriage in may since then i have been trying to conceive with no such luck i was wondering if anyone got any good tips to help me conceive any advice would be great

• ANSWER:
  I can help you with this as it worked for me after I lost my daughter.
  You need to go out & buy this Ovulation Kit called First Response.
  This kits tests your urine each day after your cycle -
  when it turns Blue then you can have a baby.
  This kit doesn’t give you gender – it gives you a baby.
  So Good Luck! – Sorry to hear about your miscarriage.

QUESTION:
What are some ways or tips i can try to Conceive a baby?
I wanted to know if you can only get pregnant when ovulation occurs or if you can get pregnant at anytime of the month.

I was also wondering can I still conceive a baby being on top while having intercourse or should we do it missionary.

• ANSWER:
  Some tips on conceiving are to have sex missionary because if a man ejaculates in you while you are on top there is a chance that the semen can flow back out.

  Also after you have sex to elevate your bottom by propping it up on a pillow or 2 for at least 30 minutes after sex.

  Take prenatal vitiamins before, during and after your pregnancy. So it would be a good idea to start taking those while you are trying to conceive.

  Have sex 3 to 5 days before you ovulate, because sperm can live in you for up to 5 days.

  You can also try having sex in the mornign after you first wake up because it is told that a mans sperm is more potent in the morning.

  Try and be relaxed during sex and try not to think about conceiving when you are having sex. light some candles and play a little music and just relax. Try massages too.. that helps me relax.

  Hope these tips are what you were looking for.
  Good luck in TTC!!

QUESTION:
Tips on wanting to conceive a BOY?
Hi i have 2 girls n me and my partner would love a wee boy to add to our family and was wondeing if any1 knew of any tips on the best way to conceive a wee boy (apart fae the obvious) ie is there any remedies u can take or anything?
Thanks x

• ANSWER:
  There really is no way to conceive either one gender or the other. I think that science lets us choose the sex of the baby if you were to get artificial insemination ( i think the sperm can some way be enhanced with either XX or XY chromosomes) but I really don’t think there is any NATURAL way. There are old wives tales about what you can eat to make it go one way or the other, but yeah, I really don’t think they work.

QUESTION:
Trying To Conceive, Tips && Thoughts Please!?
My boyfriend and I have been trying for two months now. Not alot I know! I didn’t get my last period, only light spotting for a few hours about a week and a half ago and had crazy pregnancy symptoms. Took two home pregnancy tests, both came up negative. If the light spotting was in fact a period, could I get some tips on the best way to conceive. The false alarm has got me all riled up and I want this a hundred times more than I did before! Help!

• ANSWER:
  We’ve been trying for 5 months. Each month you’ll become more obsessed, crazier, and more demanding about sex around your ovulation if you don’t remind yourself to relax sometimes. Be aware, having a baby can and might take a while longer than you first expect. It’s totally normal for healthy couples to take a full year to get pregnant, after a year has gone by you should seek help with a fertility specialist. Start taking prenatal vitamins – that’s what my Dr. told me to do when trying to conceive. When you first get pregnant it’s important to have enought iron and stuff…

  You are fertile during ovulation, which is smack dab in the middle of your cycle, 2 weeks after the first day of your period. The egg is released from one of your ovaries and it’s a good idea to have sperm waiting for it in your falopian tube. This means you need to have sex before, during, and after your projected ovulation time. You can start watching for changes in your cervical mucous, too. I haven’t learned a thing from how mine looks… but you can research that if you want.

  Don’t be discouraged. There are many, many of us who are dying to get pregnant just like you.

QUESTION:
Are there any tips on how to conceive?
My fiance and I have been trying to get pregnant for the last three months and still every month I get my period. Are there any tips on how we could get pregnant?

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QUESTION:
trying to conceive tips?
my partner and i are going to start trying for a baby he is a non smoker n trains so he is physically fit.
i do smoke but am going to cut bk and hope to stop as i no it effects fertility i don do exercises but i hear that it helps.
what beginner exercises would help me conceive?
and i eat alot of chocolate will that effect my chances if so what food would boost my chances?

thank you for any tips you can give me xx

• ANSWER:
  Chocolate they say has a negative effect on fertility, as does anything else with caffeine in it, including pop, caffeinated tea, and coffee. I know eating less chocolate and eliminating coffee kills me, but it can help a lot if you are a smoker (I just quit basically, have only had a few throughout the whole month, but I know it can increase my chances greatly). You should avoid aspartame and any overly acidic fruit juices, and don’t eat TOO much dairy (normal amounts is okay, I just wouldn’t eat tons of cheese and milk stuff around ovulation, as this can effect your cervical mucus (the stuff that the sperm lives in inside of you). But if you have normal cervical mucus then you dont need to worry about that too much! As far as exercising I’d start with yoga, because it’s something you could continue through pregnancy! And it does wonders for stress, too! I’d also start taking a good prenatal vitamin everyday, and you may want to look into certain other vitamins for trying to conceive, like selenium, and omega 3 and omega 6. A good diet including veggies and nuts can do a lot for fertility. Baby carrots help with cervical mucus. Avoid alcohol and drink tons of water. using ovulation predictor kits makes trying to have a baby a lot easier, because it tells you the best days to have sex! If money isnt a problem for you, I’d buy the clearblue easy digital with the smiley face, and test around the middle of your cycle (I start testing 10 days after my period starts). Also, walmart has a very cheap (like ) BBT thermometer, which you can use to take your temperature every morning, you temperature will stay low before you ovulate, and rise noticeably after you ovulate. This can help you pinpoint what day you ovulated even if you do use OPK tests you still can’t be exactly sure when you ovulate. It’s best to have sex in the day leading up to ovulation, the day of O, and 2 or 3 days after, too! But I would google vitamins for trying to conceive, because you would be surprised what vitamins could do to help you conceive, i know i was surprised. There are even certain vitamins that smokers might benefit from such as vitamin C, just don’t take too much vitamin C because it could adversely effect your cervical mucus. Good luck!!

  -forgot to add that your partner could take a low dose of zinc, and omega 3 and 6, and amino acids such as l-arginine and l-carnitine are good for guys ttc! you can find all of that in the pharmacy section at most stores. and neither of you should eat too much red meat, all the unnatural man made hormones in our meat today can be bad for fertility, dark green veggies are great for fertility for you both.

QUESTION:
Me and my boyfriend are trying to conceive. Tips?
I have PCOS, so it makes it harder to conceive. After every time we try, he has me lay still for about a half hour to make sure nothing leaks out (it doesn’t). What else should we be doing?
We dont have to be married to have a kid, we love eachother and everything but we dont wana get married right away. There is no law sawing you should be married first.
There are stressful marriages, alot actually. and im stress free anyway

• ANSWER:
  I think it will be difficult for your boyfriend to conceive

QUESTION:
Can you give me some tips I am trying to conceive this month?
I been trying 5 months do you know any good tips to do from experiences

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QUESTION:
My boyfriend and I are trying to conceive a baby. Any tips?
I just got off the depo shot and I was wondering how long it usually takes. Any suggestions will help and be appreciated.

• ANSWER:
  I’ve been doing this research for myself recently so I will definitly share what i have learned. LOL it gets pretty graphic and scary and ALOT overwhelming, but just remember what the ultimate goal is and you’ll do just fine! i think i’m talking more to myself there than to anyone else. LOL

  Well the first step that i did was of course make an appt for both myself and my boyfriend at the local Family Clinic. Depending on how long you and your boyfriend have been trying to have children (we have been trying for 2 yrs) it’s always a great idea to rule out any difficulties that you may run into along the way. If you have been having some trouble. Getting a sperm count test done is One of the first things you should do just so you can avoid having numerous uneeded tests done.
  Getting a routine physical should not be ruled out but it of course is not neccesary.
  After you get off the depo shot the best time to get pregnant is the first couple of days before your menstrual cycle, during, and a couple of days after your cycle has ceased.
  there are other ways to find out when you are most fertile in this website i found.
  I’m not sure what other kind of info you might be looking for. i’m sure you don’t need any tips for the Grand Finale! LOL i will just leave you some websites i have run across and Wish you Good Luck!

  I wonder how many of these people saying you have to be married are actually in a happily committed relationship, and how many of them have children…? I’m not married and I am ready to have children. There is never any guarentee that your relationship is going to last but as long as you both are committed to being loving parents then you will still raise a healthy child. Good luck!

QUESTION:
im trying to conceive any helpfull tips?
my husband and i are trying to conceive any helpfull tips on things to do or take to make this baby come any faster lol besides love????? also thins to make me very fertile if any ??? thanks just looking for any tips at all

• ANSWER:
  maybe inserting the penis into the vagina

QUESTION:
why old people suggesting to take lots of pineapple to get pregnant fast? Is it true?tips to get conceive fast?
I am trying for 2 years to get a baby. i have cyst in my both ovaries and abdominal pain too. taking glucophage and dulphaston.pl help with some home remedies. we will try .thanks to all………

• ANSWER:
  no it doesn’t help you conceive, but it does help with implantation if you are to conceive. Pineapples contains bromelain, which can aid in implantation

QUESTION:
I am looking for advice and tips on the best ways when trying to conceive?
Hi I am looking for advice on the best on what to do when trying to conceive. I am looking for my sister. She is trying to have a baby and she has tried for awhile with no results. What would you suggest for someone trying to make a little bundle of joy. Thanks everyone!

• ANSWER:
  First off make sure she has had a gyno check-up lately.
  get her to start charting her cycle ei:taking temps every morning,checking cervical mucus and just monitoring symptoms in general.
  Also,suggest a good book on fertility-my favorite is “Taking charge of Your Fertility”.
  It’s very informative and helps out alot.
  you might tell her about Ovulation Predicting Tests if she hasn’t already tried them.
  The key is to relax(yeah right)and just really know your body and have good timing.
  Hope this helps:)

QUESTION:
tips to conceive a baby boy?
we are planning to have a baby and since we already have a girl now we want a boy!please help!

• ANSWER:
  Have intercourse the day before ovulation:)

QUESTION:
i wanna conceive please help me with some tips on how?
i stopped my birth control last week with one more week till my period pills. so i am not sure if ill ovulate this month but id like to try anyway and if not this month hopefully ill be successful next month. any tips on food to eat, s** positions ? different things anything, please help, thank you.
i am 28 and engaged.

• ANSWER:
  Are you married and stable? Or are you 17 and wanting a baby?
  Once I know, I’ll give you great pointers.

  Okay cool. I don’t let all the thumbs down get me down, since they’re all from pregnant teenagers anyway maybe, right?
  But, the best book I ever read that has changed my life and helped me pinpoint my most fertile days is “Taking Charge of Your Fertility”. I know it helped me get pregnant every time I was ready. My first pregnancy took 9 months to conceive, then I read the book, and my next pregnancies took under 3 months. Two pregnancies have been first tries. (I know that seems like a lot of pregnancies, but I had a stillborn and a 2nd trimester miscarriage) I think when you are ready, then you are ready now and the waiting game is hard. This book goes over temperature charting, and other indications that help you pinpoint ovulation. It also helps you pinpoint possible fertility issues that can be discussed with a doctor if necessary. I used to check it out from the library and then just bought my own copy. I lend it out to friends at least once to twice a year.
  As for going off birth control. I asked my uncle this very question. He is a respected OB/GYN and I see his partner. He said the birth control today should not effect fertility once you go off. 40 years ago it did because the doses of estrogen etc. were so much higher, but now they know better how hormones work. Both my sisters got pregnant 2 weeks after going off the pill.
  As for positions. I think boring missionary style is the best for conception. And it doesn’t hurt to have a pillow or rolled towel close by to put under your bum so you can keep in all the goods, know what I mean. Lay on your back or side for 30 minutes with pelvis elevated. It hasn’t failed me. As far as eating, you should start taking prenatal vitamins which are high in folic acid. This will help prevent birth defects once you do get pregnant. Also healthy cereal is often high in folic acid. Stay away from junk food and fast food with empty calories. It’s important to be healthy before conception as it is to be healthy during pregnancy.
  I wish you all the best.

QUESTION:
better ways and tips to conceive?
ive been on the pill for a while and i really want to conceive!
any tips on how to conceive quicker?
also how can i find out when my more fertile days are as my periods are normally irregular, its just the pill that has made them regular
my periods have NEVER been regular

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
Trying To Conceive Tips?
Hi. . . i’ve been trying to conceive for about 2 months and no luck yet I read on other questions it can take a while to conceive I just wanted to know some tips from pregnant women how to concieve faster. . . you comments and suggestion are greatly appreciated.

• ANSWER:
  Here you go… top 10 tips to getting pregnant sooner…

  http://www.justmommies.com/articles/how-to-get-pregnant.shtml

  Good luck!

QUESTION:
Trying to conceive tips please?!!!!?
Ive been trying for 6 months now no luck, had a missed period once but it turned out to be nothing

Anyone have any tips
Im eaten healthier not a smoker or drinker…i know it normally takes a for couples to conceive i just want to boost my chances

Anyone any eaten & drinking tips
Or anything

Thanks

• ANSWER:
  Yes I do!!!
  My hubby and I have a 2-year old daughter that was conceived the first month after getting off BC. My OBGYN told me I had really good hormones. My hormones have changed now and when I saw it had taken me longer than a month, LOL, I started searching for a fertility diet. I got tons of helpful tips and I am going to share them all with you.

  After looking all over the internet, I then went to Amazon.com and searched for a book. What I found was an awesome, most well researched book I have come across in a long time.
  There are a few books with the title “Fertility Diet”, but I got the one with the best customer reviews. It is written by Sarah Dobbyn.

  Some of the tips I learned from the book and online are:

  1. Eat as many organic fruits and vegetables as you can. Fruits and veggies you can peel are an exception. This is tough considering how expensive they are so I don’t always buy organic, but I do wash my fruits and veggies very well. I buy organic when I can.

  2. Stop eating/drinking dairy. I have found reports online that suggest switching to whole milk instead of low-fat and fat-free, I have found some compelling evidence on how dairy interferes with our cycles. Check out the site www.notmilk.com for more on this. This was hard for me to swallow too. Also watch how much soy you eat/drink. Try not to have more than 3 servings of soy a week.

  3. Take your Vitamins- A good prenantal is recommended. Some other good ones to consider are your B vitamins and of course folic acid, the most important one when TTC. You should take B6 and your man should take B12. You should stay away from too much Vit. C cause it can dry up you cervical mucus, your man however, needs plenty of this! He needs about 1,000 mg. of Vitamin C a day. Vitamin E is a good one for both of you. Lastly, take flaxseed oil and fish oil .

  4. Stop eating all foods and drinks that contain Aspartame! Seriously! It is known to have contraceptibe properties!

  5. Watch your intake of animal fats. Eat very lean cuts of meat.

  6. Watch how much fish you eat that contains high amounts of mercury, even when trying to conceive. You can eat Sardines, Wild Alaskan Salmon, and Light canned tuna about 2 times a week.

  7. Lay off fried foods.

  8. Lay off processed foods/junk foods

  9. Do not take echinacea, ginkgo biloba, and St. John’s Wort. These herbs are very bad for conception!

  10. Watch your sugar intake. Switch to stevia, xylitol, honey, or agave.

  11. Eat more beans and nuts as your protein source.

  12. Stay away from Peas!!!! This is a vegetable that acts as a contraceptive. I’m serious!

  13. Stop drinking alcohol, tonic, coffee/caffeinne, soda (even diet as it contains aspartame), and milk especially fat-free.

  14. Watch your weight. Your BMI should be between 20-24. You can figure out yours on this site:

  http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/

  15. Get adequate sleep- 7-9 hours every night. This helps resest human growth hormone which is very important when trying to conceive.

  16. Drink plenty of water, a minimun of 8 glasses a day (something I’m sure you’re already doing).

  17. Exercise! Not too much though. Only about an hour a day and do not exceed 8 hours a week if you want to conceive.

  18. Eat sunflower seeds, sesame seeds, and flaxseeds (among others)

  19. take maca

  Basically eat as clean and natural as possible eating a plant based diet- lots of salads and fresh fruits and vegetables. Dress your veggies and salads with organic, cold-pressed oils like extra virgin olive oil, coconut oil, grapeseed oil, flax seed oil, etc.
  Try not to think too much about conceiving. If you follow these rules and be healthy it will happen soon enough. There is no deadline on when it happens. If you worry too much about that it will take longer.

  This is a lot of information I know, but I do believe this info is spot on! I read nearly 400 pages of the information presented in this book, not to mention countless websites. I am not taking all of this advice as there is a lot of food restrictions, but I do what I can and I have noticed I look and feel better, not to mention I’ve lost some weight!

  I hope this helps! I also hope you and I get our BFP really soon! Best of luck!

QUESTION:
tips to help conceive, what worked for you?
I have been ttc my 3rd child now for 8 months with no luck, i know about ovulation, and the temping etc, I would just like to know if there are any strange or unusual tips any one has that worked for them, thankyou

• ANSWER:
  Yep after 18 months of trying, we gave up on conceiving naturally and were about to make an appt for fertility treatment, we threw out the OPK tests, thermometers, calendars, and all the other bits and bobs, headed off for a drunken indulgent weekend and came back knocked up.
  Im sure it doesn’t work for everyone but we thanked our lucky stars is did for us.

  Good Luck with your endeavor.

QUESTION:
My husband I have been trying to conceive for 8 months and no baby, any fertility tips?
I really though I was pregnant this month, but I ended up getting my period yet again! I’m frustrated and we both really want a baby. He has a three month business trip coming up in a few months and were hoping I’m pregnant by then. Any tips that worked for any of you on speeding up this process?
Cheryl was that sweet potatos or yams? I see a lot of info on yams and not as much on sweet potatos.

• ANSWER:
  for you and the other lady, you can google this and check it out for yourself. SWEET POTATOES, yes you read that right. eat them, take the sweet potatoe extract in pill form, or they even have it in a paste that you put directly on your abdomen. I have twin boys thanks to eating sweet potatoes, my friend is currently 6mo prego with twin girls from using the paste. If you haven’t seen the theme, multiples are very likely.

QUESTION:
Trying to conceive…can anyone give me any hints or tips on how to get the process going?
This was our first month TTC, this will be our second child. No pregnancy this month.The first baby was a surprise, so Im not sure at all how to go about actually planning conception. Ive read things about charting temperatures, cervical mucus, etc. Sort of all a blur to me. Does anyone have any good tips or tricks persay? Or am I better off just having sex everyday?

• ANSWER:
  Yes, I got pregnant after only 5 weeks of trying. I’m 31 now and my daughter is 10 months old (she’s my 1st baby) What I did was take one Geritol complete multi-vitamin daily and I gave my man S.S.S. Tonic about 3x a week. We had sex whenever we wanted to (no schedule) and it happened so fast. I think that me taking the Geritol and him taking the S.S.S. Tonic helped A LOT because the only reason I tried these products is because I know others who have used it and it worked for them too. I tried it and I got pregnant FAST.

QUESTION:
trying to conceive. Any tips that worked for you?
Me and my partner have just stared trying to conceive our first child. we are both 20 and quite healthy. I have just came off my pill and started my period today my cycle is normally every 28-29 days. I am also considering taking folic acid is this a good idea? Are there any techniques that worked for you and how long did it take you to conceive while trying?

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
what are some tips on trying to conceive?
i’ve been trying too long =(
i have been trying too conceive for a while now and no luck. .

• ANSWER:
  hi lady
  drink about 1.5 litres of water in the morning
  i heard this through one of the member in yahoo who referred from some site.
  thanks to tat person
  lets do and hope for best